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 Posted: Tue Jun 10, 2008 6:48 pm
Why!?... Every time me and the love of my life talk we end up fighting.... because of something I say!... The other day me and him were playing Guitar hero together... We are both VERY competitive and wont admit if we suck. So we were playing around making fun of each other and then he pissed me off because he called me cocky and said I wasnt as good as I thought I was and that he was going to cream my a**. So my friend called me and I answered and I havent talked to her in like 4 months... She asked what I was doing and these are my exact words "Playing Guitar hero with a cocky a** mother ******** that doesnt know what hes talking about" He gets up throws the guitar down turns off the tv and walks out.... I always say things that piss him off and it makes me so....UUGGGHHH!!!!!!!!!!.... So recently I've been going through a spurt of depression and so I've kind of resorted to calling myself names and putting myself down... well sometimes it really is true. After me and him got over that (I know its childish) we were fine the rest of the day. Well today when we hung out me and my best friend were trying to get him to walk with us somewhere and he wouldnt. So he had just rolled a cig. and was needing a lighter. I ran downstairs and got the only one in his house and brought it upstairs. I was like "You want it? huh? do you? walk with us then" and he went to his stove and lit it from there... So I put the lighter up to his arm and lit it... It burnt a bit of his hair (no biggy right? WRONG!) he got sooooo pissed... and I'm so effing stupid for doing it... why!?.... Why do I do and say things like this.... How can I stop saying stupid things!? and its only been happening lately... before we were always just fine.....GRR!! Help please it makes me want to cry
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Posted: Tue Jun 10, 2008 6:49 pm
I realize that sounds pretty whiny but I cant help it... I am FKN stupid though
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Posted: Tue Jun 10, 2008 7:14 pm
I don't think that you are stupid... I think that he is a big baby for just walking away or starting a fight over something that you say. I think that he needs to get over it and TALK about it, not throw things and storm out of the room. When he does that you should TALK to him about it and tell him how you feel when he storms off like that and that if you do something to make him that mad he should TALK to you about it before storming off. Because sometimes we say things that we don't really mean, either when we are actually angry or when we mean it as a joke. It used to be a problem with me and my boyfriend but we talked about it and now we point it out when we do it. It really does relieve a lot of tension. 3nodding
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Posted: Tue Jun 10, 2008 10:09 pm
Try not to call him names, or start fights with him. So he will not call you names and this will go on...
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Posted: Tue Jun 10, 2008 11:55 pm
It may not have been best to have burnt him but what you did is exactly what I would have done ... Tho most all my friends know that I like to be sarcastic and probably wouldn't take it the same way that he did
My advice would be that next time he says something like that about you *that your cocky* get mad at him you throw something and storm out ~ show him how it feels ~ to add a little bit more to the drama, cry, ~ 98% of men HATE it when girls cry ~ so you'd have to do it when he can see or hear it
The reason your doing it may be in your mind ... your mad at him for leaving and don't really want to admit this to him so instead you lash out a bit ~ and it's only natural for him to want to lash back
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Posted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 10:04 am
@ Kujujuwa.... Yeah I hate going after him because I dont want him to feel like I'm following him... if he goes some where I'll stay right where I'm at because I really dont want to feel like a lost puppy... I know how that feels and I HATE it when guys follow me EVERYWHERE because they cant just be their own person and do their own thing they have to do what I'M doing you know?
@ Shani ... Well I didnt start calling him names... well at least I dont think I did... I dont really remember... but we always call eachother names and we're always kidding around and we always know that we're kidding around but its when he gets serious and says 'your not as good as you say you are' and stuff like that... its like 'just because I play on controller instead of guitar doesnt mean I'm not good... its just that I'm good in a different way'
@ Katt Smith..... Lol that made me laugh... see because you and I... we think alike.... (I guess...) lol and since you said that you would have done that too... made me laugh... My friends including him... know I'm sarcastic and like I said we always do stuff to eachother but we dont really mean it. and maybe I am mad at him for leaving... I've never thought of it like that... because it only did start happening when I figured out that he was leaving... but the thing is... I thought I was sad... not angry...
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Posted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 10:37 am
It doesn't really matter who started, i am not a judge. Just don't continue with this insult. If he tells you stuff like you are no good, explain to him why it isn't true without insults, and tell him it hurt to hear him says stuff like that.
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Posted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 11:12 am
I agree with everyone here. he's being a baby. he wants to call you names yet when you do it back at him he gets angry? he's acting like a kid. you guys are going to have to talk. either he stops with his insults or he just takes it like a man. putting yourself down is the worst possible thing you could do specially infront of him because if he knows that if you feel guilty most of the time that's what he will try to do to get his way with anything.
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Posted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 5:25 pm
meleny7 I agree with everyone here. he's being a baby. he wants to call you names yet when you do it back at him he gets angry? he's acting like a kid. you guys are going to have to talk. either he stops with his insults or he just takes it like a man. putting yourself down is the worst possible thing you could do specially infront of him because if he knows that if you feel guilty most of the time that's what he will try to do to get his way with anything.
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Posted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 11:09 pm
Sadness and anger are both emotions that can be confused ... and combined ...
When some *like me* people get really sad they tend to get upset with themselves that they are sad and don't like being upset with themselves *cuz it's not their fault* and get mad at the person that made them sad
Some other people tend to get upset when someone leaves their life for awhile cuz it's harder to miss them if your mad at them ... tho in the long run this is not good ... leaving each other angry can make the person even more upset ... but instead of at the situation they get mad at themselves making the whole thing even worse.
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Posted: Thu Jun 12, 2008 1:29 am
JJ is super duper meleny7 I agree with everyone here. he's being a baby. he wants to call you names yet when you do it back at him he gets angry? he's acting like a kid. you guys are going to have to talk. either he stops with his insults or he just takes it like a man. putting yourself down is the worst possible thing you could do specially infront of him because if he knows that if you feel guilty most of the time that's what he will try to do to get his way with anything. great minds think alike. xd
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Posted: Thu Jun 12, 2008 4:34 am
Oh no... I never wanted you to follow him. I was just saying that you need to talk about it. Let him know how you feel, and not by doing the same to him because that will only make the matters worse. You need to tell him what you feel and what he did to make you feel that way. That way you can mature and allow your relationship to grow stronger because you can talk about how you feel.
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Posted: Thu Jun 12, 2008 5:53 am
hHhhmmm..
okay for a confirmer like me...(I'm really feeling it through my blood ! xd )
it's hard to say but...
I AGREE W/ EVERYONE...! ! ! rofl rofl
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Posted: Thu Jun 12, 2008 10:09 am
Lol thank you everyone.... Yeah I dont want to be mad at him... I talked to his mom and she said somethings that made me feel sooo happy!.... she said that I would be great for him but not right now (to her I'm way to young) and she said some other things along those lines
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Posted: Thu Jun 12, 2008 1:01 pm
X_XLoned-ErectionX_X Lol thank you everyone.... Yeah I dont want to be mad at him... I talked to his mom and she said somethings that made me feel sooo happy!.... she said that I would be great for him but not right now (to her I'm way to young) and she said some other things along those lines That is good to hear smile
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