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 Posted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 10:01 am
Alright... Im happily in love and engaged to Chris. And I have no intentions of leaving him.
But others do not seem to understand this. Mostly my ex and his friend. His friend was talking to me yesterday, wondering why I broke up with my ex in the frist place. I dated him 4 seperate times and it just never worked; he was possessive, overbearing, I couldnt even go to the bathroom by myself!
And now that Im getting married to Chris, this friend is trying to break us apart so that I can go back with my ex (which isnt gunna happen).
chris does know about this and we've been talking. mostly he's been keeping me calm. which is a good thing.
So... does anyone have one of these? if so... how do you work things out or deal with them?
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Posted: Fri Mar 21, 2008 7:50 pm
Gah... Sometimes guys don't know when to give up!
Ok, in high school I had a major crush on this guy Jeremy. But he wasn't interested in me until the end of the year... When I started dating the man who is now my fiancee Travis. And the entire time Trav and I were dating, this guy wouldn't leave me alone! He would NOT give up! He even hit on me while I was pregnant and tried to get me to break up with Trav while I was 6 months pregnant! It was ridiculous. Around that time, we got caller ID and I just wouldn't pick up the phone if Jeremy called. I'd ignore him completely. The last time I talked to him, I just said "Look, I'm getting married. I love Travis. You had your chance with me and you blew it. Tough luck."
Guys can be persistant. My advice is you gotta lay down the facts. You love your fiancee and your ex had his chance. Good luck!
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Posted: Sat Mar 22, 2008 11:47 am
He's had several chances through high school. The last time was his own fault. She broke up with him 3 months later just as Chris and I started dating, begging to get back with me. Its kinda weird now that I think about it... his ex was trying to get me back with him too... I hate medleing people when Im happily in love
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Posted: Mon Mar 31, 2008 5:19 am
Yeah, I've got a similar problem at the moment. An ex-boyfriend found out that I'm engaged, and then he started calling and leaving messages four or five times a day. My fiancee and I live together, so when we started receiving "ZOMG I love you don't get married to that guy" messages, it caused a few fights.
I had his number blocked on both my land line and my cell, maybe it's best if you do the same.
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Posted: Mon Mar 31, 2008 6:53 am
Pandora_B Yeah, I've got a similar problem at the moment. An ex-boyfriend found out that I'm engaged, and then he started calling and leaving messages four or five times a day. My fiancee and I live together, so when we started receiving "ZOMG I love you don't get married to that guy" messages, it caused a few fights. I had his number blocked on both my land line and my cell, maybe it's best if you do the same. yep, Ive put myself under invisible on messenger. Removed his phone number from my phone, luckly he hasn't decided to call because I would hang up on him. so far things are ok... but we'll see... he's suposed to come up in may, just when Chris will be up
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Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 5:38 am
Hazy D-Angelique Alright... Im happily in love and engaged to Chris. And I have no intentions of leaving him. But others do not seem to understand this. Mostly my ex and his friend. His friend was talking to me yesterday, wondering why I broke up with my ex in the frist place. I dated him 4 seperate times and it just never worked; he was possessive, overbearing, I couldnt even go to the bathroom by myself! And now that Im getting married to Chris, this friend is trying to break us apart so that I can go back with my ex (which isnt gunna happen). chris does know about this and we've been talking. mostly he's been keeping me calm. which is a good thing. So... does anyone have one of these? if so... how do you work things out or deal with them? well you just need to come out and tell them to let you be ur happy and ur going to be with chris no matter what and if they dont like it to bad they just cant stand it that ur happy and theyre not just put 2 feet on the ground and let them no
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Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 9:58 am
there was this kid in middle school that i liked. i told him at the end of one year in his year book. he didnt have the same feelings. so i gave up on him. i was still friends of course but now not looking for anything else. besides he was chasing this one girl who didnt like him. in my 9th grade year i found the one i love and we have been together ever since, were moving in together when i graduate this year. anyways i found out that the guy from middle school apparently had feelings for me at some point. well too bad. and then! last night i found out that my boyfriend was jealous of my middle school friend. i didnt notice but David thought, Pudenz (kid from middle school), was trying to steal me from him. rolleyes
men.. rolleyes
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