Martial J
Not to sound vein, but my conflict is more in the fact that my instructors want me to devote myself to one style or another. Especially my White Crane teacher.
Yeah, I know whatcha mean. They should understand if you want to mix things up a bit. It's basically how martial arts today have evolved. I once did tkd, but I quit after a year cause I felt I had learned everything I needed. I practice at home now, but I'm looking for a place to learn either jiu-jitsu or straight up mma. My advice is that ya just don't mention you're training in other disciplines unless ya have to.