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 Posted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 11:49 am
hi, im chloe.
i get sad quite often.
i have a few problems in my life, such as cutting,
but right now i don't want to type up all my problems im too nervouse.
for the last couple of weeks i just feel sad.
My dad drinks and whenever he did i woulld always yell at him, but i feel so guilty lately because it doesn't even matter if he's drunk or not, i always yell at him, or just act mad around him.i don' know whats wrong with me.
besides all this though, i have helped 2 people to quit cutting ( i know-hypocrite aren't i?) and i helped this one guy to quit being annorexic! he eats every day now! smile
im 14, but books such as the DSM (the bible of psychiatry/psychology still deeply interest me. I want to be a psychologist some day! yay!
so, talk to me, i think we would make good buddies!
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Posted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 1:47 pm
-blink blink-
>Why do you want to be a pyscologist if you cut?<
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Posted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 4:58 pm
-cutting isn't always due to a mental disturbance-
There's a BIBLE on psychology!? AH! Where can I get it!?
I'd love to be your buddy. heart Just promise if something is bugging you, you tell me so I can try to help, okay?
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Posted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 6:37 pm
Hi Chloe, i'm iFairy call me fairy.
I don't know if this will help at all. My father has been is abusive, emotionally and psysically. I grew up with yelling and fighting as part of my everyday life. The thing I've found is that I am unable to forgive him, even when he is nice I still have a lot of anger in me towards him because I am unable to forget what his said and done. Maybe you have the same problem with your father? If you get upset because he drinks then its bound to make you upset, even when he not drunk. It's never an easy thing realising the people tht are mean to be there to help look after and support you have flaws and major ones.
There is no simple answer, and perhaps you cut as a way to control that? I'm not judging you at all for it, I turned to cutting when I was your age because I couldn't cope with my life, I was young and I wasn't ready.
Being a hypocrite is a good thing, you learn from your experiences and help people not to make the same mistake, its being a friend and you'd be wrong not to do it, you're a good person. Despite all that happens its an experience and it is something that your be able to help people with more when your a psychologist, it means more when someone can relate to anothers problems.... without textbook talking.
loves
iFairy
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Posted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 6:59 pm
darkening-soul27 -cutting isn't always due to a mental disturbance- There's a BIBLE on psychology!? AH! Where can I get it!? I'd love to be your buddy. heart Just promise if something is bugging you, you tell me so I can try to help, okay? >I know that.. !<
scream
>But I didn't.. I mean I meant.. <
>It stebebushithendfl.. <
-sigh-
T T
>Nevermind.<
>Sorry.<
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Posted: Sun Jun 29, 2008 5:47 am
darkening-soul27 -cutting isn't always due to a mental disturbance- There's a BIBLE on psychology!? AH! Where can I get it!? I'd love to be your buddy. heart Just promise if something is bugging you, you tell me so I can try to help, okay?
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Posted: Sun Jun 29, 2008 6:46 am
iFairyx darkening-soul27 -cutting isn't always due to a mental disturbance- There's a BIBLE on psychology!? AH! Where can I get it!? I'd love to be your buddy. heart Just promise if something is bugging you, you tell me so I can try to help, okay? ..
>What a mouthful.<
>Well.. <
>You may have a point.<
>But I swear to God, if one more shrink tells me it's JUST A PHASE,<
>I'm gonna scoop out their eyeballs.<
>Oh. This was off the topi, eh, Soul?<
>I'm sorry!<
> crying <
>So, CHLOE.<
>What kind of music do you liek, if at all.. ???<
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Posted: Sun Jun 29, 2008 4:14 pm
ty all!
It's ok.
I like music-especially old hardcore punk and i like marilyn manson, nirvana, the list goes on and on.
I like emo music.
Ty for asking-music is my life.
Also-ty about the thing about the father ifairy-that was very kind of you, i was glad to get some advice-i'v been having such a hard time lately.
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Posted: Sun Jun 29, 2008 4:43 pm
Ms komatsu ty all! It's ok. I like music-especially old hardcore punk and i like marilyn manson, nirvana, the list goes on and on. I like emo music. Ty for asking-music is my life. Also-ty about the thing about the father ifairy-that was very kind of you, i was glad to get some advice-i'v been having such a hard time lately. >You're welcome.<
>Music is my life as well.<
>I liek loud, heavy stuff.<
>Lamb of God and Bullet for my Valentine, for an example.<
>And I'm sorry about your dad.<
>I hope things get reallyyyyy better.. !<
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Posted: Mon Jun 30, 2008 9:30 am
^_^
Even though it may seem hard to share problems, if you don't tell us then it'll be hard to help 3nodding We're here for you!
Maybe next time you're sad, you could go for a walk outside or do things that you enjoy. That always helps me become happy.
If you feel bad about yelling at your dad, maybe every once in a while you could find something good about him and say something nice.
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Posted: Mon Jun 30, 2008 11:46 am
You don't need to fear talking here. Not just because we're a bunch of nice people (like flowers, unless your allergic) but because its gaia, we don't know who you really are nor do you know us. I know that thats always put as a negative thing but I mean it in a good way. Should you get upset with what someone says, you can leave and never have to face them again, although I doubt there would be any need for it, you can post in confidence.
loves
iFairy
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