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 Posted: Wed Aug 31, 2005 6:00 pm
I have been Bi since Feb 05 and I can't get the courage to tell my family or friends, is they anyway you can help me?
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Posted: Wed Aug 31, 2005 6:06 pm
there is no way we can help.. you are the one who isgoing to tell them in the end (or they find out when you are caught making sweet love to a dude) but yeah.. i say just tell your closest friend(s) and hold off on family till you feel your living style wont be changed dramatically. just blurting it out could be a tad foolish
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Posted: Thu Sep 01, 2005 11:46 am
You don't "have" to tell them..unless you feel like it and comfortable with your own sexuality.
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Posted: Thu Sep 01, 2005 12:39 pm
only 4 people know im bi and i want to tell people but im still alittle scared because im friends with really nice chicks but evan if i dont like the chicks i tell if i tell them they might not wanna be my friends anymore also i have enough problems with people picking on me cause im ugly and clumsy and shy and i dont wanna get picked on more like at my old school. and i cant tell my dad cause he would put me in a straight jacket because i draw pictures and write stories of me taking over the world and killing people and zombies and bunnys with machine guns and stuff like that, he doesnt evan think i should be interested in boys when most of the girls i know have bf and my other relatives just hate me cause i dont act girlie enough and cause i dont wear skirts or dresses and so yeah i truly dont think i should tell anyone until i get older so yeah i guess i just ansewered my own question lol ok well whatever. rolleyes
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Posted: Fri Sep 16, 2005 11:04 pm
I'd reccomend only telling your closest friends at first, since a lot of parents wouldn't accept it.
And when you do tell your parents, make sure that you're really sure about being bi.
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Posted: Sat Sep 17, 2005 8:22 pm
All my friends know I'm bi, and my two cousin's know I'm bi... Thats it. I won't tell my mom because I don't want her to freak and hate me even more -.-
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Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2005 2:32 am
My best friend told me on a school trip, what he did was hug me and whisper it in my ear.
Ive had other friends where we were just mucking about and suddenly they say there bi.
Its quite funny really.
Good luck smile
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16, 11, 17, 20, 8
Total: 72 (5-100)
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Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2005 8:41 am
i recently came out to all my friends, and they were cool with it. if they're your real friends, they wont really care. but do it when it feels right for you. my rent's dont know, but i know they wouldnt care...it would just make me uncomfortable to tell them. heh
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Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2005 5:41 pm
The fact that I beyong loath my parents still stands. Almost all my friends are bi, so its wicked. My best friend is even bi. Its great. ^^
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Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2005 7:09 pm
ay im going trew the same thing i wanna tell my family and my friends but i cant i rather keep it a secret very few people know im bi only like 4 know
but i think you dont really need to tell unless it will help you to be more convertable (im takn my secret to the grave stare )
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Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2005 9:23 pm
I don't know what to tell you except you'll know when. I'll tell you how I knew when to tell my friends.
My Friend Tammy: I'm Bi
Me: I'm Gay
Tammy: Really
Me: Yup
Tammy: Cool
Me: yup
My friend stef: I'm bi
me: I'm gay
Stef: cool
and one more
My friend Nose(nickname): Are you gay?
Me:Yup
Nose: cool
See, you'll know when
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Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2005 10:14 pm
Charralina I'd reccomend only telling your closest friends at first, since a lot of parents wouldn't accept it.
And when you do tell your parents, make sure that you're really sure about being bi. Agreed.
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Posted: Tue Sep 20, 2005 7:45 am
Probably pointless me adding this, but just to affirm what others have said. I recomend you tell your friends first, you don't have to tell everyone just the ones you feel will be comfortable with it. That way you can build your confidence up, before telling your family. Personally i've never bothered telling my family because i don't believe my sexuality concerns them, but anyhoo it's your choice.
A friend of mine just blurted out over dinner to her mum and granparents that she was a lesbian, at first she was upset because she didn't mean to say it. But her mum was really understanding and supports her all the way, so she felt much better about it. Plus she has a nice mum who bakes everyone cookies and looks after animals ^_^
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Posted: Thu Sep 22, 2005 7:41 am
If you can look into a miror and tell yourself you bi, your proud, and you dont care who knows it, tell your parents but only when you are sure of what their views on the subject are. if you cant do that, definately dont tell them because even when you can admit it to yourself you have to believe it if your not able to say that your are and your proud about it and believe that its true with your whole heart then tell your best friend and if he/she is okay with it ask yourself what you think would be the consequensis (sp?) of telling your parents.
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Posted: Fri Sep 23, 2005 10:33 am
I'd suggest you be sure that this the road you want to take. Because once you come out, they'll never look at you the same. Tell them when your ready. If they don't approve, f** em, in the end, it's your choice blaugh
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