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Divash
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PostPosted: Tue Apr 08, 2008 5:00 am


I'm going to say something radical, so get ready. Are you ready? Are you sure?

You can be modest in a short dress with no sleeves and a plunging neckline. I know, because I did it while on a Caribbean cruise last summer.
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The head covering is called a snood (scroll down). I could also have worn a hijab scarf in black, or in any color that matched one of the colors on my dress. I would've bought it in a very light fabric, something gauzy that would let the breeze circulate beneath it so as to make my neck comfortable. Modesty doesn't have to be all about buying a modest dress or suit; it can be about buying an immodest dress and then finding a way to make it modest. Some folks do it by layering, like me. Folks with a bit more sewing skill might buy extra fabric and sew on some sleeves, or a ruffle at the hem, or cover a skirt slit with a bit of a kick-pleat.

Layering doesn't have to be a hardship, either. The temperature on this cruise never got below about 87 Fahrenheit at night, and the humidity was never less than about 90%, yet I'm pretty sure I was just as comfortable as everyone who was letting their skin show (and getting sunburns and skin cancer). Note the VERY THIN, breathable, breezy black cotton T-shirt from The Gap, and the VERY THIN, breathable, breezy black yoga pants beneath.

Also note the weird expression on my face. A bug had just flown up my nose.
PostPosted: Fri Oct 10, 2008 7:31 pm


You look absolutely gorgeous and comfy Divash!
I'm sure you had a great time at that cruise :]

Meanwhile I celebrated Eid this year with family and a new olive skirt biggrin

I should get some pictures of it ^_^

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 14, 2009 9:37 pm


I always put a matching undershirt under my low-cut dresses and shirts. I probably would have pulled this one off with a short-sleeved undershirt, no trowsers, and a duchess-style headwrap. 3nodding
PostPosted: Thu Jan 15, 2009 6:45 am


That sounds cute too, GreenInkling. I can't wear short sleeves, or go out with uncovered legs, but I bet it would look cute on someone who can.

What's a duchess-style head wrap? Do you have a picture?

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 28, 2009 6:30 am


I found a website that has some wonderful ideas for how to take modern clothing and turn it into modest attire by Jewish and Muslim standards. I thought you all might enjoy taking a look at it.

While I'm here, I'm wondering if we could get some input on those of you who dress modestly, not for religious reasons, but for personal taste, sun sensitivity, or other reasons. What do you think about the styles on the above website?
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