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 Posted: Wed Feb 27, 2008 4:31 pm
SimplyHayleyy.
im 13. and i want to have sex really bad.
when everyone talks boutit or i see movies that involve it, it makes me jealous. sweatdrop
some kids talk bout it in school and its like they are rubbing it in my face.
and the most of i am ashamed of is that i want to do it at a party when im sober or drunk. is it like..normal for me to think that?? i just picture it as a fun way.
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Posted: Wed Feb 27, 2008 5:05 pm
thinking of sex and wanting to have sex are perfectly normal. I want to have my first too.
But if you want to have sex, you should know that your first time will be very significant to you yourself, would you want to lose it semi-consciously at a party?
Also, I think that 13 is too early to have sex. After all I am 16, and I haven't even had one. I am thinking that I might get lucky starting from 18 and on
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Posted: Wed Feb 27, 2008 6:48 pm
As Cuperdon said, it is very normal to have sexual urges at your age.
You just have to have enough self control to know you're not ready for sex until you are seeing an ob-gyn, have one or two methods of birth control that you know how to use, know how pregnancy occurs, know about STDs, have a plan for what you would do in case of accidental pregnancy, etc.
As for wanting to have sex at a party, it's normal to have fantasies. Most have a fantasy or two that turns us on but we wouldn't necessarily do, we just like to think about it. If you really do see yourself having sex at a party though, that's also fine. After all, we can't make moral judgments because we are all different. You would just have to make sure you are prepared for sex before having it, no matter how and where you have it, and 13 year olds just are not ready in my opinion.
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Posted: Thu Feb 28, 2008 4:43 pm
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Posted: Fri Feb 29, 2008 3:07 pm
yes it is pefectly normal to want and think about sex just make sure you are well informed and have several methods of birth control like lorien said just make sure you are ready and with some you like or some one you know that does not have any stds
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