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Posted: Tue Mar 04, 2008 7:09 pm
Me and my lover have been getting urges and gotten close to doing it... can u guys give me advice on how to resiset...
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Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 4:21 pm
Dont put yourself in those situations.
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Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 5:02 pm
I agree with Jay. I personally haven't met the woman I am to spend the rest of my life with yet (I don't think) so i don't really know about it. But as always, praying couldn't possibly hurt biggrin .
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Posted: Sat Mar 08, 2008 6:03 am
Yeah, I'd say try not to be alone in private with this person, and especially not for long periods of time. Many people think "Oh, I can handle it." So did I. That really was my downfall, so... yeah.
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Posted: Sat Mar 08, 2008 2:11 pm
I wouldn't really be the one to ask for advice... But yeah, I would stay out of the kinds of places like alone in a room or places where it might happen...
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Posted: Wed Mar 12, 2008 7:24 pm
But what if I have to be alone with this person...with noone around...for certain reasons....
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Posted: Thu Mar 13, 2008 3:40 pm
You'd have to explain the reason that there is no way you could avoid being alone for lengthy periods of time in places where people are likely to have sex for me to be able to help further...
...and stop abusing the ellipses. Commas and periods are your friends.
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Posted: Fri Mar 14, 2008 5:09 am
The more you tell us the better able to help you we are. But i can't blame you for not wanting to open up to a bunch of strangers on the internet.
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Posted: Fri Mar 14, 2008 4:13 pm
Starflyer 71 You'd have to explain the reason that there is no way you could avoid being alone for lengthy periods of time in places where people are likely to have sex for me to be able to help further... ...and stop abusing the ellipses. Commas and periods are your friends. I believe that it's ellipsi. And you don't have to tell us if you don't want to, but it would help.
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Posted: Fri Mar 14, 2008 5:02 pm
Try double-dating with your good friends. They can keep you accountable and they also are great to talk to if you have a solid relationship with them....
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Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2008 9:04 am
GuardianAngel44 Starflyer 71 You'd have to explain the reason that there is no way you could avoid being alone for lengthy periods of time in places where people are likely to have sex for me to be able to help further... ...and stop abusing the ellipses. Commas and periods are your friends. I believe that it's ellipsi. And you don't have to tell us if you don't want to, but it would help. Nope. It's ellipses [E-lip-SEES]. I checked. wink Dots of fun and mystery, lol. And I just noticed that like half of the threads in the guild have ellipses in their titles. Hmm... it's a conspiracy of the grammar faction to take over Gaia!
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Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2008 12:11 pm
sex can wait masterbate! ..ok srry
but try to fill your time by seeing each other in public places..or where other people are around
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Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2008 2:53 pm
emuthesuperhero sex can wait masterbate! ..ok srry but try to fill your time by seeing each other in public places..or where other people are around Since we're on the subject of grammar policing (well... I was, anyway), the proper spelling is mast urbate. But I digress, lol.
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Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2008 6:02 pm
Starflyer 71 Nope. It's ellipses [E-lip-SEES]. I checked. wink Dots of fun and mystery, lol. And I just noticed that like half of the threads in the guild have ellipses in their titles. Hmm... it's a conspiracy of the grammar faction to take over Gaia! Oh no! You've discovered the sub-cult of grammar pirates pirate . But yeah, we could do something about that but what?
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Posted: Tue Mar 18, 2008 4:55 am
I've noticed that someone has mentioned that "sex can wait, masturbate" but where is the view on masturbation from God? isnt it in the same league as other sexual urges.
As for your urges. Sex is the most natural thing that God created- BUT He made it for procreation between husband and wife, not before.
Just a few thoughts for you...
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