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 Posted: Wed Jan 09, 2008 12:58 pm
I don't know if I told you guys about my freaky stalker. But yea...after that big problem the teachers tried to make him hang out with other people...but it doesn't seem to be working. He asked me out last month and I'm getting the feeling he's ganna ask me again. It's flashing! D': What do I say! OUR CONVERSATION WHEN HE ASK ME IF HE CAN ASK A QUESTION: Quote: Jamie says:
oh um i might not be at school the next day cause i am going to see if i can buy more anime dvds
Jamie says:
um do you want me to buy you some
GOOD DAY SIR! says:
no thanks
GOOD DAY SIR! says:
but thanks for asking
Jamie says:
ok
Jamie says:
oh um can i tell you some thing um i might have said it be for but can i still tell you something
GOOD DAY SIR! says:
uh...sure Good Day Sir is me. EDIT** Quote: Jamie says: um i was to shy to say it be for and stuff but i love you alot and i hope mebe if i can be your boy friend or something um i am sorry for asking you but i cant hold it in any more i love you alot natasha Jamie says: so ya thats how i feel about you I blocked him for like 3 months. Today he asked me when I was going to come online...so I felt kinda bad that I unblocked him. I really don't know what to do. He keeps bugging me to come online every day! He follows me everywhere! What am I suppose to say! I already said no before and that I only see him as a friend. But I don't know how to put it in a way that he would understand. He has a disability. I told him that I'm thinking right now. I don't want him to kill me....he seems kinda violent and his future ambition is to be a Killer. And he said that he will kill everyone but me so we can marry.
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Posted: Wed Jan 09, 2008 1:02 pm
Today at lunch he was masturbating with my pencil. Edit** Just right now he asked me to tell him what I think on Thursday because he's not going to be at school tomorrow (Finally a break D': ) Now he is saying how cool I am. Quote: Jamie says:
oh um you can tell me what you think about me being your boy friend on thursday ok cause i might not be at school on wedsday ok oh um sorry if i keep on talking about it
GOOD DAY SIR! says:
ok
Jamie says:
um i like talking to you you are so nice to me and i think you are cool to
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Posted: Wed Jan 09, 2008 1:49 pm
Awwww! :C This is a pretty bad situation, isn't it. And it's sad I guess. :C
I mean, not the stalking part, but that he likes you, but you don't want to let him down too hard part because you don't like him and stuff.
Welllllllll, I would just say that you don't like him like that, only as a friend (or whatever he is to you, but be nice about it...) and to please stop following me around. Because if he really does love you he would to what you want him to do for you, yes?
I dunno, that's the best I've got and that I've heard from everybody else and such...
So good luck with that. :3 Hope he doesn't go on a killing spree because you don't like him. D: I don't think he will, though. Because if he loves you enough he'll stop doing whatever you want him to stop doing. c:
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Posted: Wed Jan 09, 2008 3:10 pm
The Dark Nerd Awwww! :C This is a pretty bad situation, isn't it. And it's sad I guess. :C
I mean, not the stalking part, but that he likes you, but you don't want to let him down too hard part because you don't like him and stuff.
Welllllllll, I would just say that you don't like him like that, only as a friend (or whatever he is to you, but be nice about it...) and to please stop following me around. Because if he really does love you he would to what you want him to do for you, yes?
I dunno, that's the best I've got and that I've heard from everybody else and such...
So good luck with that. :3 Hope he doesn't go on a killing spree because you don't like him. D: I don't think he will, though. Because if he loves you enough he'll stop doing whatever you want him to stop doing. c: He pushed his brother down the stair because he didn't like him? I will probably talk to him on Thursday and try to explain to him that I don't like him like he does towards me. The teachers tell me to tell him but he only listens to me when he know its really wrong and its not for me. Like He tried to impress me by going in the middle of the road to get hit by a car and he said that he had powers and he would come out alive. I panicked and tried to call him over and he didn't listen and he almost got hit...twice. Now he's getting too creepy with his msn nickname and saying that he will protect me with his powers. His msn thingy is highlighted.
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Posted: Wed Jan 09, 2008 3:42 pm
gonk
I'm sorry your in a situation like that.
Once I had a boy stalker...
but he wasn't as... creepy... as yours.
But some questions: Have you dated other boys?
Do he know you've dated other boys?
Do you have strict parents?
Because when this kid Brendan asked me out (he was my creepy stalker boy) I told him that my parents had told me I wasn't allowed to date.
I hope that helped ^^
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Posted: Wed Jan 09, 2008 3:52 pm
WinterBean gonk
I'm sorry your in a situation like that.
Once I had a boy stalker...
but he wasn't as... creepy... as yours.
But some questions: Have you dated other boys?
Do he know you've dated other boys?
Do you have strict parents?
Because when this kid Brendan asked me out (he was my creepy stalker boy) I told him that my parents had told me I wasn't allowed to date.
I hope that helped ^^ I told him that about a year ago. And then after I told him... he asked when I was able to and I told him when I am 24 years old. I made sure that I was out of high school. I just really hope he doesn't visit me at all....and he knows where I live. (we had the same bus in Elementary school)
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Posted: Wed Jan 09, 2008 4:23 pm
Wow. This sounds like a pretty serious situation. I don't really know what to say.
Well, I guess you could just flat out tell him you're not interested. That would work in most cases, but he sounds a little... insane? (for lack of a better word)
You could also (as someone else suggested) tell him you are not old enough to date. You say you already have, but saying it again can't hurt, incase he... forgot, or something. confused
Or, you could tell him you're not ready.
