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 Posted: Tue Apr 15, 2008 9:53 am
H'okay well first I'll start off by saying that even after being with my guy for over a year now (sexually) I am still fairly new to the whole sex thing. As in... I still giggle about it. And I'm wary about new positions and things like that. He's ready to try "new things" and I'm the one to say "OMG people DO that?! That's so weird!" eek redface
*deep breath* This is so awkward. But I must continue... redface
H'okay. So it's "that time of the month" for me. And he hates having sex during that time. Ya know cause it's messy. And it's not that great for me because it's a little too... slippery. redface
So he suggested... Ya know... Going in from behind.
I just want to know... Is that weird? Is it comfortable? (I know it hurts but I've heard that it can be okay after a little bit.) I mean... Do most couples experiment with that? It seems really foreign to me. I lost my virginity to this guy so I don't have prior experience and I don't watch porn so I don't know different "options".
And I would be perfectly okay if everyone beats around the bush when talking about this. Gah, I feel like a kid but it's so weird to talk about! But I would love some opinions.
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Posted: Tue Apr 15, 2008 11:38 am
im suprised he even asked.. my husband and i joke all the time about it.. but he would never do it.. since its really werid idea for the both of us. i usualy just give him bj's or cetch him looking at porn.
yeah i herd it hurts too.. i mean.. depending on his size.. yeah.. the whole poop thing.. ew.. but it never hurts to try, if it doesnt work out youll both quietly agree never to do it again
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Posted: Tue Apr 15, 2008 7:37 pm
Ladyayami im suprised he even asked.. my husband and i joke all the time about it.. but he would never do it.. since its really werid idea for the both of us. i usualy just give him bj's or cetch him looking at porn. yeah i herd it hurts too.. i mean.. depending on his size.. yeah.. the whole poop thing.. ew.. but it never hurts to try, if it doesnt work out youll both quietly agree never to do it again Yeah we've joked about it before, plenty of times. But he's really... creative? He likes some interesting things... Or at least more than me. I'm a simple kinda girl in the bed. I'm more of a guy on top & girl on bottom with no freaky stuff. xd Yeah. Ew. Sounds gross. Has to be unsanitary. xp
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Posted: Wed Apr 16, 2008 5:35 am
I dislike anything really in that region, it hurts for me.
As for doggy-style, I"m all cool with that.
Have you considered...toys for when you have a visit from your Aunt Flo? They can be a livesaver with enough towels you don't like.
It's all about what you want and what you feel COMFORTABLE with. If you are comfortable, you will be more confident, and if you are confident, well, the rest is history and lovely 3nodding
I'm still embarrassed sometimes too, don't worry! I don't always like new positions or new things that much...but sometimes it's a trial and error thing.
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Posted: Thu Apr 17, 2008 4:31 pm
Always do it in the dark if it come to that.. then the guy wont be horibley freaked out...
try if it doest bother you, bj's, he still gets excited, and gets to watch you do it to him, no control over it.. makes it funish.
even try if it comes to that the backdoor.. with LOTS of lube.. never hurts to try..... well.. never mind
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Posted: Sun Apr 20, 2008 4:11 pm
Tried it once out of curiosity.. Not to finish, but to see how it felt.
It was weird for both of us. And I felt kinda icky afterward.
It's really up to you with what you want to try.
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Posted: Fri Apr 25, 2008 12:11 pm
Just remember, if you do--clean it off immediately afterwards. o_o; Infections not pleasant. -- It is possible to have clean(ish) sex down there. Just clean yerself up. Take shower, that sort of thing. Be careful. That's what most important.
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Posted: Tue Apr 29, 2008 11:24 pm
That's kind of my husband's deepest, darkest fantasy (and here I'm spilling it . . . lol) so I've obliged him a time or two. But it definitely is not pleasant for me on the receiving end. I'm not sure if we're doing it wrong or what . . . but I think it definitely hurts more than it's supposed to for me. o.O So we don't go there very often . . . but we've definitely tried it.
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Posted: Fri May 02, 2008 5:43 am
Thanks for the replies! I know it's an interesting topic to say the least. I just wanted to know where other couples stood on that issure. ^-^
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Posted: Thu Aug 07, 2008 3:13 pm
Yes it's normal and sometimes it feels good, but...it also makes you feel like you need to go to the bathroom.
Give it a try--I personally find it somewhat unpleasant.
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Posted: Sat Aug 23, 2008 3:27 pm
my husband and I have a few issues with not being able to do certain positions but that's why we like to try various positions. I've allways been dirty minded and curious but allways a virgin till a while into my husband and I dating. We've tried the"back door" a couple times but it takes trust and relaxing for me but it hardly ever happens.
during my period we usually throw a dark colored old towl on the bed and go for it as usual. then we typically shower. though it seems that i hardly have to worry about that anymore since i've been on the pill for about 6 months, and hardly have any flow to speak of.
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Posted: Thu Sep 11, 2008 11:09 am
That's a no for us.
He wants to, but I don't feel comfortable with it and as it is, I'm a VERY small girl. sweatdrop
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