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 Posted: Wed Aug 24, 2005 11:56 am
I have a question that i need an awnser too. I s it possible to be in a gay relationship and not have gay sex? being as gay sex in a way defines people as gay? what do you all think
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Posted: Wed Aug 24, 2005 12:17 pm
Yes, if you're a-sexual, for example. You can certainly be in ANY relationship, without having sex. A "gay-relationship" doesn't immediatly mean that there's sex involved, but two people of the same gender are in a relationship...
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Posted: Wed Aug 24, 2005 12:40 pm
ooh! I'm happy! I just let you in the guild this morning and you're already starting your own topics! biggrin
Answer- yes, just being in a relationship doesnt mean you need to be having sex...
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Posted: Wed Aug 24, 2005 12:42 pm
wordman ooh! I''m happy! I just let you in the guild this morning and you''re already starting your own topics! biggrin Answer- yes, just being in a relationship doesnt mean you need to be having sex...
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Posted: Wed Aug 24, 2005 5:25 pm
Do you mean you want to have a homo relationship with hetero sex? That's the feeling I got from that question. I think I'm offbase but topic poster needs to clarify for little old me. whee
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Posted: Wed Aug 24, 2005 5:37 pm
what i think screwthegoverment was asking was if its posible to be in a same sex relationship with out actually participating in sexual acts with that person.
and i belive you can. though alot of people i know seem to just want the sex and not the relationship. though im more up for the relationship and cuddeling. though a few fun nights arent bad. but thats another topic.
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Posted: Wed Aug 24, 2005 5:40 pm
stare They won't let me have a topic like that. If that's the topic here, about having sex or not, you should definately not unless you really want to. But I would have to say that you just have feelings for guys and are squeamish about sex (or with girls 3nodding ), you might want to consider if you're truly gay/bi. I suppose it's the level of your love. If you have a deep enough connection, I suppose it just becomes a want in your soul.
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Posted: Wed Aug 24, 2005 5:50 pm
i always thought of sex as something that can happen from a relation ship you dont actually need it to be in a wonderfull loveing relatinoship. it can be a form to show great emotions twords someone. but there are many ways you can do that instead of sex. it all depends on the people in the relatoinship everyone is diffrent and entitled to their own form of expression.
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Posted: Wed Aug 24, 2005 8:17 pm
Dark Eagle Babe Yes, if you're a-sexual, for example. You can certainly be in ANY relationship, without having sex. A "gay-relationship" doesn't immediatly mean that there's sex involved, but two people of the same gender are in a relationship... I agree
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Posted: Wed Aug 24, 2005 8:54 pm
sure! Hetero people do this all the time...it has to do with remaining sexually abstinent, not the gender of your partner. 3nodding
edit: well, I guess the gender of your partner is important in determining (if you care) whether your relationship is "straight" or "gay" but it doesn't matter in terms of the engaging in sexual acts together or not thing...
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Posted: Thu Aug 25, 2005 7:39 am
hey all i was reading all your awnsers and i appreciate all of your input but i mean i love the guy but i just dont want any thing in my a** i just cant get over that but i want to be with him and nobody else help me out please
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Posted: Thu Aug 25, 2005 7:53 am
screwthegoverment hey all i was reading all your awnsers and i appreciate all of your input but i mean i love the guy but i just dont want any thing in my a** i just cant get over that but i want to be with him and nobody else help me out please If you dont want it in your a**, put it in his. Problem solved.
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Posted: Thu Aug 25, 2005 7:53 am
FlyingRodent19 Dark Eagle Babe Yes, if you're a-sexual, for example. You can certainly be in ANY relationship, without having sex. A "gay-relationship" doesn't immediatly mean that there's sex involved, but two people of the same gender are in a relationship... I agree
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Posted: Thu Aug 25, 2005 7:55 am
screwthegoverment hey all i was reading all your awnsers and i appreciate all of your input but i mean i love the guy but i just dont want any thing in my a** i just cant get over that but i want to be with him and nobody else help me out please Well, you can have sex but no penetration.. Just hug, kiss lick and stuff
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Posted: Thu Aug 25, 2005 11:31 am
Sex doesn't define any relationship out there.
So why would it involve a gay relationship.
All relationships start small and sex is jsut a way to confirm the feelings between you both.
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