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 Posted: Mon Jan 21, 2008 11:35 pm
okay, i really like this guy. i met him when i started college a couple weeks ago and he's really sweet, and smart, but a little...socially challenged, i guess. he doesn't know what not to say in public...anyway, i really like him and we've fooled around a bit, but he went out and got some condoms recently...i haven't had sex, or even physiacl contact like that, since i made my vow of abstinence last july...i want to tell him, but i'm afriad i've led him on. i don't mind doing the other things, i suppose, but i'm just not ready for them now. he's done things on webcam for me, and i feel like i owe him...if this is too pornographic, i'm sorry, but...i don't know, i feel obliged, but i don't think i'm ready to go that far yet...
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Posted: Tue Jan 22, 2008 5:39 am
If you're not ready for sex just tell him. It doesn't mean you can't do other things instead of course, you know? Just depends on your meaning of sex.
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Posted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 6:15 pm
i'm kinda scared...i mean, the last guy i did anything with was my ex-fiancee...that's...that's a lot to hold up to...i mean, with anything else...gah! i don't know how to tell him, though...
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Posted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 7:39 pm
If you don't want sex, you need to tell him so he doesn't expect to get any.
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Posted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 10:10 pm
he just said he wanted to take it slower than we were! how awesome is that?
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Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 7:41 am
Coolies. Does that mean you can tease him now and he can't do anything?
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the_forgotten_thought Captain
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Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 5:44 pm
that's such good news! not only does that mean that he's cool with your vow, but also that you did good in choosing guys blaugh
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Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 5:45 pm
Though what is he going to do with those condoms he bought?
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Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 11:17 pm
Drak of Paradise Though what is he going to do with those condoms he bought? we used one...i broke my vow, and i didn't even tell him about it until afterwards...god, how horrible am i?
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Posted: Fri Jan 25, 2008 7:49 am
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Posted: Fri Jan 25, 2008 11:09 pm
i know...i broke my vow, so now i'm back to square one...
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Posted: Sat Jan 26, 2008 6:12 am
Unless you make a new vow.
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Posted: Sun Jan 27, 2008 12:14 am
like what, just make it to myself and say "no more sex until marriage?" it's kinda awkward, seeing as how i already broke the first one...but w/e, i'll try and keep this one, anyway.
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Posted: Sun Jan 27, 2008 6:34 am
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Posted: Sun Jan 27, 2008 9:29 am
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