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 Posted: Thu Jul 03, 2008 12:21 pm
Okay, I'm just going to lay it out.
Last week I let my boyfriend slip into me, but we didn't do anything. I was just curious of how it felt. Last weekend on Sunday I let him slip into me and we had unprotected sex, but he didn't climax in me since he did the withdraw and he only moved in me twice. I'm positive that he pre-c** in me a few times that he slipped into me during last week and Sunday.
Today I let my boyfriend give me a hand-job, but I started to bleed. He wasn't being rough at all just gentle and slow. All of a sudden I started bleeding pretty badly and I thought it was my period since it was coming really fast and I started getting cramps, but they weren't that bad just tiny ones. It turns out that the bleeding had stopped after awhile, which made me really sad knowing that I don't have my period. Is it normal to have blood come out like a period and stop?
Right now we are preparing for just in case I am pregnant. If I am than I'll be getting an abortion since I'm still in school and I haven't told my mom and she would freak plus I don't have the time to go through 9 months of being pregnant. I have checked out the parenthood website and other information with my boyfriend. Tomorrow I'll be going to my friend's house and buying a 2 pregnancy test just in case one says something different.
Last night I was talking to my boyfriend and he was telling me he found out that there is a abortion pill (he read like 20 pages of it). I never knew about this and I was wondering if this is something new that just came out?
Please do not judge me by what I'm doing and what I have decided.
EDITED: I toke my test and it said I am not pregnant, which makes me very happy. But just in case my period doesn't come I'll be taking another one again.
EDITED: My period came this morning, so I'm so happy. Later I'll be hurting TT.TT
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Posted: Thu Jul 03, 2008 7:27 pm
Well, we can't diagnose you being pregnant, you'll have to get tested. Even though you're taking a pregnancy test, you may want to consider going to the doctor and asking for a blood test. HcG levels in urine are sometimes not accurate, blood is better if it is a quantitative test. Just be all like, "I just want to make sure."
And, its not an 'abortion pill', per say. Its called Plan B, for after you have unprotected sex. Though, I'm not sure the time frame on it. Unless your boyfriend found something else.
Its good that you have thought this through and no body is going to judge you. Its your body, life, and decision. If someone thinks badly of you, well, they can go away. If you do decide fully on an abortion, know that to do so they may have to tell your parents about it. I'm not all sure on the rules about it, but you might want to go to the Abortion Subforum/Sticky thing just to read more.
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Posted: Thu Jul 03, 2008 8:51 pm
That's good that you know you can be pregnant even if he does not ejaculate in you. But if you don't want to be pregnant right now, you need to stop having unprotected sex. It's that simple. It doesn't matter if you were curious about how it felt. If you're mature enough and ready to do anything sexual, you're ready to be smart and safe about it. I know it can be difficult to control your hormones, but it can be done!
You can take a home pregnancy test as early as the first day of your missed period, but you should visit an ob-gyn. She would be able to give you a pregnancy test, a pap, birth control, and information.
If you are pregnant, you can have an abortion, and yes, there is something called the "abortion pill." The "abortion pill" is often confused with Plan B, but they are two different things. The abortion pill can be taken within the first few weeks of pregnancy, where the Plan B pill needs to be taken within 72 of the sexual act. Abortion and Plan B are no substitute for birth control though, so make sure you get birth control and use it before doing anything sexual again.
As for the bleeding, mention it to the ob-gyn when you go in. The v****a can bleed quite a bit due to scratches from fingernails, rips from being too rough, tears from not having enough lubrication, etc.
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Posted: Fri Jul 04, 2008 9:58 am
Preston Trelsly Well, we can't diagnose you being pregnant, you'll have to get tested. Even though you're taking a pregnancy test, you may want to consider going to the doctor and asking for a blood test. HcG levels in urine are sometimes not accurate, blood is better if it is a quantitative test. Just be all like, "I just want to make sure." And, its not an 'abortion pill', per say. Its called Plan B, for after you have unprotected sex. Though, I'm not sure the time frame on it. Unless your boyfriend found something else. Its good that you have thought this through and no body is going to judge you. Its your body, life, and decision. If someone thinks badly of you, well, they can go away. If you do decide fully on an abortion, know that to do so they may have to tell your parents about it. I'm not all sure on the rules about it, but you might want to go to the Abortion Subforum/Sticky thing just to read more.
