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 Posted: Sat Mar 15, 2008 11:39 pm
I broke up with my boyfriend.
We started off as best friends,
then it suddenly turned into that
cute puppy love. After that "Will
you go out with me?" making it
'official' moment, we barely talked
or saw each other. He never called
me, but I always called him. I made
plans with him over the weekends, but
he always ended up being busy with
the family and canceling.
A month without seeing each other,
and barely any talking, I felt, and still
feel hurt, but my feelings have changed
quite a bit towards him. The infatuation
has faded, and my feelings turned back
into a friendship feeling. Instead of fooling
myself, and leading him on, I just had to
put the relationship on halt, for both our sakes.
The feeling of breaking a guys heart,
especially the heart of once my bestfriend...
it's that feeling of having your breath taken away,
that weird, tingly, pressure on your chest, and it
is kinda hard to breath.
Blah.
I feel terrible.
(Feel free to call me a heartbreaker, b***h, whore, etc. if it pleases you.)
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Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2008 1:34 am
OMG OMG OMG!!!
So one of like my bestest friends in HS dated one of like my other bestest friends... and he was all "I'm busy sorry"... like ALL THE TIME!
But it was funny, because everyone else knew the kid was like the biggest gay in our entire school. But she didn't catch on... EVER!
Like they "dated" for like... I can't even tell you how long, and all it was, was her complaining about how he never sees her... and the only time he saw her our other friend was like ALWAYS around (I think he has more of an infatuation with our other friend, she's a girl, but I think he wants her to be his f** hag, which she kinda is, but she REFUSES to admit it).
I just thought of how HILARIOUS it would be if he was actually gay and you just couldn't see it. And don't come here with that whole "No I know he's straight, he likes this, this, this, and cars". That pretty much proves nothing other than the fact that you're like stalk-tastic <3.
Why would anyone call you a whore? That doesn't really even apply in this case. Heartbreaker? Maybe. b***h? That's always fun... but not a whore.
And stop feeling bad, you did what you had to do in order for you to be able to live your life... You're not 40... you're not going downhill yet... so the fact that you dumped some guy that was OBVIOUSLY wasting your time doesn't mean anything. It's what you're SUPPOSED to do at your age... of course when people just decide to break up with you and you're sitting there like "WTF?" and then they're all "Imma get a restraining order on you" and you're all "I haven't talked to you in 3 months" and they're all "you've been harassing me a lot" and you're all "I haven't talked to you in 3 months"... it's kind confusing... But that's a WHOLE nother story, in a WHOLE nother state... 3nodding
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Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2008 1:18 pm
buzzkid24 OMG OMG OMG!!!
So one of like my bestest friends in HS dated one of like my other bestest friends... and he was all "I'm busy sorry"... like ALL THE TIME!
But it was funny, because everyone else knew the kid was like the biggest gay in our entire school. But she didn't catch on... EVER!
Like they "dated" for like... I can't even tell you how long, and all it was, was her complaining about how he never sees her... and the only time he saw her our other friend was like ALWAYS around (I think he has more of an infatuation with our other friend, she's a girl, but I think he wants her to be his f** hag, which she kinda is, but she REFUSES to admit it).
I just thought of how HILARIOUS it would be if he was actually gay and you just couldn't see it. And don't come here with that whole "No I know he's straight, he likes this, this, this, and cars". That pretty much proves nothing other than the fact that you're like stalk-tastic <3.
Why would anyone call you a whore? That doesn't really even apply in this case. Heartbreaker? Maybe. b***h? That's always fun... but not a whore.
And stop feeling bad, you did what you had to do in order for you to be able to live your life... You're not 40... you're not going downhill yet... so the fact that you dumped some guy that was OBVIOUSLY wasting your time doesn't mean anything. It's what you're SUPPOSED to do at your age... of course when people just decide to break up with you and you're sitting there like "WTF?" and then they're all "Imma get a restraining order on you" and you're all "I haven't talked to you in 3 months" and they're all "you've been harassing me a lot" and you're all "I haven't talked to you in 3 months"... it's kind confusing... But that's a WHOLE nother story, in a WHOLE nother state... 3nodding
Thanks Buzzy~
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Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2008 3:20 pm
What Buzz just said was made me sad. Gucci, I know what you mean. I did the same thing. Only difference being that I couldn't hang out with him for being grounded all the time. He never called me, even though before I remember talking for, like, five hours. It sucked, and I broke up with him. Because I'm a b***h, I did it through a text message. Actually, I'm a wimp and I thought he liked this other girl. And he'd never talk at school cause he said "he wouldn't want to talk about things like we do in front of other people". And it totally sucks when your boyfriend won't look at you in public. This is how I rationalize it to be okay to end a relationship in a text message.<<<
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Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2008 4:50 pm
Gawd, I wish I could get over a person like that >.< I get so connected to the person that I like that I wouldn't be able to get over them if they didn't talk to me in three years XP
I'm pathetic D: I think I need help ._.
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Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2008 5:00 pm
that doesnt make you a b***h or a heartbreaker or anything.
it makes you human.
what you want or even whats best for you might hurt someone. If he truly cared he wouldn't be so distant.
Its an eye opener for him, kinda like a favor like saying-- Be a better boyfriend.
[: props to you, darlin.
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