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 Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 7:54 am
the sun is rising, the screams have gone ...
too many have fallen, few still stand tall ...
I had unprotected 'sex.'
I wouldn't even call it 'sex.'
He was inside me for like, 2 minutes.
He wasn't close to ejaculating.
But there is pre-c**.
Now last time i checked, that's mostly before you c**.
BEFORE you post I KNOW I SHOULD HAVE USED A COMNDOM.
Jesus.
What is the likelyhood, of him not finishing into me, him not being close, I had my period at the beginning of this month ...
... that I'm going to get pregnant?
I'm not on birth control.
Also, He took a shower the night before, and has obviously urinated several times throughout the time where he last masturbated, and when we had 'sex.'
Aka, he hasn't masturbated since before the shower.
So I'm not sure if there is much sperm to be there?
... is this the ending of what we´ve begun?
... will we remember what we´ve done wrong?
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 8:55 am
the sun is rising, the screams have gone ...
too many have fallen, few still stand tall ...
Okay, please?
... is this the ending of what we´ve begun?
... will we remember what we´ve done wrong?
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 9:16 am
You did have sex. Sex is when the p***s goes into the v****a. It doesn't matter if you two orgasm or not. It still counts if it doesn't last long.
We cannot tell you or anyone else your exact chances of getting pregnant since pregnancy depends on so many factors. All we can do is tell you that pregnancy is possible anytime a p***s is in your v****a. There's a good chance you'll be fine. However, if you really want to play it safe, you can get Plan B if this happened within the last 72 hours. Other than that, all you can do is wait for your period and take a pregnancy test if you're late.
Don't get angry with us because you knew you should have used a condom and didn't. If you're ready for sexual activity at all, then you're ready to be responsible about it. Pick up a box of condoms, schedule an appointment with an ob-gyn, and talk to her about your other birth control options.
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 9:19 am
the sun is rising, the screams have gone ...
too many have fallen, few still stand tall ...
No no, I'm not angry. Just a little worried.
I'm sadly not 18, so I can't get Plan B.
My therapist said I'm probably fine, and I'm
going to talk to my mother about birth control
veeeerrrry soon.
I'm going to still see if I can have a friend get
the Plan B [it was last night ... so]
If not, I guess I wait eight days and take a pregnancy test.
... is this the ending of what we´ve begun?
... will we remember what we´ve done wrong?
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 9:29 am
That's great that you plan on talking to your mom about birth control. You only need to be 18 if you want to get Plan B over the counter. You can still get it from an ob-gyn at any age, even 17 and under. I don't recommend anyone get it over the counter anyway though. I think everyone should talk to their ob-gyn before taking it regardless of how old they are. So since this happened last night, Plan B is still an option for you if you can see an ob-gyn within the next day or two. "Plan B® is now available without a prescription for consumers age 18 or older, but a prescription is needed for women 17 and younger." http://www.go2planb.com/ForConsumers/HowToGetIt/Default.aspx
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 10:19 am
the sun is rising, the screams have gone ...
too many have fallen, few still stand tall ...
It's scary that I'm 16 and a half and I've never seen an oby-gyn.
My therapist told me to tell my mom I'm having abnormal cramping.
I did and my mom blew me off, but my therapist told me to tell
my mom again tomorrow, and the day after. So she'll have to take me in.
I'll get birth control then.
As for Plan B, I've got to have my friend get it, I'm not 18.
Yeah. I don't mind talking to my mom.
She keeps telling me and getting all defensive that I'm too young.
rolleyes Whatever. I'm going to keep talking to her about it.
If it comes down to me saying I'm sexually active ...
Whatever.
... is this the ending of what we´ve begun?
... will we remember what we´ve done wrong?
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 11:33 am
You don't need to be 18 to get Plan B. You can get it from an ob-gyn at any age.
You also don't need your mother to take you to the ob-gyn. If you can drive or get a reliable ride, you can go by yourself. Planned Parenthood and Family Planning can give you a pap, birth control, and Plan B even if you are underage and your mother isn't with you. They even make it a point not to let your parents find out unless you want them to find out. You can search for a clinic near you at www.plannedparenthood.org
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 11:40 am
the sun is rising, the screams have gone ...
too many have fallen, few still stand tall ...
Alright. Well I'm not sure how to get to an ob-gyn.
I mean, ride isn't the issue, it's what do I tell my mom?
I think my first thing to do is to have my friend try
and get Plan B.
If nothing else, I have a few people that can give me a ride today and tomorrow, probably to a Planned Parenthood that's about 30 minutes out.
I do have a Photo project to shoot ..
Hm.
What kinds of things do they ask you at planned parenthood?
... is this the ending of what we´ve begun?
... will we remember what we´ve done wrong?
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 11:41 am
the sun is rising, the screams have gone ...
too many have fallen, few still stand tall ...
I just read a little more, apparently I can call and they can write me a prescription.
Maybe they can send it to the Wallgreens near me and a friend can pick it up.
[I don't have a car.]
... is this the ending of what we´ve begun?
... will we remember what we´ve done wrong?
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 11:59 am
As for what to tell your mother, that depends on what you're comfortable telling her. You can be honest and tell her you're going for birth control or you could lie and say you're going to the movies.
When you go to the ob-gyn, they will probably ask you a lot of questions. Some of the questions might even be seem really weird. That's because they see a lot of very young people, and they want to make sure they're not having sex against their consent or being abused in any other way.
I used to go to Family Planning. They would make everyone fill out a paper that asked questions like how many people have you slept with, have you ever slept with anyone a lot older than you, do you ever feel forced into sex, etc.
They'll probably also ask you if you work, if you have insurance, and if you want to keep your visit a secret from your parents.
They also ask about your physical health, allergies, the health of close relatives, etc. That information can help them decide what birth control is right for you.
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 12:14 pm
the sun is rising, the screams have gone ...
too many have fallen, few still stand tall ...
Most of those questions I have no issue answering, and I know the definite answer to them all.
The movies might be an interesting idea. Idk though.
I'm just hoping that my friend can get it; it would solve a lot of problems.
It says on the PP site that they can sell it to men that are 18, with ID and consultation without an Rx. So ...
I'm hoping that works first.
I really appreciate this.
My therapist, boyfriend, and two close friends highly doubt I'm pregnant.
But I don't want to take the chance.
... is this the ending of what we´ve begun?
... will we remember what we´ve done wrong?
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 1:15 pm
Exactly. I agree with them that's there a good chance you're not pregnant, but it's usually best to play it safe just in case! Few people say, "Darn it, I shouldn't have been so careful during sexual activity," xp but an awful lot of people say the opposite...
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 3:16 pm
the sun is rising, the screams have gone ...
too many have fallen, few still stand tall ...
As it turns out, my friend couldn't get the pill.
I'm going to see an ob-gyn this week [not for Plan B]
but to get on birth control.
I'm pretty sure I'm fine, in eight days I'll get a pregnancy test.
... is this the ending of what we´ve begun?
... will we remember what we´ve done wrong?
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 3:21 pm
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 3:36 pm
Yeah. A little worried still, but I have high hopes.
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