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 Posted: Thu May 15, 2008 10:21 pm
Alright, well, me and my boyfriend (I'm 17, he's 19) have been together for just over 2 years. We started having sex together about 4 months after we started going out. (so that would have made me 14 and him 17, since I remember it being half a month after his birthday and a month before mine)(and just so everyone knows, I live in Manitoba, Canada; the law for sex was age 14 until last year, now the legal age for sex is 16)
He took my virginity and I took his. So these past 2 years we've been the only ones either of us have slept with, and with that, have learned a lot about sex and each other sexually. Which comes to my conclusion: I just resently found something that is.. totally amazing. It works for me. It's the best thing I could have imagined.
BUT, the problem is.. I only feel comfortable doing it with my boyfriend. I feel if we ever break up, and I hook up with someone else, I would never be able to tell them this...
The "this" is that I just love getting stimulated in 3 places at the same time. The places being: Oral(his tongue on my c**t), a finger in my v****a, and a finger in my a**.
If all 3 are used, I can orgasm 3x faster than with just oral alone. Something about it.. just turns me on. I can't handle a**l sex, it's not me and I hate it. But if someone sticks a finger up there.. oh jeez, it's such a turn on. Is this weird? I feel it would be very embarrasing for me to ask a guy to do this...
I'd just like to know if it's normal, and if I should worry about it so much?
EDIT: Another thing I thought of, different topic, but I don't think I'd like to make a whole new thread about it.
For a while now I've been interested in trying a 3-some. (but with me, my boyfriend and another guy) The thing is.. my boyfriend is kinda the jealous type. He wouldn't want me giving oral or getting sex from someone else. And as for a girl instead, it will never happen.
I don't like females in a sexual way, having a naked one in the room would be a complete turn off for me. Plus, I don't even know how I can bring this up with my boyfriend. He would feel so ... hurt, and like sex with just him isn't good enough. Which isn't true at all, I just.. want to try other things you know? I'm not sure how to look at this, though..
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Posted: Fri May 16, 2008 9:02 am
1. You're not abnormal and don't have to worry. Many people enjoy a**l stimulation. There are even sex toys for women that stimulate the v****a and a**s at the same time. Your current guy is certainly not the only guy out there who will be willing to please you in that way.
2. If your relationship is strong, you should be able to talk about things. Even if he doesn't go for it, he shouldn't get angry with you for brainstorming some sexual ideas. I do it with my partner too. He doesn't usually go for the stuff that I suggest, but he'll at least listen and not get angry or jealous just because I asked. 3nodding
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Posted: Sat May 17, 2008 2:32 pm
Toxiic Skull Alright, well, me and my boyfriend (I'm 17, he's 19) have been together for just over 2 years. We started having sex together about 4 months after we started going out. (so that would have made me 14 and him 17, since I remember it being half a month after his birthday and a month before mine)(and just so everyone knows, I live in Manitoba, Canada; the law for sex was age 14 until last year, now the legal age for sex is 16) He took my virginity and I took his. So these past 2 years we've been the only ones either of us have slept with, and with that, have learned a lot about sex and each other sexually. Which comes to my conclusion: I just resently found something that is.. totally amazing. It works for me. It's the best thing I could have imagined. BUT, the problem is.. I only feel comfortable doing it with my boyfriend. I feel if we ever break up, and I hook up with someone else, I would never be able to tell them this... The "this" is that I just love getting stimulated in 3 places at the same time. The places being: Oral(his tongue on my c**t), a finger in my v****a, and a finger in my a**. If all 3 are used, I can orgasm 3x faster than with just oral alone. Something about it.. just turns me on. I can't handle a**l sex, it's not me and I hate it. But if someone sticks a finger up there.. oh jeez, it's such a turn on. Is this weird? I feel it would be very embarrasing for me to ask a guy to do this... I'd just like to know if it's normal, and if I should worry about it so much? EDIT: Another thing I thought of, different topic, but I don't think I'd like to make a whole new thread about it. For a while now I've been interested in trying a 3-some. (but with me, my boyfriend and another guy) The thing is.. my boyfriend is kinda the jealous type. He wouldn't want me giving oral or getting sex from someone else. And as for a girl instead, it will never happen. I don't like females in a sexual way, having a naked one in the room would be a complete turn off for me. Plus, I don't even know how I can bring this up with my boyfriend. He would feel so ... hurt, and like sex with just him isn't good enough. Which isn't true at all, I just.. want to try other things you know? I'm not sure how to look at this, though.. If you want to do a three some, you could probably have him pick the other guy that will be involved in that, someone he trusts as a friend or knows well. If he loves you, the least he will do is understand from your view.
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Posted: Fri May 23, 2008 2:36 pm
In honesty, i wouldn't bring up the threesome. Your boyfriend sounds similar to mine and it would put a constant doubt in his mind that he wasnt satisfying you.
Everyone thinks about trying things like that. I myself am bi-sexual, I've always wanted to know what it would be like with a woman in a three-some or simply just to share that with a woman, but i love my boyfriend and would never give him up for anything. I would never want to worry him in that way and i dont want anything enough to give up what I have.
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Posted: Sat May 24, 2008 1:45 pm
if i were to have a three some i would be be afraid that my friend would try to do something when im not there
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Posted: Sun May 25, 2008 1:36 pm
i like that too but only one person i know does it just right my current bf tries and doesn't feel right
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Posted: Mon May 26, 2008 6:06 pm
Yeah, it's totally normal. I wouldn't worry about being embarassed about liking that combination! I agree with Lori.. lots of guys will be willing to do that if you guys ever do break up.
Three-somes generally seem to be fantasies for people.. but I've heard that they're actually hard to do because it's like the third person is an extra wheel or whatever the expression is. Um.. but if you guys are really good friends, you should talk to him about it! Communication is key. ^^
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