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Posted: Mon Sep 05, 2005 4:14 am
Yo, lol. Well I've noticed something. I cannot sleep at another person house. Infact at sleepovers I get so uncomfortable that I have walked five or more miles at two o'clock in the morning just to get home and sleep in my own bed.
Is this normal? neutral
I mean, because my bed is the floor, so why the hell wouldst I care about sleeping at another persons house?
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Posted: Mon Sep 05, 2005 4:19 am
I always sleep better in my own bed, except when its with my girlfriend. Basically, I believe you sleep better in a familar environment that you feel safe in.
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Posted: Mon Sep 05, 2005 8:48 am
How old are you? I don't think it's anything to get too worried about. Lots of people have trouble sleeping at someone else's house. I've discovered at sleepovers I'm always last asleep and first awake, I can never sleep more than a few hours. If in continues you and really botheres you then mabye your doctor can give you something, even if it's just advice, to help you relax.
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Posted: Mon Sep 05, 2005 10:04 am
[CherryBlossom] How old are you? I don''t think it''s anything to get too worried about. Lots of people have trouble sleeping at someone else''s house. I''ve discovered at sleepovers I''m always last asleep and first awake, I can never sleep more than a few hours. If in continues you and really botheres you then mabye your doctor can give you something, even if it''s just advice, to help you relax. Agreed. I have a hard time sleeping away from home too. Often, if I''m out camping, I have to sleep facing a certain direction (like have my sleeping bag a certain way) and I have to be on a certain side of the tent, or else I will wake up really nauseous and will be sick. So, I don''t go camping very often. sweatdrop I''d say your worries are normal, but if you''re bothered enough that you get up at 2 am to walk home for 5 miles, you might want to talk to your doctor about it, and see if there''s anything they can do for you.
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Posted: Mon Sep 05, 2005 8:28 pm
I think it's probably a safety issue for you. Did something once happen while you were away from the house? Usually it's something that is implanted in your head when you are pretty young. It could have even been something that you heard when you were little and don't remember. When you are there just try and remember that your friends live in these houses and feel safe and comfortable there so you can to.
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Posted: Sun Nov 06, 2005 8:45 am
Either that or....you're just a bit too self conscious. For example, at home, it doesn't matter if you drool or snore like a pig. But it might when you're at some place else, especially with someone that's you don't often sleep with.
But hey, that person might be worrying about the same thing or even if they don't, they might have worse manners than yours!! ^^ Don't worry so much and everyting would be fine.
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Posted: Sun Dec 11, 2005 4:39 pm
I think that it's just homesickness, you would rather be at home and you feel more comfortable there. When you are at somebody elses house there are different surroundings that make you uncomfortable
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Posted: Mon Dec 12, 2005 8:55 pm
I have this problem too. I'm just not comfortable at other peoples' places. It takes me forever to fall asleep, I often wake up at intervals during the night, and I always wake up way earlier than I normally would. I don't think it's abnormal, I think it's just a comfort thing. If you can, just avoid sleepovers, since you know you don't like them.
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Posted: Tue Dec 13, 2005 9:06 am
A lot of people have this problem. I do feel uncomfortable sleeping in someone else's house because I can't control what I do in my sleep (like drooling, farting, getting into ridiculously humerous positions, etc...). I also get anxiety about the waking up process. For example, if I am the first one up, what can I do in someone else's home until they wake up? If I am in my house, I can hang out on the computer or watch TV, but is it ok to do that in someone else's home? Or what if I wake up late and everyone has been waiting for me?
Thankfully, I'm passed the age of "sleepovers." I do occasionally get invited as a couple to stay at another couple's cabin for a weekend or something, but we usually get our own rooms. Plus, if it's away from the city, I don't feel so bad going outside and taking a walk or something.
As for just sleeping elsewhere without the social anxiety, I'm perfectly fine with that. You don't move over a dozen times in your lifetime (not to mention frequent travelling and staying in more hotels than I could count in my head) without getting some sort of sleeping flexibility.
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Posted: Wed Dec 14, 2005 1:30 pm
Don't worry. It's normal for people to feel uncomfortable in other people's houses. I have that problem too and how I solve it is just by bringing something that reminds me of home(like a picture or book). What I'm trying to say is that you may just feel homesick without sleeping in your own bed and you could just do something to remind you of home.
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Posted: Wed Dec 14, 2005 1:49 pm
donuttheninja I always sleep better in my own bed, except when its with my girlfriend. Basically, I believe you sleep better in a familar environment that you feel safe in. I think so also.
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Posted: Tue Jan 24, 2006 10:47 am
Makoto_Tsukawaki Either that or....you're just a bit too self conscious. For example, at home, it doesn't matter if you drool or snore like a pig. But it might when you're at some place else, especially with someone that's you don't often sleep with. But hey, that person might be worrying about the same thing or even if they don't, they might have worse manners than yours!! ^^ Don't worry so much and everyting would be fine. Agreed. I'm the same way except when I'm with my boyfriend. It's a comfort issue for me.
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Posted: Sun Jul 30, 2006 7:24 am
[.Julie Booly.] I think that it's just homesickness, you would rather be at home and you feel more comfortable there. When you are at somebody elses house there are different surroundings that make you uncomfortable -Hugs-
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Posted: Sun Jul 30, 2006 11:14 am
requietum ac adamo amor Yo, lol. Well I've noticed something. I cannot sleep at another person house. Infact at sleepovers I get so uncomfortable that I have walked five or more miles at two o'clock in the morning just to get home and sleep in my own bed. Is this normal? neutral I mean, because my bed is the floor, so why the hell wouldst I care about sleeping at another persons house? i dont like sleeping at other peoples houses i mean i use to alot i would go weeks without sleeping at home.but i started hating it.
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Posted: Mon Jul 31, 2006 5:28 am
It's always awkward at sleepovers for me, because i usually get up around 4 am, when i have no alarm clock, i get up around 6, but still, all the people in the sleepover get up aroun 9 and 10, so, i'm stuck, if you start spending the night over at someone elses house more often, you'll get used to it.
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