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 Posted: Sat Aug 27, 2005 12:29 pm
Recently...I met a guy, He was nice, and easy to talk to...He told me I was attractive....A first for me...and I didn't believe him. I have been messed with a lot, in middle school guys would gather in groups and each other to ask me out as a joke... I have a hard time taking compliments now, and I can never say yes when I get asked out because I am worried they are joking...
I found out he was sincere, and he really does want to see me again...
I feel so bad for not trusting him, for thinking he was one of those kids who was trying to ask me out as a cruel joke.
Has anyone else made any mistakes like that?
Please, share your stories.
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Posted: Sun Aug 28, 2005 8:58 am
I too had all the joking guys coming up to me to ask me out, I never wondered if anyof them were sincere because I know they were all joking.... but what I do wonder about is if there were any guys that actually liked me, cause I had a few guys that always flirted with me and talked with me, but I guess I was the type to flirt with but never go out with...
but I wish they all could see me know, cause I lost like 10 pounds since highschool, and I grew my bangs out, and I am wearing some makeup....I think I look 200% better, I just wonder if seeing me now would make a differance.
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Posted: Sun Aug 28, 2005 12:07 pm
Boys here smell like New Jersey. Yup big piles of land fields. lol I had a guy once be nice. I didn't really believe he was being nice to me. He said I was really funny, had good sense of humor and when it came to my talents which are acting and singing, he said I was the best in the whole school. Then one day heard him talk to his friends and I don't know if they were talking about me, but he said, "I don't like fat chicks." I sort of talk to him still, but he has a girl friend now.
Though yup, I get guys coming up to me joking about asking for dates and then they ask if they go out will I eat all his food or will he need to buy me two seats at the movies.
Alright..I don't think I'm that fat. I'm 189 pounds. Is that really that bad? Well, here all the girls are twigs with no a** or boobs and have orange skin for they go tanning. Boys smell..I bet they smell like New Jersey everywhere. I know for a fact I don't take compliments well. I never believe what people say. I have parents who bash me, a brother who makes fun, friends who try to change me, and guys who make fun of me.
So..to tell you the truth I don't know when was the last time I got a compliment. I bet it was here, on that picture forum..That's pretty sad..for none of you know who I am, just I post pictures a lot.
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Posted: Sun Aug 28, 2005 5:11 pm
You shouldn't feel bad about not trusting the guy at first. It's a common reaction after being picked on by them. I've gone through the girls jokingly ask me out. I think the worst one was at the Roller rink for me, she came up and told me her friend thought I was cute and her friend bust out laughing. This is of course, not counting the s**t I went through this summer -_-'' sweatdrop
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Posted: Sun Aug 28, 2005 6:04 pm
Just The Other Day Two Guys In The Hall Said,
"Hey Maggie. Your Looking Really Sexy. Wanna Go Out?"
I Know They Are Joking So It Was Best To Ignore...
But I Myself Was Full Of Laughter When My ExBoyfriend Tarasi Asked Me Out...
Until I Got Informed He Was Serious... : DD
And He Was One Of The Greatest Things That Ever Happened To Me.
Too Bad His Mom Made Me Break Up With Him Cause Of Skin Color. D:>
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Posted: Sun Aug 28, 2005 11:19 pm
Shampoo_0405 Boys here smell like New Jersey. Yup big piles of land fields. lol I had a guy once be nice. I didn't really believe he was being nice to me. He said I was really funny, had good sense of humor and when it came to my talents which are acting and singing, he said I was the best in the whole school. Then one day heard him talk to his friends and I don't know if they were talking about me, but he said, "I don't like fat chicks." I sort of talk to him still, but he has a girl friend now. Though yup, I get guys coming up to me joking about asking for dates and then they ask if they go out will I eat all his food or will he need to buy me two seats at the movies. Alright..I don't think I'm that fat. I'm 189 pounds. Is that really that bad? Well, here all the girls are twigs with no a** or boobs and have orange skin for they go tanning. Boys smell..I bet they smell like New Jersey everywhere. I know for a fact I don't take compliments well. I never believe what people say. I have parents who bash me, a brother who makes fun, friends who try to change me, and guys who make fun of me. So..to tell you the truth I don't know when was the last time I got a compliment. I bet it was here, on that picture forum..That's pretty sad..for none of you know who I am, just I post pictures a lot. i like that. boy smell like new jersey....lol...
