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wait what?

Sorry could you rephrase that, it's a very confusing question?

For me, not really.

I know better than to let it cause a social problem.

Really it doesn't effect me, as I don't let my social life interfere with my Jewish life... the two are mutually exclusive and I don't trade them out for one another.

I did not think it would be very easy to keep them seperately,
but I guess I am glad to it has not caused trouble.

It shouldn't cause trouble. I mean, if it does, you're doing it wrong. A religion is part of culture, be it Judaism, Catholicism, Shinto, whatever. If you're not enjoying the religion and the culture, perhaps you should find a different path to spiritual enlightenment.

Actually, Divash is lying. On the weekends, me, her, and Barack Obama all get together to talk about how great being left handed is and how righties are totally lame...but that's beside the point.

Basically I'm like Dis. I'm not a true Jew (yet), but people still think of me as Jewish because I'm the closest thing they've got. I like the curiosity, I like being different, and sometimes I even enjoy setting the silly misrepresentations straight. No one really starts with the "Hole in the sheet" thing, but trust me, I've heard some weird ones.

None of my friends from around here are Jewish, but I'm lucky enough to be surrounded by tolerant people who don't mind to listen to my occasional spiels on Purim, Shabbat, or whatever else I can wedge in to a conversation.

However when I was in high school, some boys in my biology class took to calling me "Jew", but I didn't let it bother me. These same boys thought Jesus made the Earth, not like I was going to take crap from them.

Anyway, long story short I don't let it interfere with my social life. I would prefer to have a few more Jewish boys around...and I guess girls would be okay too. xd

Having Jewish girls around here would be nice. wink Or rather, having them on campus would be nice.

I think you're asking some really good questions, Dinu. Most of us have answers, and most of our answers aren't bad, either. But for really great answers, your best bet is to speak with a rabbi. It can be intimidating at first -- after all, he's going to be a scholar, an important part of the Jewish community, a voice of authority, and a representative of that which you're thirsting after. In the end, though, he puts his shoes on the same way you do: toes first. He's just a guy who's spent his life studying the thing that's new to you right now. He's got a few great answers, and even his questions will be on a higher level than most of us will attain, but he's still just a guy. He's not someone to fear. Judaism doesn't seek converts, but it does welcome sincere converts, and the doors of Yisrael are always open. As the Torah says, "Hashem is near to all who call upon him." That includes you, too.

Not knowing where you live, I can't really do much to help you find a synagogue in your area. Don't help me there, though -- telling online people where you live can become dangerous, especially if you live in a small town and are easily identifiable by the information you give online. I'm sure those who post here are fine, but if even one person isn't -- or if one person is lurking without posting -- then you could be put into danger. HOWEVER, that doesn't mean I can't help you at all. Check your local phone book. Synagogues may be listed under Synagogues, or under (I kid you not, in some places) Churches, Jewish. Make sure they're not Messianic; that's another term for Christian, and you've expressed the fact here that Christianity is not what you're looking for. When you call up the synagogues, ask a few key questions:

1. What movement are you affiliated with? (That'll tell you whether it's a Reform, Conservative, Orthodox, or 'other' type of congregation. They're called movements, not denominations, in Judaism. I'd actually suggest speaking to all three, taking classes at all three, and figuring out what your Jewish 'personality' is. If not all three exist in your town, go with what you've got, but do more online research for whatever branch or branches are not covered locally.)

2. Does your synagogue have a rabbi, or is it lay-led? (Some congregations don't have a rabbi, but are led by the members taking turns. Unfortunately there isn't really a way to accomplish conversion without a rabbi-in-residence, though they might be able to help you find a rabbi who would work with you long-distance.)

3. How would I go about getting an appointment with the rabbi? (Unless they specifically ask, don't bother explaining that you're not Jewish and are interested in conversion. That's a private matter, between you and Hashem and the rabbi.)