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 Posted: Wed Mar 26, 2008 11:40 pm
I feel bad about this because I love my husband and my problem is due to no possible deficiency in him, but sometimes I crave certain things that he can't give me.
to put it bluntly, I am sexualy curious about women.... I just don't want him to feel like he doesn't satisfy me. .....sometimes the urges are so strong that I wan't to lick his lips....I feel bad about it.
Does anyone else feel this way? I have heard of such things on tv.
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Posted: Thu Mar 27, 2008 1:26 am
I can't say that I've had the same curiosities; however, I know that if I ever asked my husband if we could have a threesome with another girl, he would think that he had died and gone to heaven. o.O Maybe bring up the possibility of a threesome with another girl with him. As long as you be sure not to completely ignore him during the actual act, he'll probably rather enjoy it himself. biggrin
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Posted: Sun Mar 30, 2008 1:16 am
well, the thing is that I am just to stubborn to .....how to say... it would be a betrayal. I promised myself and I made him promise that this marriage means that we will be loyal to eachother.
I'm a proud person and feel responsible for my self and a need to show off, I could not have this on my contience
I would not have an interloper just for my selfish wants. He understands that I have ....urges. but, his love and a bit of time quell the feelings. Besides, we both have our own querks on the topic like swapping roles
yes, I know it's very vain to say but I like to think that I am above infidelity
sorry for the rant
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Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 7:21 am
The guy who owns the video store we go to, he's this cool old guy, said most women have bisexual feelings. I think it's normal to be attracted to girls one way or another.
I find girls very attractive and hot. Most of the time it's not real sexual, it's more like, "Wow she's so pretty I'm inspired by her!" I think that's more of the artist in me. But sometimes it is sexual. When I was younger, I totally had sexual fantasies about girls, though I don't think I would've gone and acted it out.
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Posted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 11:35 am
Maby you need to ask him to be well atlest once more like a woman. ill state the point.
we know guys.. i mean yeah some are very kind and sweet.. but still manly men. Ask him to role play though, probibley be weird.
ive often joked with kelly to, its typicly every guys fantasy. but he would never do it, for he too thinks its in a way cheeting. i would not know what to really say, but trust your partner and maby ask him to do some activites he might not be 100% on. like toys or role playing. you both got married for a resson, for you both love eachother ^_^
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Posted: Wed Apr 16, 2008 6:28 am
I think the best thing for you to do is sit him down and talk to him about how you feel. Tell him what you've told us about how it's not his fault, and you have this overwhelming curiosity towards women. I'm sure that if he truly loves you, he'll understand.
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Posted: Tue Apr 22, 2008 1:36 am
Thanks for the feedback guys. It's a feeling that comes and goes.
I haven't been on lately(couple weeks) I have been getting my cosplay together for the Kawaii-kon. I t went well though I dodn't win anything. I'll post some pictures some time.
THank you for the support!
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Posted: Thu Aug 07, 2008 3:18 pm
I am this way, and my husband is cool with it.
He actually suggested we find a woman to experiment with.
I'm down with it, but it's very difficult to find a woman who is also cool with it.
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