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 Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 11:05 am
... Uh.. March 28.. 2008.. worst day.. on gaia.. for me..
Alright.. so this guy.. we were in a relationship, more than just friends. We had fun, it went on for some days, and then.. I felt like I couldn't feel like, I can't do this anymore. I told him that he should spend more time with his friends and all, in a social life with his real friends. Yah, real. I'm just somebody he knows over the internet, he doesn't know my personal life like my age and stuff. So then I said that and stuff, then he gets all sad, and I hope he doesn't take that too far. So.. it's still the day, and he's taking it bad, but I'm just like, ' You need to get over it,' and he leaves. Right..? I sound like a jerk. Then this other girl, one who I've been jealous of, I told him about her, he says not to worry about it. She makes me feel like I'm the bad guy. She starts telling me that I'm the one who hurted him, and I just said it was for a good reason. Now what is the good reason you ask? .. Well, I told her that it was because we were in a special relationship and all, but if one of us were to leave.. or do something.. it would cause lot of sadness. More sadness though. It's already emo-like with me breaking up with him, but then if something were to happen like what I said earlier, just MORE sadness. Now she says like I'm so bad and all, now I'm just worried that he might not me okay. Feeling like I did such a horrible thing, what should I do...?
Please, girls, I need opinions on what I would need to do. Go back with him, or just let it be, hoping that he would be fine and happy within his life.
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Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 12:33 pm
Is it a reltionship purely over the internet? So you don't know him in person?
'Cause if that is the case, don't worry about it.
He will get over it in a bit, and then he will just be after another (internet) girl.
Ignore the girl that is making you feel bad, she's just being like how some girls, sadly, are.
If it's just over the internet, nothing may ever come of it, he might just get more and more attatched to you if you kept the relationship going and then it would be even more heart breaking to break it up then than now.
Keep doing what you are doing.. If you are worried about him, then still talk to him and stuff, just let him nkow that it is better for the both of you if you end it now rather than later.
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Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 1:38 pm
 I am Near, one of the successors after L's death. Hm.. that's very interesting...
Yes, only and only over the internet though.
I guess I should try out what you suggested, and well, let him be. But then talk to him from time to time. :3
Thank you for your opinion. 3nodding And I have an affection for toys, such as puzzles.. cards.. dice..
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Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 2:09 pm
No problem. ^_^
I hope it helps.
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Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 6:09 pm
Vampy is amazing at giving advice.
I would have said the same thing. =]
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Posted: Sun Mar 30, 2008 8:40 am
Well seeming as we don't have Chibi or anyone anymore, I feel like I need to pick off where they left off. sweatdrop
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