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 Posted: Wed Apr 02, 2008 2:51 pm
How do your parents (or legal guardian) feel about you having sex? If you have already moved out how did they feel about you having sex when you were a teen? If you are still a virgin or they don't know that you have sex how do they feel about you having sex?
My parents would prefer that I don't, but as long as I wear a condom with spermicides they don't mind. My mom also bought me a box of condoms that oddly enough expires the day after graduation is scheduled for me next year.
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Posted: Wed Apr 02, 2008 3:05 pm
My parents don't care whether or not I have sex now (I would certainly hope not at my age!), and they did not care when I was younger and lived with them. They knew that I was educated when it came to birth control, fertility, pregnancy, etc. and that I was safe (using birth control every time, getting a pap every year, etc.), so there was no reason for them to discourage it.
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Posted: Wed Apr 02, 2008 4:13 pm
My mum discovered my birth control and never really said much... I think she's just happy that I'm being safe.
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Posted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 3:30 pm
My mom would prefer if I wait til I am 17, but she will help me with birth control and all when I go to her and tell her I think I'm ready and we will talk about it and such.
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Posted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 4:27 pm
my dad does not care as long as im safe but my mom does she got madd when she cout us she grounded my for 2 months
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Posted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 11:14 am
I don't even know how my Mom would feel if I started to have sex at my age (16 1/2)... she has told me though that when I am considering having sex, or am already sexually active to let her know. So she can get me on birth control and to see a doctor for the whole exam thing.
Mom lost her virginity at age 15, so even if I were sexually active now... I don't know how upset she would be. And as long as I talked to her about it first, I'm sure things would go ok.
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Posted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 6:43 pm
Neither of my parents would like it.
My mom would be sad but accepting, and my dad would hate it altogether. I told them that I would let them know when I become sexually active.
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Posted: Sun Apr 06, 2008 9:32 am
My parents are separated since I was in the tummy, so all I listen to is my mother. I do respect my father, but he wasn't that close never, and he knows it, so he restricts himself because he knows my mother does/thinks the right things for me. My mother found out because I told her I was late and that I was sexually active. She was very comprehensive and calmed, she offered her help and we called right away her ob-gyn to schedule a visit asap. I wasn't pregnant, my period came even before the visit to the doc and we had to call and cancel. She's ok with me having sex, as long as:
A: She doesn't catches me doing anything.
B: I respect the house. [and just the idea of thinking someone can walk in it's a definitively NO]
C: Use protection.
She even insisted in birth control, which I wasn't taking because I had sex once in a month or less. I hate the idea of unnecessary drugs.
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Posted: Sun Apr 06, 2008 11:48 am
I don't know how my parents feel about it at all. I don't talk to them about things like this. I tried talking to my mom about it once and she got all weird, so I don't bring that sort of thing up anymore. I would hope she would be okay with it, being that I'm 21 and old enough to make these decisions for myself. Though I get the impression she thinks I'm irresponsible or something. She actually went and bought condoms for me the last time my boyfriend came to visit. She didn't ask me if I needed them, just went out and bought them, as if I would have had sex without them otherwise. If we had decided to do that, we were planning on buying some ourselves. So it kind of made me feel like she doesn't trust me or something. I know she's just watching out for me but I'm an adult for crying out loud. Anyways, as far as I can tell, it appears that she doesn't really want me to have sex, but that it's my choice and she isn't going to interfere. Though, she did walk in on us asleep in my bed (we hadn't had sex, just sleeping) and she said something to me about it later. She has this weird thing about unmarried people sleeping in the same bed, so I can only assume she doesn't want us having sex either. I don't know, I can't figure her out at all.
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Posted: Sun Apr 06, 2008 1:38 pm
I don't need to talk to my mom to figure out her feelings on the subject....she literally just screams them out sweatdrop Like, one time after my boyfriend visited me, I was a few days late on my period and she FLIPPED. Severely. Luckily for me it came five days later and that saved me a major beating sweatdrop
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Posted: Sun Apr 06, 2008 3:37 pm
fun_loving_wierdo_001 I don't need to talk to my mom to figure out her feelings on the subject....she literally just screams them out sweatdrop Like, one time after my boyfriend visited me, I was a few days late on my period and she FLIPPED. Severely. Luckily for me it came five days later and that saved me a major beating sweatdrop If your mom would have beaten you just because your period was late, I would suggest that you get out of your mom's house as soon as you can. Anywho, my mom doesn't want me to have sex. I know that for a fact. I have no idea how my dad would feel about it--because I've never talked about it with him in addition to not talking to him for almost a year--but I'm pretty sure that he wouldn't like it.
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Posted: Sat May 31, 2008 7:58 am
My parents want me to wait until marriage, but if I ever got pregnant they would be supportive. My mom always tell me "If you make your bed then you'll lay in it" meaning I have to suffer the consequence and be responsible. Plus my grandma always tells me not to get in my cousin's boat (she jsut turned 18 and has an almost 2 year old son) "You make the decision when you spread your legs" Nana tells me. But I'm not sexually active, and hope I keep my virginity untill mariiage (or until I'm 18.)
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Posted: Sat May 31, 2008 9:15 pm
My parents see it as a fact of life, and don't really seem as if they mind at all. If I got my fiance pregnant I think my mom would burst with joy as oddly as it sounds. I'm only 18 but, my god she wants grandchildren lmao
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Posted: Mon Jun 09, 2008 11:35 pm
i don't know about my dad but my mom preferd if i waited but i went to her before anything happend and told her that i want to be prepared just incase my boyfriend and i felt ready to make that step and she explained that she preferd if i didn't but was really happy that i went to her for help and got me to a good doctor... now i think she sees me more as an adult because of how i went about it.
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Posted: Tue Jun 10, 2008 7:10 pm
I...don't think my mom would be keen to learn that I've had sex. Quite a few times....
Aha. My Dad would kill me. Then my boyfriend... Or maybe him then me.
But my mom knows sex is on my mind. After all, I am a teen...
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