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 Posted: Fri Sep 02, 2005 10:55 am
Well, lately we have been having a lot of troubles with this certain guy, *insert his name here* and it's not been fun.
I have a huge tendensy of standing up for the people I care about, and that guy was acting like a jerk to Martin. So I stand up for Martin. But it just went completely wrong and I think I have upset that guy more than I was meant to.
This is about the first time standing up for those I love and care deeply about has gone this wrong. The guy wrote a journal about how Martin should die, and then he wished me to death. I didn't make it better in the end, I made it worse..
I feel so stupid and embarassed... ><;; I don't know what to do but to refrain from standing up for those I love....
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Posted: Fri Sep 02, 2005 4:05 pm
some times its better to instead of standing up and counter attacking the offender, its better to see if the victim is ok, and try and help them get back on their feet if their hurt. defending someone who can defend themselves is sometimes insulting to the defender also
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Posted: Fri Sep 02, 2005 6:05 pm
steveosaurus_rex some times its better to instead of standing up and counter attacking the offender, its better to see if the victim is ok, and try and help them get back on their feet if their hurt. defending someone who can defend themselves is sometimes insulting to the defender also Yeah.. I think that would be a good idea.. Thanks!
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Posted: Fri Sep 02, 2005 6:10 pm
personally I wouldn't care if the guy wished me death or not. He was a jerk who hurt someone I cared about.
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Posted: Fri Sep 02, 2005 6:19 pm
Brandon Taylor personally I wouldn't care if the guy wished me death or not. He was a jerk who hurt someone I cared about. He just hurt me again. Telling me how I got involved in something that isn't my fight. I don't know, he has some.. power over me right now, and I just feel like crap..
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Posted: Fri Sep 02, 2005 6:20 pm
as long as he isnt busting caps in ym a** i could are less abotu what a person thinks of me.. wish me death or not.. the kid needs to grow up.
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Posted: Fri Sep 02, 2005 6:25 pm
juju2089 as long as he isnt busting caps in ym a** i could are less abotu what a person thinks of me.. wish me death or not.. the kid needs to grow up. Thank you for your kind support.. It really helps heart
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Posted: Fri Sep 02, 2005 6:44 pm
Dark Eagle Babe Brandon Taylor personally I wouldn't care if the guy wished me death or not. He was a jerk who hurt someone I cared about. He just hurt me again. Telling me how I got involved in something that isn't my fight. I don't know, he has some.. power over me right now, and I just feel like crap.. Hey, he hurt someone you love. That MAKES it your fight. If he doesn't like it he can just go ******** himself.
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Posted: Fri Sep 02, 2005 6:46 pm
I beleive in standing up for those you love. However, if a freind is fighting a freind, it may be best to stay nuetral so one or the other won't harp at you too, causing you to take part in the ranting.
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Posted: Fri Sep 02, 2005 7:08 pm
Brandon Taylor Dark Eagle Babe Brandon Taylor personally I wouldn't care if the guy wished me death or not. He was a jerk who hurt someone I cared about. He just hurt me again. Telling me how I got involved in something that isn't my fight. I don't know, he has some.. power over me right now, and I just feel like crap.. Hey, he hurt someone you love. That MAKES it your fight. If he doesn't like it he can just go ******** himself. I haven't thought of it that way. Nor did he or Martin I suppose.. But you're right, that made it my battle. Thank you so much for your help in this! heart
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Posted: Fri Sep 02, 2005 7:10 pm
Squally Lionheart I beleive in standing up for those you love. However, if a freind is fighting a freind, it may be best to stay nuetral so one or the other won't harp at you too, causing you to take part in the ranting. Yeah, you've got a good point. heart
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Posted: Fri Sep 02, 2005 7:12 pm
I think you did the right think in standing up for the ones you love. They are your friends and if someone hurts them its your fight too. ^.^
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Posted: Fri Sep 02, 2005 7:18 pm
Roselite I think you did the right think in standing up for the ones you love. They are your friends and if someone hurts them its your fight too. ^.^ Thank you very much for this, babes!! *hugglies you* >^_^<
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Posted: Fri Sep 02, 2005 7:19 pm
Dark Eagle Babe Roselite I think you did the right think in standing up for the ones you love. They are your friends and if someone hurts them its your fight too. ^.^ Thank you very much for this, babes!! *hugglies you* >^_^< Anytime love!
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Posted: Fri Sep 02, 2005 7:21 pm
Dark Eagle Babe Brandon Taylor Dark Eagle Babe Brandon Taylor personally I wouldn't care if the guy wished me death or not. He was a jerk who hurt someone I cared about. He just hurt me again. Telling me how I got involved in something that isn't my fight. I don't know, he has some.. power over me right now, and I just feel like crap.. Hey, he hurt someone you love. That MAKES it your fight. If he doesn't like it he can just go ******** himself. I haven't thought of it that way. Nor did he or Martin I suppose.. But you're right, that made it my battle. Thank you so much for your help in this! heart Any time. I too am very militant about standing up for those I care for. That's a good thing. It makes you a good friend.
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