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 Posted: Mon Feb 04, 2008 2:30 pm
I've been debating this for quite sometime. I was wondering if I should speak up to my friend because I feel that she is turning away from God. She's been going out with this guy who isn't a believer in Christ and since then she hasn't been quite the same. She tends to avoid us in our youth at school and she said that her boyfriend completes her. I thought Christ was suppossed to complete u s so yeah. I don't talk to her that much I more of a quiet person but I can't help but feel a concern for her. Should I go and speak to her about this or not? Point of views would be really appreciated.
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Posted: Mon Feb 04, 2008 3:56 pm
I don't see anything wrong with her relationship
as of now I would say talking to her on the subject might not be a good idea
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Posted: Mon Feb 04, 2008 4:11 pm
lordstar I don't see anything wrong with her relationship as of now I would say talking to her on the subject might not be a good idea yeah, well like I said I ain't too sure so yeah.
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Posted: Mon Feb 04, 2008 4:38 pm
Friendly Yoshi I've been debating this for quite sometime. I was wondering if I should speak up to my friend because I feel that she is turning away from God. She's been going out with this guy who isn't a believer in Christ and since then she hasn't been quite the same. She tends to avoid us in our youth at school and she said that her boyfriend completes her. I thought Christ was suppossed to complete u s so yeah. I don't talk to her that much I more of a quiet person but I can't help but feel a concern for her. Should I go and speak to her about this or not? Point of views would be really appreciated. Well, it ALMOST sounds to me like your freind is just love struck, and a little bit obsessed~ However, if I were you, I would certainly talk to her about what's going on... But then again, I am not shy XD
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Posted: Tue Feb 05, 2008 12:31 pm
mazuac Friendly Yoshi I've been debating this for quite sometime. I was wondering if I should speak up to my friend because I feel that she is turning away from God. She's been going out with this guy who isn't a believer in Christ and since then she hasn't been quite the same. She tends to avoid us in our youth at school and she said that her boyfriend completes her. I thought Christ was suppossed to complete u s so yeah. I don't talk to her that much I more of a quiet person but I can't help but feel a concern for her. Should I go and speak to her about this or not? Point of views would be really appreciated. Well, it ALMOST sounds to me like your freind is just love struck, and a little bit obsessed~ However, if I were you, I would certainly talk to her about what's going on... But then again, I am not shy XD Yeah well I was thinking that too but it's been going on since October so yeah. Mainly when I've seen them together they are in inappropriate positions and yeah.
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Posted: Tue Feb 05, 2008 1:49 pm
Friendly Yoshi mazuac Friendly Yoshi I've been debating this for quite sometime. I was wondering if I should speak up to my friend because I feel that she is turning away from God. She's been going out with this guy who isn't a believer in Christ and since then she hasn't been quite the same. She tends to avoid us in our youth at school and she said that her boyfriend completes her. I thought Christ was suppossed to complete u s so yeah. I don't talk to her that much I more of a quiet person but I can't help but feel a concern for her. Should I go and speak to her about this or not? Point of views would be really appreciated. Well, it ALMOST sounds to me like your freind is just love struck, and a little bit obsessed~ However, if I were you, I would certainly talk to her about what's going on... But then again, I am not shy XD Yeah well I was thinking that too but it's been going on since October so yeah. Mainly when I've seen them together they are in inappropriate positions and yeah. Ohh... I would DEFINITLY talk to her ASAP!
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Posted: Tue Feb 05, 2008 1:54 pm
mazuac Friendly Yoshi mazuac Friendly Yoshi I've been debating this for quite sometime. I was wondering if I should speak up to my friend because I feel that she is turning away from God. She's been going out with this guy who isn't a believer in Christ and since then she hasn't been quite the same. She tends to avoid us in our youth at school and she said that her boyfriend completes her. I thought Christ was suppossed to complete u s so yeah. I don't talk to her that much I more of a quiet person but I can't help but feel a concern for her. Should I go and speak to her about this or not? Point of views would be really appreciated. Well, it ALMOST sounds to me like your freind is just love struck, and a little bit obsessed~ However, if I were you, I would certainly talk to her about what's going on... But then again, I am not shy XD Yeah well I was thinking that too but it's been going on since October so yeah. Mainly when I've seen them together they are in inappropriate positions and yeah. Ohh... I would DEFINITLY talk to her ASAP! You don't think it will be awkward though since I rarely talk to her. I'm a quiet person by the way so yeah.
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Posted: Sat Feb 09, 2008 2:18 am
You should talk to her - anyone who thinks their significant other "completes them" is in for a big disappointment sooner or later. I love my husband, but I'm my own person! That's how mature relationships work! And you're right - God completes us. He can love us perfectly, even though we're not perfect. Mere mortal humans can't do that!
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Posted: Sat Feb 09, 2008 11:24 am
Friendly Yoshi mazuac Friendly Yoshi mazuac Friendly Yoshi I've been debating this for quite sometime. I was wondering if I should speak up to my friend because I feel that she is turning away from God. She's been going out with this guy who isn't a believer in Christ and since then she hasn't been quite the same. She tends to avoid us in our youth at school and she said that her boyfriend completes her. I thought Christ was suppossed to complete u s so yeah. I don't talk to her that much I more of a quiet person but I can't help but feel a concern for her. Should I go and speak to her about this or not? Point of views would be really appreciated. Well, it ALMOST sounds to me like your freind is just love struck, and a little bit obsessed~ However, if I were you, I would certainly talk to her about what's going on... But then again, I am not shy XD Yeah well I was thinking that too but it's been going on since October so yeah. Mainly when I've seen them together they are in inappropriate positions and yeah. Ohh... I would DEFINITLY talk to her ASAP! You don't think it will be awkward though since I rarely talk to her. I'm a quiet person by the way so yeah. Of course it will be awkward~ If you don't talk to her much, but, is a persons damnation or your own selfesteem worth more?
