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 Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 9:23 am
so moving this summer, to NC. as I've said many times.
(I'm trying to convince myself that I'm really going)
Basicly..
same guy..
more than a yr now..
cant get enough of em.
dont want too.
Best thing ever happened to me.
We're engaged.
Sound stupid? (obviously, you just said that in your head didnt you?)
well I still have another 2 yrsof school to finish.
and he has one.. then he's joining the marine corps as enlisted. while I have to go to college to be an officer for the marine corps.
we want to get married this summer.. before I leave.
I'm 16.. he turns 18 April 1st.. (my april fool. <3) but honestly..
Its not just a highschool sweetheart..
we want to prove them wrong..
we will prove them wrong.
thoughts?
opinions?
worked out?
didnt work out?
agree? disagree?
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Posted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 9:26 pm
I'm not going to try and deny you love this guy, but should you wait a few years before you're absolutely sure?
Marriage is an expensive, and long, emotionally draining commitment. o_o;
And you don't have to get married to prove you love him.
I dunno. I wouldn't marry anybody unless I'd been with them for five years or more.
People change, and then so do other things. o_o You really shouldn't rush marriage. You have your whole life to cook meals for ungrateful assholes and do their laundry while your at it.
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Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 8:59 pm
I THINK THAT'S TOTALLY SWEET. DD<
liek
srsly
it's ******** adorable
But I think you should maybe wait until you finish school before walking down the aisle.
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Posted: Sat May 24, 2008 1:29 am
This is one of those cases where I'd normally just wish you luck, not expecting anything to come of it.
But, instead, just wait a while before marrage, stay engaged until hes at least been at the marine corps for a year or so, so you know your relationship can last through it, and is strong enough to cope with the distance.
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Posted: Sun May 25, 2008 8:31 pm
I've been with a person for a year and 4 months and not have it work out.
I've been with a person for two years and not have it work out.
But, after experiencing what I feel in my relationship right now, I can relate to how you feel.
I have just one thing to say and it's fine if you don't listen to me, you're going to do what you're going to do... but, STAY ENGAGED until you're older.
I think you're too young to get married, honestly.
I would hate for you to rush it and not truly, like, enjoy it. Because you'll feel like your wasting time up until you leave and are separated. You'll be like: Holycrapweonlyhavethismuchtimeleft and then you'll be all: WE ONLY HAVE THIS LONG LEFT.
You need to ENJOY the time you have now and not waste it with wedding preparation.
I think if you wait you'll appreciate your wedding more.
I mean, come on, you're engaged, you're obviously still bonded together... but yeah, just, wait... o_o Please.
I know that, personally, I'd probably be a bit mentally scared to tell people I'm "engaged" let alone "I'm married."
I'd love to say I'm a "long term girlfriend" for a looooooooong time.
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Posted: Mon May 26, 2008 4:38 pm
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