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Are You Shy?
Yes, stop making me talk!
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iLady_Wonderland

PostPosted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 8:55 pm


Well, the last guy i was with broke my heart. sad cry
And now, I really like this guy, but i've gotten a lot more modest and shy since i left middle school, so i hardly say hi to the guy. for my freshman year, he was in one of my classes, and i started really liking him. but now...i cant even talk to him. and i dont think he likes me (im dont even know im just so negative.) so i dont ask him out or anything b/c im afraid of what he'll think of me. Plus, he's always around other people, so it's hard to get to him, especially when u have no classes w/ him. And I feel so sad when I'm not w/ him...I have to really talk to him before he forgets that we were once good friends.

So, how do i pull him aways from his group without lookin' like a total idiot, and what do i say to him?

(I know im lame, i act like a little kid about this kinda' stuff, but im just naturally a shy person, so dont laugh or anything we've heard all those crappy little remarks before.)
PostPosted: Fri Feb 15, 2008 8:38 pm


ok shyness truely is a disease. Just like Roosevelt said, we have nothing to fear but fear itself", meaning it is ur shyness that u fear u dont fear him do u? no. But u gotta appraoch it slowly dont be afraid to approach him in the group their prolly more accepting than u might think. Once ur more comfortable around them ull be more comfortable around him and more able to speak ur mind to him. And also, dont be afraid to play hard to get girl u dont have to say everything with words. once u hang out around him and smile at him a few times the right way, wait until he notices and then say "ok catch u guys later" and walk back to ur own group or class and hell be intrigued, hell know. hope that helps and if u need any more advice dont be afraid to pm me anytime.

Chippy the Vampire Slayer


Vateal

PostPosted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 2:14 pm


what she said 4laugh
PostPosted: Fri Jul 18, 2008 9:41 am


i agree

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