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 Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 4:47 pm
ok... my story.
i found this wonderfull guy (jon)and i fell in love with him. things started going down the dumps... but he still wanted to work it out. then his BEST FRIEND (tim) got drunk and revealed his true feelings to me. saying hes always loved me and he hates the way my boyfriend treats me. well, guess what i did? broke up with my boyfriend and started dating his best friend.
well i dated his bestfriend for a month, and fell in love with him too. we started to have sex, then i had a bad feeling. LIKE WHAT THE ******** ARE YOU DOING??? so i stopped and took a shower and cried my eyes out.
i still loved jon.
then tim went to mexico, and i was living with jon waiting for my boyfriend to get back. they were still best friends. i spent so much time with jon. and almost every night he would get drunk in his room. one day i went in there and asked what was wrong. he just said he loved me and wanted to be held and cried for hours.(and hes not the type to cry hes a big tough guy) i heard a rumor that tim had met someone else in mexico, so i went back to jon. i told tim (yet i still loved him)
9 months later i had a baby.
honestly i dont know whos he is. im scared and jon wants a paternity test and tim wants nothing to do with me. i love them both, and i dont want to hurt either of them. jon doesnt know that i had sex with tim. and tim doesnt know that the baby could be his. please im so scared.
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Posted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 8:41 am
Honey, that sure looks like a mess. Internet hugs don't do well but... *hug* I sure hope you get that sorted out.
My opinion? You need to find out who's the Daddy. And whoever he is needs to know the truth. Even if the truth hurts one (or both) of them, the truth is always better. And when it comes to guys, having a serious relationship, you can only choose one. Either Jon or Tim. (I've had to choose before myself! It's hard, I know.) But when it comes down to it, you have to choose.
I'm here to talk if you ever need me. PM's are welcomed. smile
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Posted: Sun Mar 23, 2008 11:50 am
First thing ... find out who daddy is. Then go from there. It sounds like Jon will stay with you no matter what. If you love him and he loves you. Then you and the baby are a family. The paternity results wills ay whether Jon is or is not the babies daddy. The papers for Tim would be separate. Hugs hon! We're here for you!
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