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Posted: Sat Feb 09, 2008 8:34 pm
mazuac Friendly Yoshi mazuac Friendly Yoshi mazuac Friendly Yoshi I've been debating this for quite sometime. I was wondering if I should speak up to my friend because I feel that she is turning away from God. She's been going out with this guy who isn't a believer in Christ and since then she hasn't been quite the same. She tends to avoid us in our youth at school and she said that her boyfriend completes her. I thought Christ was suppossed to complete u s so yeah. I don't talk to her that much I more of a quiet person but I can't help but feel a concern for her. Should I go and speak to her about this or not? Point of views would be really appreciated. Well, it ALMOST sounds to me like your freind is just love struck, and a little bit obsessed~ However, if I were you, I would certainly talk to her about what's going on... But then again, I am not shy XD Yeah well I was thinking that too but it's been going on since October so yeah. Mainly when I've seen them together they are in inappropriate positions and yeah. Ohh... I would DEFINITLY talk to her ASAP! You don't think it will be awkward though since I rarely talk to her. I'm a quiet person by the way so yeah. Of course it will be awkward~ If you don't talk to her much, but, is a persons damnation or your own selfesteem worth more? I think Yoshi has made up his mind already perhaps he has a crush nah that’s not it at all whatever it is your not saying so I still don’t think it’s a good idea there is no rainbow at the end of that road
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Posted: Mon Feb 11, 2008 1:23 pm
lordstar mazuac Friendly Yoshi mazuac Friendly Yoshi Yeah well I was thinking that too but it's been going on since October so yeah. Mainly when I've seen them together they are in inappropriate positions and yeah. Ohh... I would DEFINITLY talk to her ASAP! You don't think it will be awkward though since I rarely talk to her. I'm a quiet person by the way so yeah. Of course it will be awkward~ If you don't talk to her much, but, is a persons damnation or your own selfesteem worth more? I think Yoshi has made up his mind already perhaps he has a crush nah that’s not it at all whatever it is your not saying so I still don’t think it’s a good idea there is no rainbow at the end of that road yeah I'm going to talk to her so I've made up my mind. Also it's because I'm usually quiet and I don't tend to speak my mind out. But that one person is right I have to choose between anothers damnation and my own tendness to be quiet. Thanks everybody. Pray for me please that's all I can ask.
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Posted: Wed Feb 13, 2008 10:20 pm
Friendly Yoshi lordstar mazuac Friendly Yoshi mazuac Friendly Yoshi Yeah well I was thinking that too but it's been going on since October so yeah. Mainly when I've seen them together they are in inappropriate positions and yeah. Ohh... I would DEFINITLY talk to her ASAP! You don't think it will be awkward though since I rarely talk to her. I'm a quiet person by the way so yeah. Of course it will be awkward~ If you don't talk to her much, but, is a persons damnation or your own selfesteem worth more? I think Yoshi has made up his mind already perhaps he has a crush nah that’s not it at all whatever it is your not saying so I still don’t think it’s a good idea there is no rainbow at the end of that road yeah I'm going to talk to her so I've made up my mind. Also it's because I'm usually quiet and I don't tend to speak my mind out. But that one person is right I have to choose between anothers damnation and my own tendness to be quiet. Thanks everybody. Pray for me please that's all I can ask. what’s this about damnation you have lost it my friend this has nothing to do with god but everything to do with you not approving of her love life either she hits you or stops talking to you for a few days (min) or a few months (max) more power to her
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Posted: Wed Feb 27, 2008 6:02 pm
Lordstar, I appreciate that you're trying to post some reality, but you're starting to sound a little insensitive.
And anyway, the apostle Paul tells us in 1 Corinthians 6:14-15:
"Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness? And what accord has Christ with Belial? Or what part has a believer with an unbeliever?"
So, I'll have to disagree with you, lordstar. I don't approve of her love life either because of the aforementioned verses. Also, since believers are called Christians, we have taken on Christ's name. And since Paul didn't approve, I don't approve.
More power to you, Yoshi!
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Posted: Wed Feb 27, 2008 7:14 pm
rillegas08 Lordstar, I appreciate that you're trying to post some reality, but you're starting to sound a little insensitive. And anyway, the apostle Paul tells us in 1 Corinthians 6:14-15: "Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness? And what accord has Christ with Belial? Or what part has a believer with an unbeliever?" So, I'll have to disagree with you, lordstar. I don't approve of her love life either because of the aforementioned verses. Also, since believers are called Christians, we have taken on Christ's name. And since Paul didn't approve, I don't approve. More power to you, Yoshi! just to make a point try and make a point without using religion It will be a rare sight for you and I to agree on just about anything if anyone is being insensitive it would be Yoshi
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Posted: Thu Feb 28, 2008 1:42 pm
Easy.
My best friend used to be a good girl. The she met a bisexual "perky goth" girl a year older and her life started to become less than what it used to be. She's started dressing like the other girl, she's started to swear, and she's looked into witchcraft. She's cut herself to get rid of the angst her family gives her (unintentionally, but it still gives it to her). She's become dirty-minded.
She's not the friend I used to know. I want her back the way she was: fun, funny, moral, interesting. crying
I'm not saying this will happen to your friend, Friendly Yoshi, but it is more likely to happen than anything.
Are you satisfied, lordstar? No Scripture, just a real life situation that has happened to me.
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