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 Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 12:22 pm
Okay, I have this "friend" and we were normal sixteen-year-old girls, just friends, but she keeps trying to make "moves" and things like that, the other day she was looking at my boobs.
help? I like her as a friend and nothing more!
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Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 5:13 pm
You might have to just straight up tell her your not into girls, as long as you know for sure that she's interested in you.
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fred_dani_danielly Captain
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Chippy the Vampire Slayer
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Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 11:22 pm
well this is a delicate situation my friend, u gotta handle it right or u could hurt her. Now im guessing ur not straight? would u consider any friends with benifits situation is more of what im asking. post below.
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Posted: Sun Feb 10, 2008 5:59 pm
Just because she's the same gender as you does not make it okay for her to keep "making moves" at you. Nobody should be put in a situation in which they're made to feel sexually uncomfortable & trapped.
However, you have a voice & you have choices. I'm assuming due to the quotation marks around the word friends that chances are you're not very close with her. This may sound somewhat evil, but you should definitely consider trying to keep your distance from her.
You could also use subtle tactics to help find out if your friend does want to get with you or if something else is going on. Try talking to her about boys. Try talking to her about girls.
Unless you possess amazing tact, I'd say this is an instance in which you most likely don't want to flat out confront her about it. She'll almost certainly get defensive, & it's too likely it will end up a really big mess.
Good luck 3nodding
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Posted: Mon Feb 11, 2008 10:36 am
Ah...I've had that happen before and it was a little awkward to be around her. But soon I got up the courage to talk to her and I told her how I liked guys and that she was an extremely great friend. After that, everything was perfect. She took it better than I had thought and it was actually no big deal.
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Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 5:50 am
She could be just going through a stage of exploring her sexuality, I agree with the above, talk to her about boys and see what her reaction is. Then talk to her about how you're REALLY interested in boys etc etc.
Usually I'd always advise someone to be honest and say it how it is but in this case I think the above would hopefully prove to be enough, as you know us girls are pretty good at picking up on things to do with this!
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Posted: Mon Jan 19, 2009 6:11 am
look i havent been in this type of situation with a boy (i am straight) but i have some bi-sexual and lesbian girl-friends(in a friend relationship not dating relationship) and if she keeps acting like this just do what people alredy told you to do in this topic but take it easy if you want to keep her as a friend ok. and if you think that things arent going the way you expected for the good or for the bad you'll have to deal with it sooner or later if you wanna fix this problem
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Posted: Mon Dec 28, 2009 7:24 pm
i would think for a while and say the truth as delicately as u can, send her a text about it.
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