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Posted: Mon Aug 29, 2005 12:47 am
You shouldn't feel bad. It's a common reaction after having been teased for a long period of time. Just take the opportunity and don't think back.
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Posted: Mon Aug 29, 2005 9:22 pm
Don''t beat yourself up for not believing him at first....women who have been teased/ridiculed by guys wind up building up their defenses so that they won''t get hurt later on.
I''m glad that you realize that there are guys who think you''re pretty groovy biggrin
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Posted: Tue Aug 30, 2005 7:46 pm
I'm pretty insecure. I'm not even overweight and I tell off people most of the time thinking that it's a cruel joke. sweatdrop
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Posted: Wed Aug 31, 2005 8:09 pm
I dont think there are too many people out there today who dont get riddiculed that offten, I know a couple people who were very popular and they were teased be people like us, so I guess things work both ways..... confused
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Posted: Wed Aug 31, 2005 10:24 pm
emeraldwhirlwind You shouldn't feel bad about not trusting the guy at first. It's a common reaction after being picked on by them. I've gone through the girls jokingly ask me out. I think the worst one was at the Roller rink for me, she came up and told me her friend thought I was cute and her friend bust out laughing. This is of course, not counting the s**t I went through this summer -_-'' sweatdrop I am with you man. The same thing happened to me in high school. It happened so often that I stoped looking at them or even acknologing their existance. That makes them angery.
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Posted: Sat Sep 03, 2005 4:49 pm
yea its happened to me so many times that i stopped counting and sorta gave up on finding someone i stoped goin to dances etc. at my high school but i am trying to decide if i want to go to my junior prom or not
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Posted: Sat Sep 03, 2005 9:57 pm
cha. here be-eth my tale.
when i was a kid n in middle school I always got made fun of because I was fat. (less so in 8th grade, but whatev.) and recently I've been getting lots of compliments on my looks (even stupid assholes who are deluded enough to think I'm an underage prostitute honked and yeled deragatory statements at me from white trucks/vans, but that just pissed me off n made me swear off guys for the day.(from just bi to lesbian for 24 hours!!! What other crazed teen can say that?))
and I always get the feeling they might be joking n are just very good actors. So lately I've been looking in the mirror and trying to find what the hell they think is so pretty about me. I can only find little bits of it and this might sound strange, but I resent that. Why the ******** couldn't this part of me come out sooner? Why did I have to deal with all sorts of social trauma if I'm so goddamn pretty? Hell, this probably contributes to my dependance on stuffed animals for a while after I go through a change! I'm so scared they won't like me and I can always depend on an inanimate object. Worst of all this is redefining who I am, somebody considered not so bad on the eyes. I JUST LEARNED TO ACCEPT BEING FUNNY LOOKIN!! gonk NOW I GOTTA GET ALL PURTY N s**t?! WHAT THE ******** IS WRONG WITH ME?!! crying So now I have more excuse for fearing that I'm constantly being watched. Thanks so much all you people who sed I was pretty, you REALLY are helping me with issues!! ~twitchspazzes~ sorry, I just had to rant. I bottle stuff up... sweatdrop
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Posted: Mon Sep 05, 2005 8:47 pm
DarkInsigniae i like that. boy smell like new jersey....lol... It's true. 3nodding Hmmmmm.....*Sniffs him* stare lol blaugh
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Posted: Sat Sep 17, 2005 5:31 am
oh so many of that happens to me all the time. it eventualy got so bad i had to leave my school. that and all the other fat stuff. i'm not really fat, i'm just tall and big. people laughed at me and stuff, and now...now i get to be all by myself here. i wish i could find a girl who was nice, and sincere, and big like me.
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