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 Posted: Sat Mar 22, 2008 10:11 pm
There's these two guys (we'll call 'em Reiley and Travis) that I love equally. It's been bugging my mind and heart for a while and I really need advice. (go easy on my it's kinda embarrassing to say/type this) I've been dating Travis for four and a half months. We met in 6th grade after he got held back one year and it was the whole “pick on the kid you like so he/she doesn't know you like him/her” relationship for both of us. Then last year (9th grade)he asked me out after I broke up with his creepy neighbor. He's a goofy, handsome, and loveable Naruto fan boy. He's always there to listen when I need him and I feel safe whenever I'm with him. He can be a little slow at times, but he's a guy he can't help it. Reiley's a boy I've known for a little over a year. When he moved here I was the first one to meet him, but he didn't really notice me until the beginning of the summer of '07. When his girlfriend broke up with him, he told me that he had feelings for me. We got really close during the summer. We told each other things that no one else knew, But, his girlfriend took him back, so I wasn't able to be called an “Official girlfriend.” He's a good friend of mine now. He's easily offended sometimes and sometimes he's just a flat out jerk and would blame you for both world wars out of no where. He claims that he still has some feelings for me and that he wished he'd taken the chance of actually asking me out. I love them both. I don't know whether I should stay with Travis or give Reiley another chance.
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Posted: Sat Mar 22, 2008 10:17 pm
is reiley still with his gf
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Posted: Sat Mar 22, 2008 10:19 pm
I know this is a tough one. The thing that you need to consider, is that Reiley has a girlfriend now, so it might be in your best interest to focus on Travis while he is still available. Even though Reiley claims he still has feelings for you, he is dating somebody (and trust me, I've been there and messed with those feelings and it can get extremely ugly). If there is some reason though that you are starting to feel that Travis "isn't that guy", then hold of a little and wait around for Reiley, but if you like them equally, Travis is the one. Plus if it dosen't work out with Travis, then Reiley will be there after him and his girlfriend break up.
"Never fall for the one you like over the one you love, because the one you like will eventually fall in love with somebody else." That's a small quote that I heard once. Just take that into consideration. It is important you sort out your feelings before you make any major decisions.
I'm still here to talk so PM me or post again! xoxo LC
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Posted: Sat Mar 22, 2008 10:25 pm
well, if you love them both equaly but your dating Travis, stay with him. Reily will have to get used to it. If you break up with Travis and go out with Reily, it could get pretty ugly.
If you and travis don't work out, Than go out with reily.
Do what you desire!
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Posted: Sun Mar 23, 2008 10:01 am
Tinksy I know this is a tough one. The thing that you need to consider, is that Reiley has a girlfriend now, so it might be in your best interest to focus on Travis while he is still available. Even though Reiley claims he still has feelings for you, he is dating somebody (and trust me, I've been there and messed with those feelings and it can get extremely ugly). If there is some reason though that you are starting to feel that Travis "isn't that guy", then hold of a little and wait around for Reiley, but if you like them equally, Travis is the one. Plus if it dosen't work out with Travis, then Reiley will be there after him and his girlfriend break up.
"Never fall for the one you like over the one you love, because the one you like will eventually fall in love with somebody else." That's a small quote that I heard once. Just take that into consideration. It is important you sort out your feelings before you make any major decisions.
I'm still here to talk so PM me or post again! xoxo LC Well I'm gonna stay with Travis, but I can't get the feelings for Reiley to go away. Every time I'm with him, I feel heartbroken. Travis and Reiley are good friends so I know this situation is gonna get ugly no matter what.
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Posted: Sun Mar 23, 2008 11:09 am
Think about what you said about Riley, he is a jerk. Stick with your man and if things with him turn sour give Riley a chance.
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Posted: Sun Mar 23, 2008 12:52 pm
NormaJeaneMortensen Tinksy I know this is a tough one. The thing that you need to consider, is that Reiley has a girlfriend now, so it might be in your best interest to focus on Travis while he is still available. Even though Reiley claims he still has feelings for you, he is dating somebody (and trust me, I've been there and messed with those feelings and it can get extremely ugly). If there is some reason though that you are starting to feel that Travis "isn't that guy", then hold of a little and wait around for Reiley, but if you like them equally, Travis is the one. Plus if it dosen't work out with Travis, then Reiley will be there after him and his girlfriend break up.
"Never fall for the one you like over the one you love, because the one you like will eventually fall in love with somebody else." That's a small quote that I heard once. Just take that into consideration. It is important you sort out your feelings before you make any major decisions.
I'm still here to talk so PM me or post again! xoxo LC Well I'm gonna stay with Travis, but I can't get the feelings for Reiley to go away. Every time I'm with him, I feel heartbroken. Travis and Reiley are good friends so I know this situation is gonna get ugly no matter what.
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Posted: Wed Mar 26, 2008 4:27 pm
Tinksy NormaJeaneMortensen Tinksy I know this is a tough one. The thing that you need to consider, is that Reiley has a girlfriend now, so it might be in your best interest to focus on Travis while he is still available. Even though Reiley claims he still has feelings for you, he is dating somebody (and trust me, I've been there and messed with those feelings and it can get extremely ugly). If there is some reason though that you are starting to feel that Travis "isn't that guy", then hold of a little and wait around for Reiley, but if you like them equally, Travis is the one. Plus if it dosen't work out with Travis, then Reiley will be there after him and his girlfriend break up.
"Never fall for the one you like over the one you love, because the one you like will eventually fall in love with somebody else." That's a small quote that I heard once. Just take that into consideration. It is important you sort out your feelings before you make any major decisions.
I'm still here to talk so PM me or post again! xoxo LC Well I'm gonna stay with Travis, but I can't get the feelings for Reiley to go away. Every time I'm with him, I feel heartbroken. Travis and Reiley are good friends so I know this situation is gonna get ugly no matter what. I've tried doing that. Now I've noticed how much Travis pisses me off. We went to a party the other day and I hung out with Reiley and Travis didn't even know I was there. Meanwhile, I was the one who got him a ride there. Yesterday, after he abandoned me when he promised to come over, (fourth time in a row) we were in the library after school with a bunch of our friends. Someone handed me a book titled “Cutting and Self Mutilation” saying “You should read this, Jeane.” I took it and walked across the library and started reading it. Now, I do do that sometimes. I'm trying to stop because Reiley is trying to start and I need to be in a good position to get him stop. So, while I was sitting down I heard him laughing at the fact that I was reading it. When I talked to him about it that night he pretty much told me to keep my feelings in for as long as I can or at least that's what I heard. I plan on telling Travis about my feelings for the two of them and I'm scared of what he'll do.
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Posted: Thu Mar 27, 2008 7:39 pm
This is like Peach Girl! <- That's my randomness.
You need to think about which one makes you happier.
Compiling what you just said...
Travis:
Good - Your boyfriend, he's nice, and you obviously like him, otherwise you wouldn't be talking about this.
Bad - He doesn't treat you right all the time.
Rieley:
Good - He says he likes you.
Bad - He's dating someone else.
If you ask me, I'd say to stay with Travis and not tell him about Rieley. That'd only accomplish hurting his pride. Which is very bad relationship-wise. DO NOT go with Rieley, because if he really liked you, he'd stay available for you. Being with a guy who has a girlfriend will turn things positively ugly.
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