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 Posted: Thu Dec 27, 2007 4:40 pm
I broke up with my boyfriend last night.
And his mum hates me =/
I just said Ill bring all the xmas presents back to him cause I feel bad taking them.
i actually dont see what it has to do with her. ive just told him ill bring all the presents ******** hell.
Im hardly going to stay with someone Im not happy with
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Posted: Thu Dec 27, 2007 9:04 pm
I'm sorry to hear that, but I'm glad you've neded the unpleasnt relationship.
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Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 10:26 am
Yeah... Why should your Mom care? It's not like it was her boyfriend... o.o
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Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 10:28 am
neither of my parents approve of my gf, id say to a small extent ...no i was quite blinded, by the fact that a girl like her gave a damn about me (this is a different story just so you know)
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Posted: Sun Dec 30, 2007 7:04 pm
bah. in the matter of the christmas gifts i would have returned them back to the stores. i wasted some uber hard to get tickets last year for my girlfriend that broke up with me a week before christmas....i should has sold them to a friend to make back the money.
let the mom hate you. it sucks but theres a good reason you left. eventually the hate turns to indifference when he gets a new girl. all moms hate the one that broke their babys heart stare
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Posted: Sun Dec 30, 2007 8:38 pm
el cabong bah. in the matter of the christmas gifts i would have returned them back to the stores. i wasted some uber hard to get tickets last year for my girlfriend that broke up with me a week before christmas....i should has sold them to a friend to make back the money. let the mom hate you. it sucks but theres a good reason you left. eventually the hate turns to indifference when he gets a new girl. all moms hate the one that broke their babys heart stare
And that's exactly how she was, I'm not even joking.
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Posted: Sun Mar 02, 2008 11:26 pm
The Dread Pirate Ghosty el cabong bah. in the matter of the christmas gifts i would have returned them back to the stores. i wasted some uber hard to get tickets last year for my girlfriend that broke up with me a week before christmas....i should has sold them to a friend to make back the money. let the mom hate you. it sucks but theres a good reason you left. eventually the hate turns to indifference when he gets a new girl. all moms hate the one that broke their babys heart stare
And that's exactly how she was, I'm not even joking.My mom is the opposite...like, she knows im moving to England come October, and shes constantly like "look at that guy! he looks just as good as Tom and in the same state!" GAHH you dumb b***h, he may look...a small amount like tom but it's not tom..>_> She also thinks he's too good for me >_> Why do parents interfere? Why cant they just let you do what you need to do? Grrr..
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Posted: Mon Mar 03, 2008 8:40 am
PiercedPixie56 My mom is the opposite...like, she knows im moving to England come October, and shes constantly like "look at that guy! he looks just as good as Tom and in the same state!" GAHH you dumb b***h, he may look...a small amount like tom but it's not tom..>_> She also thinks he's too good for me >_> Why do parents interfere? Why cant they just let you do what you need to do? Grrr..
I really wish I hadn't gotten myself in this situation. gonk crying
But even though my mom has always liked Rob, she's keept pushing me to get a local guy... or if I'm upset "That's what you get for having a long-distance boyfriend"
I don't know if my mom thinks my boyfriends are too good for me... I remember as a kid I was told "Don't you ever want a boyfriend?" because my family seemed to think I couldn't get a date at my larger size... but now I have two at once... so shows how much they know. I think I could probably do better. Rob has told me "You could do better" about himself and I've told him "I could, but I don't want better... I want you."
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Posted: Mon Mar 03, 2008 8:07 pm
The Dread Pirate Ghosty PiercedPixie56 My mom is the opposite...like, she knows im moving to England come October, and shes constantly like "look at that guy! he looks just as good as Tom and in the same state!" GAHH you dumb b***h, he may look...a small amount like tom but it's not tom..>_> She also thinks he's too good for me >_> Why do parents interfere? Why cant they just let you do what you need to do? Grrr..
