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Posted: Sun Apr 20, 2008 9:20 pm
Hey im new to the guild (This is my first post) and i wanted to know something. im 18 and i am in my first sexual relationship with a girl and i was wondering a few things. The first time we tried to do anything i wasnt able to fit. im about average size (about 6 and a half inches) and she said i was the first one with that size even though she has dated a few guys before. Was it because she was nervous or for another reason? my next question is out of curiosity really. when we get a little into the foreplay i start to finger her but there is something that i feel while i am inside her v****a. its like a little ball or bulb. is that the so called "G-spot" or is it something im not supposed to mess with? one more thing. is it possible for condoms to hurt the girl while having no condom doesnt? this has happened to me before. we were about to have sex but then she started to have some pain so we decided to take off the condom and try it without the condom (I know it isnt safe please dont get on to me about that) and she had no pain. is all of this explainable?
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Posted: Mon Apr 21, 2008 8:16 am
1. If it seemed like your p***s didn't fit in her v****a it was probably due to her being nervous, her not being in the mood, or inadequate lubrication. A water-based lubricant might help.
2. It's possible that you have located her G-spot. Ask her if stimulating that area feels good.
3. Yes, it is possible for condoms to hurt people because some people have latex allergies. In those cases, non-latex condoms or other methods of birth control can be used. Just be aware that non-latex condoms and other methods of birth control do not offer the STD protection that latex condoms do. Never have sex without some form of birth control unless you two are trying for a baby right now.
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Posted: Mon Apr 21, 2008 5:13 pm
yea it is possible that you located her g spot but most of the time it would be really hard to locate on most girls from what i know
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Posted: Mon Apr 21, 2008 6:24 pm
Another question that popped into my head just now. Would the size (Height and weight) of my gf make any difference to anything?
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Posted: Mon Apr 21, 2008 6:36 pm
i could possibly be but probaly not the case it probaly that she might not be relaxed
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Posted: Mon Apr 21, 2008 8:13 pm
THE White Afroman Another question that popped into my head just now. Would the size (Height and weight) of my gf make any difference to anything? No, not really. v****a size does not vary nearly as much as the size of other body parts. That means tall, short, thin, or chubby, girls have roughly the same size v****a. Vaginas may feel very different depending on if the girl is in the mood, if she is nervous, and if she lubricated though.
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Posted: Mon Apr 21, 2008 8:27 pm
My boyfriend and I had a similar problem in the beginning. He is 7 inches erect, and for a couple of days I couldn't let him all the way inside of me.
Then we bought some KY (thanks for the suggestion, Lorien!) and applied some to each of us, and had him just enter me gradually. As in, he would go in a little ways and go in and out at that shallowness, then once I had loosened up a little he went a little deeper, etc. Maybe try that?
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Posted: Mon Apr 21, 2008 10:07 pm
ok thanks guys this has helped alot. if i get to see her soon ill see what happens
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Posted: Tue Apr 22, 2008 4:22 pm
LorienLlewellyn THE White Afroman Another question that popped into my head just now. Would the size (Height and weight) of my gf make any difference to anything? No, not really. v****a size does not vary nearly as much as the size of other body parts. That means tall, short, thin, or chubby, girls have roughly the same size v****a. Vaginas may feel very different depending on if the girl is in the mood, if she is nervous, and if she lubricated though. oh im stupid i was thinking the size of the girl lol
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Posted: Tue Apr 22, 2008 4:24 pm
she maybe isnt combterable with you yet
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Posted: Sun Apr 27, 2008 10:24 am
Take it really easy and slow when entering and only enter after a lot of foreplay. make sure she is completely comfortable where she is. Try giving her control of the situation to make it more comfortable for her. Also if the latex is an issue, there are lamb skin condoms that are supposed to be more comfortable from what I've heard. Also the "G-spot is actually the G crest and some girls do have more stimulation there, but it varies.
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