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 Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 8:52 pm
I Think Everyone is avoiding me in towns
i feel like my friends only love me for my items
i cant eat straight
i cant sleep
im sick and cant stop vommiting.....
i feel like my friends have forgotten my birthday is this month.
i feel like they dont give a s**t my birthday is this month...
can thease mixxed emotions be from being single....
because i cant stop watching thoes cheesey relationship shows
and devorce court.....
im sick of it.....and i think that my in rl friends are avoiding me too
and trying to get rid of me....because on the bus friday
hannah was like "can you move so sarah can sit here"
i was like "No" and we kind of ignored eachother with our ipods
the whole ride home..................
idk i just feel empty.........
and i feel like my avi is empty
and it needs more stuff
to be more expensive and more
special and happy and more cluster.....
what is going on with me.....
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Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 10:06 pm
It sounds like you're hitting a low in your life.
It could be because of outside pressures, or just because your emotions are going through a change right now, and you're suspicious of others around you.
Why not talk to your friends in real life?
Tell them of your insecurities, maybe they can lay a few stresses to rest?
As for friends in towns, private message them and let them know you're there.
(check to make sure they're on and stuff.)
And try reaching out to them, they might be busy with their own real life stuff.
As for your avatar, why not hire a tek tek designer and get some avatar ideas going for more expensive items.
I hope you feel better soon, I had those sort of emotions for a few years, maybe it is a time for a life change?
New friends, new account? new avatar? Go to the friends forum on Gaia and meet new Gaians?
Good luck, if you'd like someone to talk to feel free to private message me.
I am not on every day, but I'll be more than happy to be an online companion friend. <3
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Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 10:58 pm
Wow. First of all, deep breath. Hold it for the count of ten, let it out slowly. Then breathe in for the count of ten and then release it again. Do that for a couple of times. It's a good method of calming yourself down. Now, let's see...
1. Towns can be stupid, it's probably kicking people out or freezing on them. People might also be signing on and then walking away from the computer [I do that all the time]. I sincerely doubt people are avoiding you on purpose. It's more than likely completely unintentional.
2. I feel that way sometimes, too, when I go through a "giving" phase, wherein I give several items away in rapid succession. I start wondering if people only like me because I 'spread the wealth'. But then I realize that if people really need to be friends with me just to get items on a game, they're pretty pathetic. Once again, I don't think your friends are really friends with you just because of items.
3. I don't think they've forgotten your birthday, but even in the unlikely event that they have, can't you give them a gentle reminder? It took me a good three or four years to learn the birthday of my best friend, and I still couldn't give you the birthdays of 90% of my friends. Usually, we remind each other ahead of time. It sucks, but... people do get busy...
4. Being sick gets everyone kind of depressed sometimes. I'd say you're restless from too much sleep, and when you're sick to your stomach, generally the last thing you want to do is eat something. Try some crackers or some soup, or just some water or orange juice or gingerale. Nothing hard on your stomach, like meat or dairy products.
5. Erm... I don't think it's entirely because you're single... You're a strong girl, you don't need a boyfriend to be happy, do you? I watch divorce court sometimes, and the relationship shows too... If you're depressed about being single, then you should try to get into the dating scene. But not having a boy[girl]friend isn't the end of the world, either.
6. You shouldn't base the fact that your friends are avoiding you just on one incident. You don't know why Hannah wanted you to move. She might have needed to speak to Sarah about something, that's all. And just because you both listened to your Ipods the whole way... well, I don't see why that's necessarily bad... You both had one, after all, and were involved in listening to it...
7. I like your avatar. I think it's very pretty. It could use some jewlery, but that's about the only change I would make. I personally think cluttered avatars are less attractive than non-cluttered ones. Some of the most beautiful avatars I've seen have maybe five - ten items on it. Also, just because an avatar is expensive does not automatically mean it looks good. Nor does having a lot of monthly collectibles.
8. My final conclusion is that you're having a bout of regular ole teenage depression, wherein you feel alone, grumpy, lazy, tired, restless, annoyed, irritable, angry, sad, depressed, unhappy, paranoid, and un-loved all at once. The good news is, this will eventually pass you by. smile Maybe you should get out of the house for a while and go hang out with your friends at the mall or something. Just leaving the house and getting some fresh air might help you a lot.
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