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first of all if your freinds are bugging you about it as much as you say they are, your ability to hide it may not be as good as you think. seems like they at least suspect something and are trying to push you into action as you don't seem to be heading that way by yourself.

secondly i would take the risk and ask her. i know from personal experience what happens when you wait for it to occur itself; nothing. Worst case scenario she will say no, which leaves you in the same boat you are now but without regret later on for being such a chickenshit. Besides from what it sounds like, it may be her attempt to get you to move without being direct.
lets say she feels the person she likes doen't like her. she could use this to see her options on the matter (by beng vague, she may hope more then one responds) or this situation will cause them to react as they would feel pressured.

just my opinion on the situation you described

Wow, that blows. Commiserations man, I'm sure you'll find the one for you eventually though, there's someone out there for everyone. It's kinda odd for her to just strait out tell you like that though....either that or the people I know are all too damn polite. I must admit that I can relate to your situation somewhat from past experience v_v.

In any case, at least now you don't need to fret about the whole situation, that's one good thing right?

I have one piece of advice:

Don't let relationships rule your life. Even if you can't find someone for you, it doesn't mean your life is over. No matter what happens, you'll still be there (until you die), and that's what matters the most.


Personally, I would prefer to never get into a relationship of that sort. But this is coming from someone who wishes he looked like this, so it's probably best not to base your way of life off of mine.

I can honestly say that I can't relate at all, but aside from that, I agree with everything Zeo said. Enduring hardships will make you stronger (not physically). It is through such things that my soul has become an unbreakable force of pure willpower. Like Ganondorf's. And.....Ganon...dorf's? Hmm.....

:0 I just did a double take with a side order of gasp! domokun I'm not sure if that's a thumbs up or a thumbs down. Either way, I have decided to give you a gift for such brave actions. BEHOLD! SUPPORT! One of the most useful gifts a person can get. And so, my support has been handed down unto thee. Use it wisely, for it is a rare find among men. pirate

WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! Support! Unlike what I get from my buttholey friend Patrick... (xjabberx)

wow seems i missed a lot while trying to deal with my own relationship probelms. hm... i wonder why none of the female members gave there advice..