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Posted: Fri Jul 04, 2008 10:15 am
LorienLlewellyn That's good that you know you can be pregnant even if he does not ejaculate in you. But if you don't want to be pregnant right now, you need to stop having unprotected sex. It's that simple. It doesn't matter if you were curious about how it felt. If you're mature enough and ready to do anything sexual, you're ready to be smart and safe about it. I know it can be difficult to control your hormones, but it can be done! You can take a home pregnancy test as early as the first day of your missed period, but you should visit an ob-gyn. She would be able to give you a pregnancy test, a pap, birth control, and information. If you are pregnant, you can have an abortion, and yes, there is something called the "abortion pill." The "abortion pill" is often confused with Plan B, but they are two different things. The abortion pill can be taken within the first few weeks of pregnancy, where the Plan B pill needs to be taken within 72 of the sexual act. Abortion and Plan B are no substitute for birth control though, so make sure you get birth control and use it before doing anything sexual again. As for the bleeding, mention it to the ob-gyn when you go in. The v****a can bleed quite a bit due to scratches from fingernails, rips from being too rough, tears from not having enough lubrication, etc.
Well, it's hard for me to tell when my period comes because it's irregular. One month it can start at the beginning of the month and another month it can start at the end of the month or the middle of the month. My boyfriend use to keep track of it till he got really busy with work. But I have a feeling that it is late.
I was suppose to have an physical check up this month, but my mom canceled it and changed it to September. The last time I went to the doctor, the doctor was trying to get me on birth control pills, but my mom told her no since I wasn't sexually active at the time.
I know about scratches from the fingernails and all, but the blood looked and flowed out like my period. When I normal get scratched it's a simple bleeding that's very light.
Okies, I understand. I wasn't sure if there was an abortion pill because it was my first time hearing about it. Thank you for that information.
Well, I'm 17 and just in case I might be I don't know how to get birth control and a abortion without my mom knowing. I heard that there might be some medical centers that will keep it on the down low, but do they have to tell my mom about it anyway?
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Posted: Fri Jul 04, 2008 10:39 am
FallenAngelRain I just had unprotected sex once and I really didn't mean to (Even though I should have been smarter about that). Stuff just happens and next time I'll be learning from our mistakes.
Well, it's hard for me to tell when my period comes because it's irregular. One month it can start at the beginning of the month and another month it can start at the end of the month or the middle of the month. My boyfriend use to keep track of it till he got really busy with work. I was suppose to have an physical check up this month, but my mom canceled it and changed it to September. The last time I went to the doctor, the doctor was trying to get me on birth control pills, but my mom told her no since I wasn't sexually active at the time.
I know about scratches from the fingernails and all, but the blood looked and flowed out like my period. When I normal get scratched it's a simple bleeding that's very light.
Okies, I understand. I wasn't sure if there was an abortion pill because it was my first time hearing about it. Thank you for that information.
Well, I'm 17 and just in case I might be I don't know how to get birth control and a abortion without my mom knowing. I heard that there might be some medical centers that will keep it on the down low, but do they have to tell my mom about it anyway? I believe whether or not they have to tell your parents about an abortion varies depending on your state's laws, but I am not sure. Your best bet is to look into Family Planning or Planned Parenthood. Both will give you free or low cost paps, pregnancy tests, and birth control without telling your parents. But if you are pregnant, you'll have to visit Planned Parenthood (last I knew Family Planning did not perform abortions) and ask what their policy is for telling parents. To search for a Planned Parenthood near you, visit www.plannedparenthood.org If you need help keeping track of your period, visit www.mymonthlycycles.com
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Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 5:38 pm
LorienLlewellyn FallenAngelRain I just had unprotected sex once and I really didn't mean to (Even though I should have been smarter about that). Stuff just happens and next time I'll be learning from our mistakes.
Well, it's hard for me to tell when my period comes because it's irregular. One month it can start at the beginning of the month and another month it can start at the end of the month or the middle of the month. My boyfriend use to keep track of it till he got really busy with work. I was suppose to have an physical check up this month, but my mom canceled it and changed it to September. The last time I went to the doctor, the doctor was trying to get me on birth control pills, but my mom told her no since I wasn't sexually active at the time.
I know about scratches from the fingernails and all, but the blood looked and flowed out like my period. When I normal get scratched it's a simple bleeding that's very light.
Okies, I understand. I wasn't sure if there was an abortion pill because it was my first time hearing about it. Thank you for that information.
Well, I'm 17 and just in case I might be I don't know how to get birth control and a abortion without my mom knowing. I heard that there might be some medical centers that will keep it on the down low, but do they have to tell my mom about it anyway? I believe whether or not they have to tell your parents about an abortion varies depending on your state's laws, but I am not sure. Your best bet is to look into Family Planning or Planned Parenthood. Both will give you free or low cost paps, pregnancy tests, and birth control without telling your parents. But if you are pregnant, you'll have to visit Planned Parenthood (last I knew Family Planning did not perform abortions) and ask what their policy is for telling parents. To search for a Planned Parenthood near you, visit www.plannedparenthood.org If you need help keeping track of your period, visit www.mymonthlycycles.com
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