I hope things get worked out. You might need to get help from an adult.
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Posted: Wed Jan 09, 2008 4:56 pm
Spindra Wow. This sounds like a pretty serious situation. I don't really know what to say.
Well, I guess you could just flat out tell him you're not interested. That would work in most cases, but he sounds a little... insane? (for lack of a better word)
You could also (as someone else suggested) tell him you are not old enough to date. You say you already have, but saying it again can't hurt, incase he... forgot, or something. confused
Or, you could tell him you're not ready.
I hope things get worked out. You might need to get help from an adult. Got teacher involve before. But I am now a bit more confident to tell him that I don't like him in that way...I'm just scared what he might do or say when I reject him again. If he does continue this...freaky-ness, I think I might have to speak to the Sp.Ed room again.
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Posted: Wed Jan 09, 2008 5:23 pm
That is a very hard thing to tell a person like that... hmmmm, well that is a little like what is happening to my sister. This one guy named Connor asked my sister out and she said no, she told him that she didn't know him well enough to go out with him. (Really, he is just a jerk and she doesn't want to go out with him. He used to go out with my sister's friend but they broke up and he was a jerk to that girl) Then he tried to become friends with my sister and to get to know her and stuff but my sister knew that she would never go out with him. He asked her out again and my sister just said that she didn't know him enough still. He is also going out with other girls while he is waiting for my sister to say yes. He tells his friends (Which tell my sister) that he is just waiting for my sister cause he really likes her. She will never say yes to him, espiecally since the way he acted when I was IMing him a couple times. My sister had ZAPped my to him one time and I asked him out and he said yes!! (Talk about desperate... I'm 2 years younger than him...) Then I was like no way and then we started talking about fighting and stuff and he was like "I can beat you up" and he's never even seen me before and I was like "Probably not" and he started being really rude and stuff and started cussing me out and stuff and so then my sister told him off and stuff. But he still likes my sister!!
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Posted: Wed Jan 09, 2008 6:04 pm
KitKatLove555 That is a very hard thing to tell a person like that... hmmmm, well that is a little like what is happening to my sister. This one guy named Connor asked my sister out and she said no, she told him that she didn't know him well enough to go out with him. (Really, he is just a jerk and she doesn't want to go out with him. He used to go out with my sister's friend but they broke up and he was a jerk to that girl) Then he tried to become friends with my sister and to get to know her and stuff but my sister knew that she would never go out with him. He asked her out again and my sister just said that she didn't know him enough still. He is also going out with other girls while he is waiting for my sister to say yes. He tells his friends (Which tell my sister) that he is just waiting for my sister cause he really likes her. She will never say yes to him, espiecally since the way he acted when I was IMing him a couple times. My sister had ZAPped my to him one time and I asked him out and he said yes!! (Talk about desperate... I'm 2 years younger than him...) Then I was like no way and then we started talking about fighting and stuff and he was like "I can beat you up" and he's never even seen me before and I was like "Probably not" and he started being really rude and stuff and started cussing me out and stuff and so then my sister told him off and stuff. But he still likes my sister!! Woah, what a freak.
Tell the teacher or something if he getting worse or something.
Or just beat him up or something.
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Posted: Wed Jan 09, 2008 6:23 pm
Oh wow. That's scawwy. :[
Um. I would lie. A huge elaborate lie.
But that's just me. xD
Maybe get a restraining order or something? o_o;
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Posted: Wed Jan 09, 2008 7:06 pm
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Posted: Wed Jan 09, 2008 7:32 pm
Scary.
I guess you would just have to tell him you don't like him that way. But, like...thinking of what he might do...D:
What's worse is he knows where you live and he goes to your school. D:
Somehow say it nicely so he doesn't go a bit...heartbroken, and..insane?
o.o
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Posted: Wed Jan 09, 2008 8:06 pm
winterberries Scary.
I guess you would just have to tell him you don't like him that way. But, like...thinking of what he might do...D:
What's worse is he knows where you live and he goes to your school. D:
Somehow say it nicely so he doesn't go a bit...heartbroken, and..insane?
o.o
I'll try.
@___@
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Posted: Wed Jan 09, 2008 8:17 pm
SakuraWars KitKatLove555 That is a very hard thing to tell a person like that... hmmmm, well that is a little like what is happening to my sister. This one guy named Connor asked my sister out and she said no, she told him that she didn't know him well enough to go out with him. (Really, he is just a jerk and she doesn't want to go out with him. He used to go out with my sister's friend but they broke up and he was a jerk to that girl) Then he tried to become friends with my sister and to get to know her and stuff but my sister knew that she would never go out with him. He asked her out again and my sister just said that she didn't know him enough still. He is also going out with other girls while he is waiting for my sister to say yes. He tells his friends (Which tell my sister) that he is just waiting for my sister cause he really likes her. She will never say yes to him, espiecally since the way he acted when I was IMing him a couple times. My sister had ZAPped my to him one time and I asked him out and he said yes!! (Talk about desperate... I'm 2 years younger than him...) Then I was like no way and then we started talking about fighting and stuff and he was like "I can beat you up" and he's never even seen me before and I was like "Probably not" and he started being really rude and stuff and started cussing me out and stuff and so then my sister told him off and stuff. But he still likes my sister!! Woah, what a freak.
Tell the teacher or something if he getting worse or something.
Or just beat him up or something. Yeah, I haven't talked to him for a while now, and my sister rarely talks to him. I could beat him up except for the fact that he's about 2 inches taller than me... I could outrun him though, eek but then people think I"m running away...
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