When you think back to grade school, are your clearest memories of the bullies in your class and their endless and insidious torments? This is probably ture of middle school and high school as well. Some things never change, even into adulthood buillies seldom change their ways.
Those of us who belong to covens or who are active with the magical community ( ex: this guild) no doubt have came in contact with what they call a magical bully. These are people who, like their forebears on the playground, endlessy brag ( about all their magical affiliations) and seek to "one up" anyone else who will listen to them.
In general, the magical bully always has to be heard. He wants the first word and the last, even if he contradicts himself or is simply wrong. Whenever he actually knows more than everyone else doesn't matter, because he is certain that he does. Typically, a magical bully sees himself far differently than others actually see him- usually as a great benefactor than a manipulator.
The magical bully criticizes everyone and everything. His view of life is essentially negative, and eventually no one wants to be around him except those that are like minded. If you disagree with him he will fly into a tirade until you shut up and he wins.
~ General Bully Traits ~
* is a master liar, especially when confronted. He often will blame others for any misunderstandings. The magical bully excels at deception and should never be given the benefit of the doubt.
*A charmer. But this is the false charm of a "jekyll and hyde" quality. He does not show his vicious side publicly whenever possible, but tells his true feelings to a confidance. He employs charm to gain things he wants.
*He says alot of nothing. IN the end, his point is often lost in his wordless and you leave feeling he's stuffed your head full of nothing.
* He often contradicts himself. Confront him with his contradiction and watching his squirm.
*Emotionally immature. He may speak like an adult, but he reacts like a five year old.
* Rules do not apply to him, though he loves imposing rules on others.
* He will attempt to restrict you and even damage your standing in the community.
*He usually projects his character flaws on another person
*Loves to create conflict between people.
~ The Magical Bully~
Those of us who belong to covens or who are active with the magical community ( ex: this guild) no doubt have came in contact with what they call a magical bully. These are people who, like their forebears on the playground, endlessy brag ( about all their magical affiliations) and seek to "one up" anyone else who will listen to them.
In general, the magical bully always has to be heard. He wants the first word and the last, even if he contradicts himself or is simply wrong. Whenever he actually knows more than everyone else doesn't matter, because he is certain that he does. Typically, a magical bully sees himself far differently than others actually see him- usually as a great benefactor than a manipulator.
The magical bully criticizes everyone and everything. His view of life is essentially negative, and eventually no one wants to be around him except those that are like minded. If you disagree with him he will fly into a tirade until you shut up and he wins.
~ General Bully Traits ~
* is a master liar, especially when confronted. He often will blame others for any misunderstandings. The magical bully excels at deception and should never be given the benefit of the doubt.
*A charmer. But this is the false charm of a "jekyll and hyde" quality. He does not show his vicious side publicly whenever possible, but tells his true feelings to a confidance. He employs charm to gain things he wants.
*He says alot of nothing. IN the end, his point is often lost in his wordless and you leave feeling he's stuffed your head full of nothing.
* He often contradicts himself. Confront him with his contradiction and watching his squirm.
*Emotionally immature. He may speak like an adult, but he reacts like a five year old.
* Rules do not apply to him, though he loves imposing rules on others.
* He will attempt to restrict you and even damage your standing in the community.
*He usually projects his character flaws on another person
*Loves to create conflict between people.
