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 Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 8:28 pm
»I'm kinda depressed right now, girlies. ;_; Here's why: I've been losing friends like crazy lately. My friend, Sherice, whom I've known since I was like... three/four has been hanging around this girl Alexis who lies about everything. No joke. She lied about having cancer [she changed her disease every year], she lied about her mom [she gave everybody different stories of how she died - from her being murdered, to her killing herself, to her getting hit by a semi-truck], about having a little brother and sister [she only has a sister], and at one point she said that she had a conjoined twin at birth who died when she/they were born. :/ So Sherice has been listening to Alexis, who talks a bunch of crap about me, my friends Mand and Tina. Alexis does this because Manda, Tina and I realized she'd been lying and we confronted her on it. So yeah. Now Sherice has been like... "Eww. I hate you." And she came up to me like... yesterday at lunch while I was at A-lunch with Manda's boyfriend Brendan [Manda and Tina have B-lunch] and we were talking, and I was depressed because Pat [my boyfriend/fiance] was gone for the day. I was also down for several other reasons [family/personal problems], and Brendan and I were talking about it. Sherice was like, "Hey Sophia. What's wrong?" And I was like, "Oh... lots of things." And she said, "Wanna talk about it?" And I said, "Yeah." Then she was like, "I can't. Bye." Then she just walks off. Wtf? So now she hates me because of Alexis. And Sherice and I were like sisters at point, you know? It just hurts so badly because I thought I could count on her for everything, but now I can't. Manda and Tina are two of my four closest chick-friends, but they don't understand how much it hurts to lose a friend like her. Imagine losing your friend of twelve/thirteen years because of some [pardon my french] b***h who believes everything that people tell her. :/ I hate Alexis.
Discuss:
People talking smack.
People lying.
Losing friends.
♫ I wish I was queer so I could get chicks. ♫
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Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 9:52 pm
D= Poor Faggy.
It's much too bad you don't have me around,
because whenever one of my friends lies to another friend about another friend,
I always take the person being lied to aside and tell them quietly that she's lying,
but that I just thought that they should know,
but I didn't want to call her on it and hurt her feelings -hasdonethatseveraltimes-
If possible,
I suggest asking another friend to do that,
and maybe tell her about the things she's lied about,
and say that she just thought she should know is case anything came up.
:3
I hope that helpsers ^^
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Posted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 12:00 am
  =O I've never lost a friend like that... But I did lose a friend/sorta/because he started hanging out with this girl, who is just... totally not right for him, you know, as friend. She ditches, bitches, is conceited, and uses people, and I'm like... I don't want to be around her, and he just hangs out with her, so we didn't talk for a long time. We talk like... very little once in a while... But I'm irritated because of her... he barely comes to school now... D: Seriously, I think you need to talk to Sherice a bit... yanno? Let her know how you're feeling... I mean... Don't suffer inside, if it is something you can reach out and try to mend, yanno? D: ><;;~ I hope things will sort out soon~ It's hard losing a close friend, Especially someone you've known forever, and I could never fathom such a loss
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Posted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 1:24 am
WinterBean D= Poor Faggy.
It's much too bad you don't have me around,
because whenever one of my friends lies to another friend about another friend,
I always take the person being lied to aside and tell them quietly that she's lying,
but that I just thought that they should know,
but I didn't want to call her on it and hurt her feelings -hasdonethatseveraltimes-
If possible,
I suggest asking another friend to do that,
and maybe tell her about the things she's lied about,
and say that she just thought she should know is case anything came up.
:3
I hope that helpsers ^^ Me, Manda and Tina all did. We weren't rude about it at all. :[ But oh wells. I'll get over it. Thanks, though. <3
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Posted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 5:56 am
Wow, it must be hard losing a friend like that. Especially over some b***h. I've known my best friend since birth, and I don't know what I would do without her! She is basically my life.
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Posted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 8:44 am
One time I had this really good friend whose name was Lindsey. She lied about everything. I mean everything. One time, she lost a tooth at my house and she went home and told her mom that my brother punched her in the face. That's just one time, I won't get into all the others. There was also this other girl who was kind of a b***h and she liked to hang out with Lindsey and sometimes she'd come over and she'd lie about why Lindsey should come to her house. And then the next time I saw Lindsey she would tell me all these lies about what a horrible time she'd had at that other girls house (even though I knew they were good friends) so that I wouldn't be mad at her, I guess.
I actually did like her a lot, though. She was my best friend for a while. confused
But that's beside the point. I'm really sorry you lost your best friend. I feel like my best friend is like my sister, too. I would be completely lost without her.
The world really just seems to be full of liars though, doesn't it? stare
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Posted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 9:44 am
♥
" im sorry :[
dont worry, your not alone.
im also losing a friend...not
because of some other person
but me... cry "
-D a n i i e D e e
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Posted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 7:15 pm
I haven't really lost a friend like that.
But my neighbor/used-to-be best friend moved houses.
I don't really talk to her at all, so it feels like I've lost a friend.
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Posted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 9:20 pm
If she's doing that to you, then she obviously has lost her roots, and doesn't deserve you. It seems like that friend she has is a bad influence and will eventually screw her over or hurt her and she'll come running back to you asking for forgiveness... You could either forgive her or punish her >>;
It isn't fair she's treating you like this, but it can't be helped.. Just see what happens and try to be nice to her when you see her..
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