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 Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 1:15 am
when ever my boyfriend and i have sex i always use the bathroom first but then as we are going at it i get this feeling in my bladder that i really really have to pee and we have to stop so i can go to the bathroom wich really messes things up for us because then we can't get going again. and also when ever i do use the bathroom during sex it's clearer than normal... does any body know what's going on. i've herd some people talk about it a little but i'm not quite sure what's going on.
could he be hitting my bladder? or my g-spot?
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Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 9:50 am
That's common. Sex can put pressure on your bladder and make it feel like you have to pee. However, sex can also stimulate the G-spot and make it feel like you have to pee.
You can try having sex in the tub or on an old towel to experiment. If you peed just before sex, you can try just letting go during sex instead of stopping to pee. You might be one of the few women who can ejaculate.
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Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 10:50 am
That means he's probably hitting your G-spot. Trying ignoring it, or if you're really worried about peeing accidently or "squirting" (female ejaculation), you can put towels down underneath you so that if any bodily fluids do escape, you won't make too big of a mess.
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Posted: Sat May 24, 2008 4:12 pm
I think you're having female ejaculation aka "cumming" some women can do it, some can't. I've learned that I can. (telling this is so embarassing, but hopefully it'll help you out) But it feels like I have to pee, and everything "down there" gets tight. It as you said is a clear color. Afterwards I am not very turned on, and am quite tired. Yet my boyfriend is tired and not as turned on after he ejaculates or "cums" as well. That's why I'm assuming it's ejaculation instead of urinating. So I'm assuming that it is female ejaculation. Hopefully you won't be as embarassed now, knowing what I've told you. EDIT: I'm a virgin, I just learned all of this from masturbating. (not doing anything until marriage!)
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Posted: Mon Jun 09, 2008 11:58 pm
i have tried to just let it go and relax but i just can't seem to relax because i don't want to make a mess. but the one time he told me it was ok i was relaxing and it wouldn't release and the pressure became really painfull and i jsut had to stop all together and go to the bathroom and after that i felt like i had just orgasmed...
so does anyone have any tips on how to relax so i don't tense up because when we have to stop like that i feel like i'm letting him down because then he looses his erections and can't get in the mood again...
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Posted: Tue Jun 10, 2008 10:51 am
I don't know if I ejaculate (I don't think so!) but I can orgasm from penetrative sex alone. To be honest? It took me about a month, maybe 6 weeks of regular (almost daily) sex to get into that stage, and maybe another month to learn how it was happening. Have you heard of Kegels? It's an exercise where you contract the muscles in your v****a. An easy way to figure them out is to go to the toilet, start to pee, and then stop. It happens inadvertantly but with practice you can figure it out. When you feel like you need to pee during sex, try doing one. It helps you take control and you feel more relaxed.
Practice really does make perfect.
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Posted: Tue Jun 10, 2008 9:39 pm
Myu68 i have tried to just let it go and relax but i just can't seem to relax because i don't want to make a mess. but the one time he told me it was ok i was relaxing and it wouldn't release and the pressure became really painfull and i jsut had to stop all together and go to the bathroom and after that i felt like i had just orgasmed... so does anyone have any tips on how to relax so i don't tense up because when we have to stop like that i feel like i'm letting him down because then he looses his erections and can't get in the mood again... >>[[ My suggestion is telling him to stop. Tell him to just give you some space. (don't pull out or anything, just let you do what you gotta' do) yeah ask him nicely to stop thrusting, and get in a comfortable postition for you. Take a deep breath and don't worry about it!
-----Don't feel bad or ashamed of this. It's a new thing and you've got to adjust. Once you've adjusted I'm sure you and your boyfriend won't have to worry and this will be something to look back on and laugh.
(my opinion on how I feel about it)
Took me a while to figure things out myself. So don't feel bad. ]]<<
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