I really wish I hadn't gotten myself in this situation. gonk crying
But even though my mom has always liked Rob, she's keept pushing me to get a local guy... or if I'm upset "That's what you get for having a long-distance boyfriend"
I don't know if my mom thinks my boyfriends are too good for me... I remember as a kid I was told "Don't you ever want a boyfriend?" because my family seemed to think I couldn't get a date at my larger size... but now I have two at once... so shows how much they know. I think I could probably do better. Rob has told me "You could do better" about himself and I've told him "I could, but I don't want better... I want you."I dont think there is better than my boyfriend, i honestly believe he is the one for me, the one that God put me on this Earth to be with. Though he's an Atheist, he does believe in fate :3 So while we're apart, i just..miss him, no one could ever fill his shoes because they're just too big for any guy around here to handle heart If you really love the long distance guy, why dont you join that guild? I joined it when me and Tom got together for support, it gets hard sometimes =/
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Posted: Tue Mar 04, 2008 6:13 am
PiercedPixie56 I dont think there is better than my boyfriend, i honestly believe he is the one for me, the one that God put me on this Earth to be with. Though he's an Atheist, he does believe in fate :3 So while we're apart, i just..miss him, no one could ever fill his shoes because they're just too big for any guy around here to handle heart If you really love the long distance guy, why dont you join that guild? I joined it when me and Tom got together for support, it gets hard sometimes =/
I don't know if he's just fallen out of puppy love, since he's my first real boyfriend and person who I've ever truly loved... Last night I was talking to him about problems he was having at home, especially with money, and saying how I'd help out... he told me I didn't have to 'cause he'd hurt me... and then said I could if I wanted... but I felt like I was being shut out 'cause he doesn't want me to help him when he may break up with me soon... I told him and that got onto the topic of us and how during his visit things didn't feel like they used to... it felt better being with me than other friends, he loves me in a romantic way... but it's just not as strong... and he doesn't think that's how he's supposed to feel. I'm assuming he feels like at the start of the relationship, minus the blind adoration, when you're just getting to know a person. He and I could keep trying to fix it, I think it's partially stress and he might have a mental problem that's only surfaced in the past 8 months... but I can't make him get tested for it.
Even though we didn't break up last night, I was shaking uncontrolably, my stomach hurt and I felt like vomiting.... I felt like I was physically ill, all over him. After four hours I got decent enough to sleep somewhat... but I'm still pretty bad.
If it had been me who did this, we could have fixed it... but with him I don't know... if I give him up now, in a few years we might not talk to one another and we won't get back together... or even if we do, he might have just moved on... as that's what his family does.
I figure it's about time for me to let him go, and maybe we'll end up together like I want someday... but I'm not counting on it.
Sorry, that's more of an pity party than I meant to post, but I can't get ahold of any of my friends right now sweatdrop
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Posted: Tue Mar 04, 2008 6:40 pm
I'd keep the presents. A gift is a gift.
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Posted: Tue Mar 04, 2008 6:51 pm
RyoBeat I'd keep the presents. A gift is a gift.
...But I actually talked it out with him and I realized I've been acting more like his mother than his girlfriend, so I'm hoping to correct that and see if we can't get back to where we're comfortable with one another.
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Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 6:51 pm
The Dread Pirate Ghosty RyoBeat I'd keep the presents. A gift is a gift.
...But I actually talked it out with him and I realized I've been acting more like his mother than his girlfriend, so I'm hoping to correct that and see if we can't get back to where we're comfortable with one another.Don't you have two boyfriends? Which one is this? GAHH, i spend a lot of time in Life Issues and Lifestyle Discussion, if you need to rant or someone to listen, feel free to PM me and i'll give you one of my messengers :3
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Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 9:15 pm
PiercedPixie56 The Dread Pirate Ghosty RyoBeat I'd keep the presents. A gift is a gift.
...But I actually talked it out with him and I realized I've been acting more like his mother than his girlfriend, so I'm hoping to correct that and see if we can't get back to where we're comfortable with one another.Don't you have two boyfriends? Which one is this? GAHH, i spend a lot of time in Life Issues and Lifestyle Discussion, if you need to rant or someone to listen, feel free to PM me and i'll give you one of my messengers :3
The one in my siggy is the one who I want to stay with, but who we're having to work out issues... I think we've just waited too long... so many people get married after a year or less... we've gotten used to dating, so when the problems finally come we don't have marriage to force him to try to work on things. But he's trying now, it's just harder when there's less to keep him around, and we're long-distance.
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