These are people who are asking sexual advice from random people on the internet. And a lot of those random people are giving them bad information. Unfortunately. a lot of teens these days feel safer asking people on here instead of people they should be asking IRL. If they do not feel safe enough to communicate about these things with their parents, they are turning to friends and online outlets to get their information. I think it would be better if they had correct information from people with experience other than other teenagers out there trying not to make babies (and not always succeeding at that). This isn't me preaching; this is me providing information these people are already looking for.
I know it is a forum for married people, and from what I have read and seen, I consider most of the people here to abound in common sense. We all have experience, so who better to help other people trying to garner their own experiences? I also know some of the people on here have kids, so I was also wondering what they would tell their own children.
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When I think about it, I (like my mother) don't want my children having sex before marriage. but I know that things don't allways work out that way, so I want to instill in my children that it is best to be wise. and that sex should never be just sex. It (idealy) should be between lovers who want to spend their lives together.
I don't disagree with that. But if my child was having premarital sex, I would at least want them to know something about it other than the in-out business. I want them to know that they can talk to me, and that if they don't feel comfortable coming to either me or my husband, that there are other places (more reliable than idiot teenagers online) to go to for information and help.
I don't know, I thought it would be a good idea to ask here because, like I said, I value the opinions of the people who post here so I wanted to see what they could contribute. I didn't mean to offend anyone.
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