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Mama Ame

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PostPosted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 4:53 pm


So Daniel and I were recently discussing the dominant and submissive side to a sexual relationships (not meaning S&M or anything, though if your into it more power to you ^_^ ). Then it got me thinking that there isn't a discussion like that in here, which kind of shocked me. So here it is! In your relationship which role do you normally take? Are you a take action type of person, and lead the way. Or do you prefer to be the one being lead? Or do you like to switch it up?

As for me 9 out of 10 times I'm more submissive. I'm not a very dominant person to begin with so when I try attempt it it just comes out sounding forced hehe.
PostPosted: Fri Feb 01, 2008 10:03 am


I'm more oF the dominant one. Sometimes I have to tell him be a little rougher with me, or take control, or things along those lines. It's kinda funny. 'Cause I want to be the submissive one, it just doesn't happen often. He is picking up on it though, I've gotta a fairly fast learner (even if he is a little dense and I have to spell it out first xd ).

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PostPosted: Fri Feb 01, 2008 2:28 pm


I'm such a switch. >] He likes to hear me scream, but I like to hear him toooo... Sooooooooo. Yes. BWHAHAHAA. We're both switches. I think he's more submissive than I am, but occansionally, he'll just grab the boas and tie me up. xD SO MUCH FUN!
PostPosted: Sat Feb 02, 2008 9:22 pm


I'm more a submisive time -- though I've tried to "lead the way", but he laughs at me so I don't do it anymore redface ...no worries though, I'd much rather be "lead" ^_^

danniqi


Mama Ame

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PostPosted: Sat Feb 02, 2008 9:38 pm


danniqi
I'm more a submisive time -- though I've tried to "lead the way", but he laughs at me so I don't do it anymore redface ...no worries though, I'd much rather be "lead" ^_^


Hahaha I completely agree.
PostPosted: Thu Feb 21, 2008 7:19 am


I switch it up, but it usually has the same pattern. I tend to start out as the dominant one, and once I have enticed him far enough, HE becomes very dominant and remains dominant until we're finished.

Sometimes, though, he'll be dominant from the beginning and sweep me away surprised

Angel de Lys


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PostPosted: Tue Feb 26, 2008 8:18 am


We switch it up,depends of our humor... is 50/50.
PostPosted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 7:13 am


I'm submissive, definitely. Occasionally I'll attempt to be dominant for his sake, but it doesn't feel comfortable. So I avoid that and let him do all the work. xd

Lady Catalina


SerinaButler

PostPosted: Mon Mar 10, 2008 3:42 pm


we tend to switch throughout the session depending on who's hornier at the moment.
PostPosted: Thu May 29, 2008 5:57 am


I am definitely the dominant one in the relationship. There's no way I'd be able to submit to anyone, even if it is my fiancee. sweatdrop

Pandora_B

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PurpleBubble

PostPosted: Fri May 30, 2008 12:54 pm


Submissive. I'm too afraid to be dominate....I won't even go on top redface
PostPosted: Thu Jul 24, 2008 10:22 pm


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My man and I can be either dominant or submissive. cool
But I'm more comfortable being submissive. 3nodding
So like you said, 9/10 I'm submissive and he's dominant. biggrin


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Kyoto Himura


MOONCHlLD

PostPosted: Thu Aug 07, 2008 2:48 pm



I'm the submissive one....

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