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I am actually somewhat embarrassed to post this. redface

After doing a little research I found out alot of women don't orgasm from penetration alone and that some have extreme difficulty reaching orgasm even with clitoral stimulation. I was actually wondering if anyone actually orgasmed from penetration alone or if there was always clitoral stimulation involved.

I can't orgasm from just penetration. I have to have clitoral stimulation, but it's best if we do both at the same time, so we can climax at the same time together.

about 70-80% of women can't achieve orgasm from penetration alone. So it's a fairly common issue. But it is possible. Kegal exercises might help, as they strengthen the muscular walls of the v****a. And trying different positions, as one person posted. Don't know if you're really looking for advice, but I thought I'd give it anyway xp

It depends. Sometimes I can orgasm with just penetration, but I'm usually very hot and bothered that I think anything would do. Most of the time it's just clitoral stimulation or a combination of the two.

Foreplay works for me. Spend sometime working it all up by doing other things, then when you feel you can't take it anymore, do the deed.

And try to clear your mind and focus, that's been a big problem with me, my mind wanders and while I'm having fun, I'm not 100% focused and it takes me a long time. Sometimes I'll just have to give up. I always tell him that I still had fun and it felt great and I love him. Never making it seem like he did anything wrong.

I know everyone has differing body types but the easiest way to orgasm I've found is that the girl stradles him "cowgirl style" while he stimulates the clitoris

(for being so brash I m getting embarrased again)

and breasts(will we/me get banned for this?) and sometimes bend down for a kiss

ok bye

"It's a small world and it smells bad
I'd buy another if I had back what I paid
For another <******** in a motorcade."

my boyfriend and i have never had intercourse, but we often play around. however, i'm never able to climax or anything. sometimes i think there's something wrong with me. ;~;

"What do we need to make our world come alive?
What does it take to make us sing? While we're waiting for the next one to arrive?
One million points of light, one billion dollar Vision Thing."

Song: Vision Thing;
Lyrics By: The Sisters of Mercy

I can. But only if he is on top and going fast and hard..like..pounding. redface It's weird, because im usually very un-flexible but when its that time i can move in ways i didn't know i could.. sweatdrop (knees near my forehead) redface whee

We have just started using a toy we bought. I can't seem to use it right. He uses it on me way better than i do. which kinda sucks when we got it so i could use it when we couldnt see each other for awhile. confused


phew..very in-depth... whee redface

Never had one redface but I am weird. I only let my soon-to-be fiance do me on top and THAT IS IT! I am not married yet and I want to save all the other fun positions and stuff for marriage (is that weird? lol). So...who knows, maybe I'll have one when I'm on top or with clitoral stimulation redface

This is so embarrassing. I'm taking a Sex class this quarter for my major and it is so embarrassing! But I'll be learning some interesting things that might help us struggling women! haha