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 Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 9:54 pm
At 5:30 monday night I started to have severe cramping and blood loss
At 7:30 I went to the ER with D to get checked out
At 8:30 we left and I tried to stick out the pain at home
But at 9:00 I was brought back to the ER by ambulance
At 9:30 I was readmitted and had to wait several hours in a full waiting room
But after 11:30... I went to the bathroom... and... it... came out...
My cramps stopped
the bleeding lightened
I left the ER w/o being seen
Calling my doctor in the morning
But I'm still hurt... we're extremely hurt... our new little one... is gone
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 10:04 pm
O Kira, i know no words that can alleviate the pain you must be going through. All my thoughts and prayers go out to the family. If you would like to take a few days off from the guild just pm one of us mods and i am sure we can all pull together to do the job you pour your soul into.
*hugs thightly*
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 10:14 pm
 「「.無理.を.通して.道理.を.蹴飛ばせ!」」
Kira I'm sorry to hear...
I can't bing myself to offer you any words of consolation...but if you need to talk, I'm here.
>.< I hope for the best...
「「.俺.を.誰.だ.と.思って.やがる？！」」
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 10:16 pm
My heart stopped and I started to cry when I read the title of this thread. I died a bit on the inside because I felt how much you and D really really really wanted and already loved the new child. No words I can say can bring any true consolation, but I want to let you know that I'm here for you and that I still wish you, D, and Jena all of the brightest blessings possible and all the happiness going forward.
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 10:20 pm
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 10:24 pm
That is extremely sad to hear. =( I wish I could do something for you. *hugs tight*
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 10:24 pm
Oh my god, Kira, when I saw the thread title my heart nearly stopped.
I'm... I'm so sorry. I know I can't do anything for you, but I do want you to know that I really wish I could. If there's anything I can do for you, anything at all, please PLEASE let me know and I will gladly get it done for you.
Kira, I'm so sorry. I know how much you and D wanted to have another baby, and it was almost like it was our child as well, we - and I'm speaking for the guild because I know it to be true - were going to try our best to go through the pregnancy with you both. We would also like to go through your time of mourning and support you in the same way.
Again, please, Kira, D, both of you, if there's anything you need... well, you know who to come to.
I wish I could comfort you in real life, but I want you both to know that I'm feeling for you very much and I'm very sorry.
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 10:31 pm
I'm so sorry, Kira. I teared up when I saw the thread title. I just wish there was something I could do for you other than offering my condolences, and best wishes that you are blessed with a child in the future.
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Second_Crimson Vice Captain
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 10:33 pm
I know nothing I say could make it hurt any less, but still my deepest condolences. I understand how incredibly hard this must be on you and D. *huggles tightly* Brightest blessings and happiness going forward.
You can talk to me if you need anything. ANYTHING KIRA. I love you. *hugs again*
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 10:34 pm
Oh... ********... *Hugs tightly*
I'm sorry. If I can help in any way at all, let me know. Just... ********.
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 11:00 pm
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. It's a terrible thing to lose a child even one that hasn't been born. Unfortunately miscarriages are kid of like the unspoken common occurrence among women. You know from the time of conception to the time of birth only 10% make it. At least thats what I have heard. But many women have miscarriages. My mother had two (in between having my brothers and I) and my friends mother had two too (inbetween her and her older sis too). Most women how are trying for children or having families have them, not to make your pain mean less. It doesn't, but you aren't alone. There is nothing wrong with you, it probably was just meant to be that way. Even though I don't believe in god, I will pray for you, not pray to god, but to mother earth and karma. And I wish you and your loved ones the best of luck and hope for the future. I am sure I speak for the rest of the guild when I say we are here for you.
with love,
lily
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 11:32 pm
... my heart stopped and I teared up when I saw the title... I can't even express how much I'm sorry... Oh my God...I don't know what to say... Words don't do anything for something like this... My sister has had 3... Theres nothing any one can say... But we are all here supporting you...
Keeping you in my prayers Kira... *hugs you tightly* You know we are all for you...
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Posted: Tue Feb 19, 2008 12:11 am
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Posted: Tue Feb 19, 2008 2:38 am
Am really sorry to hear about this.
Just reading about this makes me want to cry inside and I would cry right now. You and D don't deserve this.
There's probably nothing more I can say to make you feel better, but I'm glad at least you are okay. You should take the time off the guild if you feel you need it. We all will understand.
If there's anything that you need, I'm right here.
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Posted: Tue Feb 19, 2008 3:20 am
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