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 Posted: Thu Feb 28, 2008 2:34 pm
Ok well you all know that I like a boy in my class named Vaughn right?? Well I'mthinking of getting up the nerve to ask him out. Iwas thinking of writing a note asking him out and give it to my friend Sarah and then she gives it to him. Do you think that's a good idea?? I heard him say a while ago that he would never say no to a girl who asks him out, so he would probably say yes to it unless he changed his mind or has a girlfriend already... (I hope not and I don't think so)
I really like him and I'm sure I want to go out with him and have him be my first boyfriend and perhaps first kiss.
Do you think I should ask him out over note or is that too inpersonal?? Do you have any better ways to ask him out without asking it to his face?? I'm a little too shy to do that again.
Ok so here is a random question: Who do you think is the hottest on American Idol this season?? I think Danny is!! He is sooo hot!! I love his hair... And he's sooo sensitive!! I loved how he was crying when one of the girls left.
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Posted: Thu Feb 28, 2008 2:40 pm
eh...sorry, but...a note given to him by your friend? i think it's better to just say it to his face...casually, not like "go out with me?!" more like, asking to hang out but make it known you want it to continue sort of thing
and, o don't watch reality TV apart from Masterchef ^^; which isn't really the same thing at all
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Posted: Thu Feb 28, 2008 2:45 pm
I... don't watch American Idol xD
You should probably ask him out in person.. A note from a friend makes it seem like you don't have the balls to do anything for yourself. Guys like straightforwardness.
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Posted: Thu Feb 28, 2008 11:07 pm
But I'm too shy to ask him out to his face!!! My friend is also his friend so it's not too horrible. I'mn not going to do what this one guy did to my sister, asking her out over e-mail and mis-spelling her name...
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Posted: Thu Feb 28, 2008 11:13 pm
How about....
Tell him you like him a whole hell of a lot in a note you give yourself, then ask him out a little after that?
Oooor just tell it all to his face? It's not as painful as you might think. ;p
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Posted: Thu Feb 28, 2008 11:53 pm
MoonTree How about....
Tell him you like him a whole hell of a lot in a note you give yourself, then ask him out a little after that?
Oooor just tell it all to his face? It's not as painful as you might think. ;p
hahaha xD i totally thought you meant give herself a note saying she like him alot, i was like ":/ what good would that do?"
then ...i got it sweatdrop i'm sloooowwww in the mornings ^^;
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Posted: Fri Feb 29, 2008 4:29 am
If you think you might be too shy to say it all to his face, then you can write a note, but your friend should not be delivering it. That seems a little juvenile to me, not to mention that is the recipe for disaster. For all you know, Vaughn might think Sarah is the one who wrote the note and end up going out with her. It might sound like something that could never happen, but encounters like that can be really tricky. Basically, I think if you get Sarah to do it, you're just like... asking Murphy's Law to kick in.
I'm of the personal opinion that things like this are best done when speaking face-to-face, but that's just me. You might just have jitters from thinking about it. :/ I think you should at least try to tell him on your own, but write a note as a back-up for him to read in case you can't get it all out. Then you're covered in case something goes wrong.
P.S. - to the boy who asked your sister out through e-mail and in doing so, misspelled her name, way to go, dude. Nothing is sexier than that...
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Posted: Fri Feb 29, 2008 1:09 pm
Yes, honesty and straightforwardness are the best policies xO!
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Posted: Fri Feb 29, 2008 9:52 pm
Well he already knows that I like him (I can thank Brennan for that stare stare stare He's so annoying, he only tells von I like him one million times every day. Just to annoy me. He also told the entire class that I like him too.) so I really don't need to give him a note telling him that.
I had another idea on how to ask him out without telling it to his face. I could write a note and instead of having Sarah give it to him, I could stick it in his locker for him to find next time he opens his locker... That doesn't sound as good typed as it did in my head but oh well.
I REALLY DON'T WANT TO ASK HIM OUT TO HIS FACE!! Please don't make me!!!
I found out that some other girls like him too and they know I like him so they might ask him out so I need to ask him out soon!! I'll try to ask him on Monday if Sarah is there. I have to talk to her before I do anything.
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Posted: Fri Feb 29, 2008 9:58 pm
Yes, we are making you.
No, no we're not. xD
But it'd be best if you did that :/ Guys like chicks who are straightforward and don't give them any bullcrap 3nodding 3nodding
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Posted: Fri Feb 29, 2008 10:35 pm
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!
Please don't make me!! I'm to scared to ask him out in person!! I don't want to be rejected immedietly if he's going to say no. I would have some time to think to myself of how stupid that was and then if he said yes then love myself for letting me be able to wait for the answer and if he said no then I would be able to not be so upset because I would have time to be ok with being rejected and I wouldn't stutter a whole bunch while asking him. Also, I make say the wrong thing and sound like an idiot.Editted for stretching. I hate stretching :/ --Sagey
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Posted: Fri Feb 29, 2008 10:40 pm
Well, you're never gonna know until you suck it up and do it x3
I mean, I did it alot in high school..
I always got rejected, but it didn't mean I stopped trying :/
You shouldn't be so overcome by fear, hun... It'll take over your whole life eventually and then you'll be too scared to do anything D:
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Posted: Fri Feb 29, 2008 10:50 pm
Well I'll do it on Monday when I talk to Sarah.
Well it's embarressing to get rejected. And at my school, if you do something, everyone finds out about it!! I don't want to find out that I got rejected again. 2/2 guys rejecting me!! NOOOO!! I'm too scared!! I know I need to suck it up and stuff but I'm not sure if I can. I'm not sure I'm ready for a face-to-face thing!!
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Posted: Sat Mar 01, 2008 1:29 am
KitKatLove555 Well I'll do it on Monday when I talk to Sarah.
Well it's embarressing to get rejected. And at my school, if you do something, everyone finds out about it!! I don't want to find out that I got rejected again. 2/2 guys rejecting me!! NOOOO!! I'm too scared!! I know I need to suck it up and stuff but I'm not sure if I can. I'm not sure I'm ready for a face-to-face thing!!
Yeah but kids in high school have very short attention spans. They'll forget about it in a day or two @_@; It's no biggee...
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