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 Posted: Thu Feb 21, 2008 7:23 pm
Ok, this might not make sense and there will probably be spelling mistakes as I type this, but im crying and I cant really change that.
My mother and I were going to have a party to celebrate my birthday and a few of my cousins as well. This was to take place saturday the 23. well, my mom and I started to clean our house and after five minutes, she was winded and she couldnte breath right. I wanted her to go to the hospital and they refused her because of the fact that she is behind on a ******** payment. So she started to cry and my mom hardly ever cries, and she told me that she can hardly afford my house and that we could lose it, my ******** dad hasnt paid child support in the last three months, my sister moved in with him and just so much stuff has happeded!! ME and her are trying to clean, to get our minds off of it. I cant go out there yet, because I am still crying. I can hear her cough from in here, annd it makes me cry even harder. I am so scared for her, scared for me. I dont want to go to school tomorow, I want to stay and take care of her. I dont want her to see me cry, I have to be stronger, both of us crying wont make it better.
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Posted: Fri Feb 22, 2008 6:45 am
Seems like hard times...but. I believe in you. You,and your mother too,you both are strong wonderful women. And you can't just let it go... I hope everything is going to be better soon.
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Posted: Sat Mar 01, 2008 9:56 pm
I'm so sorry to hear this gonk
Sorry i'm just now getting to this...
But has their been any new info since?
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Posted: Sun Mar 02, 2008 9:41 pm
My mom wasnt breathing right because she has pnemonia. She is going to be off work for a while now, thank god that she has several weeks of paid sick leave stored up. I'm looking for a job to help pay for the house, hopefully I can find one soon. Luckily, my mom just got a huge income tax return, so we should be fine for the next couple of months.
Still sucks though.
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Posted: Sat Mar 22, 2008 1:52 am
Were? You guys still can. It'll be a good way to take your mind off of things, you know? Nothing like stressing out about guests to get your mind off of real problems lol. (I know, I've been exactly where you are, in terms of being sick and behind on payments, and near losing the house and whatnot).
I want to say this right here, though, to make sure you see it - IF SOMETHING BAD HAPPENS AN EMERGENCY ROOM CANNOT REFUSE YOUR MOTHER, WHETHER HER PAYMENT IS BEHIND OR NOT. There, that should be nice and eyecatching hehe.
Have you contacted the child support agency or police or anything, about your dad? It might be worthwhile, especially if you're struggling. I'm really sorry that your sister moved in with him, but it might be better, because it's one less person to feed, which means that little much more to go towards house payments and whatnot. I know it's sad, but try to look at it in terms of money, as money seems to be the root of most of this?
As for crying, it's okay to cry. Sometimes the best thing you can do is cry with your mother lol. But you are right, crying won't solve anything. So my job advice would be to get one near your mother's work, to save on gas, car pool, try to work similar hours to her, that sort of thing. Good luck heart
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