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fred_dani_danielly Captain
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 Posted: Fri Feb 01, 2008 5:35 pm
Hey, just trying to get people a little more active. I'd like everyone to know they can post what they like in the Main Forum ^_^
Anyways, to the Topic.
What are your opinions on love. Do you think Age matters? Do you believe in love at first sight? Do you think you have to have known someone for a certain amount of time before you know if it's love? Please, do tell ^_^
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Posted: Mon Feb 04, 2008 1:38 pm
Oh that's just such a juicy topic, love it!!!
I think you can definitely be very attracted at first sight, and then the more you stare (with mouth agape) the more you suss and get an idea for what they're like. Sometimes you can be right, maybe it's just luck, but sometimes they can end up being a completely wrong for you. It's easy to be really impulsive and jump in with both legs and then it's too late, you're hooked before you've found out what they're 'really' like!
lol sorry if that's sounds really sceptical, it's just experience!
I think the love story I like the best is the slow, sutble building one that ends up in passion like in Pride and Prejudice. They were both deeply attracted to each other from the beginning but pretended they weren't and were 'off' with each other to try and disguise it lol!!! Of course it couldn't last......
So girls a good tell, tell sign that a guy likes you is if he's trying to be extra 'cool' or 'off' with you lol!!!
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Posted: Mon Feb 04, 2008 5:21 pm
age doesn't matter when it comes to love. most people judge others when their seen with an older person, but if u ignore the comments u'd be fine.
I prefer to know someone before i'm fully convinced. he may look like the right guy but u can't judge a book by it's cover...
(even if the cover is the most sexiest thing u've ever seen) ninja
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Posted: Mon Feb 04, 2008 5:27 pm
I don't think age matters either, considering I am 15, and my boyfriend is almost 19. Parents are completely against it though. We've been through so much and some how we are still together. I think the expression "I love you" is a really strong one, and should only be used if they mean it. In the beginning of the relationship, we just used it without much meaning, but now, he says it and you look into his eyes and you can just tell he's nolying. ( I also know this because he has changed soooo much for me ) I think like said earlier, you start off with attraction, and the love kind of grows. I still don't know if I love my boyfriend entirely, but i wouldn't have gone through so much if i didn't like him a whole lot, and the miore I get to know him, and see him, and listen to him, the more I like him, I think it acctually might be love, even though I'm only 15...Yeah biggrin
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fred_dani_danielly Captain
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Posted: Tue Feb 05, 2008 2:16 pm
I think there's so many different types of love, in other languages there are loads more words to discribe it whereas we just have 'love'!! I think the love that lasts is the one that goes beyond age and physical attraction - it's on a deeper level, a bond and I agree it's all the things you've been through and things you have in common that help maintain / grow it.
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Posted: Tue Feb 05, 2008 10:58 pm
xXEnglishMummieXx I think there's so many different types of love, in other languages there are loads more words to discribe it whereas we just have 'love'!! I think the love that lasts is the one that goes beyond age and physical attraction - it's on a deeper level, a bond and I agree it's all the things you've been through and things you have in common that help maintain / grow it.
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fred_dani_danielly Captain
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Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 5:42 pm
I really, personaly, don't think age makes a difference in love. If you like someone for WHO THEY ARE it doesn't matter.
And for love at first sight, It really depends, sometimes you could find a guy (or girl) you is reallt hot or pritty or cute but they might be a total JA*
*I assume ppl know what those letters stand for but for those that don't, its a horrible person
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Posted: Thu Feb 07, 2008 8:24 am
Love, you will hear me say this a thousand times, I hate that word.
I don't know what it means. Sure, I've heard people describe it to me, butterflies, frogs, etc, etc. I'm never happy with what they tell me though, it seems so far fetched to me. I don't know, I'm just the type of person who needs not just to see it to believe it, but also touch it, hold it, and study it. Meh.
I do not believe in love at first sight, not even a little. I think you can be sexually attracted to someone with one look, but not fall in love.
Age doesn't matter in my opinion. I personally don't like the idea of a 15 year old and a 30+ year old together though. I think both people in the relationship need to be mature enough to stand on their own and take care of themselves. Maybe I'm contradicting myself in saying that, if so, oh well. 8/
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Posted: Sun Feb 10, 2008 8:47 pm
I don't think age matters, either. I mean, like robbiepants said, if it's a 15 and a 30+ year old, then yeah, it may get a little weird. Though I don't mind it if they're both mature enough to make the realationship last.
I've been crushing on a guy for 2 years who's 3 years older than me, so of course I'd say that, haha (: As for love at first sight? Maybe. It exists only for those who've experienced it. I'd like to think that I did. The only thing is that, for me, it may not be a two-way thing. And I really don't like to use the word love, just because it is so powerful and only should be used when you totally mean it sweatdrop But the way I experienced my 'love at first sight' was more of a physical attraction, at first. He's amazingly good looking (: But then, over time, I met him, got to know him, and grew to like him for way more than just his looks. He's an awesome guy. It'd be nice if I could actually tell him that someday sweatdrop
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Posted: Mon Feb 11, 2008 2:49 pm
I think love can happen to any one at anytime...
...like theres this girl at school and she loves me and i love her but shes got a boyfriend and it really sucks cuz she dosn't like breaking up with people
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Posted: Mon Feb 11, 2008 8:58 pm
fred_dani_danielly
Do you think Age matters?
Kinda, more to the existent of how mature someone is and how well it is compatible with the other person. My dad didn't met my mom when he was 28 and she was 18 a senior in high school. fred_dani_danielly Do you believe in love at first sight? i believe in lust at first sight fred_dani_danielly Do you think you have to have known someone for a certain amount of time before you know if it's love? Na, most of the time i fall in love in the very beginning i treat the majority of my relationships like i am going to be spending the rest of my life with them, till i find a reason why i cant spend the rest of my life with them. Doesn't always work.
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Posted: Sun Feb 17, 2008 8:59 pm
I don't think age matters, but to an extent, it does. like if they're extremely older, like 30 years, then yes, it does matter.
I do believe in love at first sight, but at the same time not.
i do not think you have to know someone for a certain amount of time. if you like someone, you'll know when your heart tells you.
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Posted: Sun Jun 22, 2008 1:12 pm
As many people said age doesn't matter when you want to find love.{if you're a 14 year old that likes a 21 year old, that's just preverted}it has no age.
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Posted: Sun Jun 22, 2008 2:04 pm
ArtisticBarf Love, you will hear me say this a thousand times, I hate that word. I don't know what it means. Sure, I've heard people describe it to me, butterflies, frogs, etc, etc. I'm never happy with what they tell me though, it seems so far fetched to me. I don't know, I'm just the type of person who needs not just to see it to believe it, but also touch it, hold it, and study it. Meh. I do not believe in love at first sight, not even a little. I think you can be sexually attracted to someone with one look, but not fall in love. Age doesn't matter in my opinion. I personally don't like the idea of a 15 year old and a 30+ year old together though. I think both people in the relationship need to be mature enough to stand on their own and take care of themselves. Maybe I'm contradicting myself in saying that, if so, oh well. 8/
I hate the word... it's overused and no one really have a good enough definition for me.
Alot of people use it without really meaning it. It's so stupid.
To me, love is like winning the lottery. 1 in a 1000000. Most people say they're in love, but they are't. It's only hormones. >_>
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