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 Posted: Sat Dec 15, 2007 2:56 pm
BASICALLY
OVER THE PAST MONTH
MY MOM WENT CRAZY, FOR ALL OF YOU WHO DON'T KNOW
AND FOUND PILLS AND CIGARETTES IN MY BAG, AND SHE THINKS I'M SUICIDAL AND THAT I HAVE AN EATING DISORDER
SO, MY PARENTS DIDN'T TRUST ME, AND WE WERE TYPE OF PISSED OFF AT EACH OTHER
And like, that type of s**t
So, last night I come home drunk
Lots of drama
My dads yelling and s**t, and like, they knew I was lying, so I just gave up, and told the truth
I told him that I went to this kid Rich's house, and his older brother was there, and we were drinking
My parents got really upset (alcoholism runs in my family)
This morning, my dad went with Nicole's dad to Rich's house, freaked the ******** out, scared the s**t out of everyone
I'm grounded, obviously
I'm sneaking on right now
My parents don't know how long I'm grounded for, so I dunno when I'll talk to anyone here
I wouldn't be making such a big deal out of it,
But like, Nicole and I are both fed up with this s**t
Don't get me wrong, I understand my parents care about me, but I really can't stand living in this house anymore, and neither can she with her parents
We have a friend that went to our school last year but he moved, and his mom is pretty chill
He said we could stay with him
We'd get jobs, and I'll be 18 in two years, so we would be able to move out
I have about $600 in the bank that I can get
I know it's stupid, but whatever, what else do we have to lose?
I know you guys are going to try to talk me out of it, but chances are I won't even read it, my laptop's been taken away
I wouldn't be making such a big deal out of this, but I don't know when I'm going to talk to any of you again
Honestly, we probably won't go through with it, but, I just wanted to tell you all I love you, and if you don't hear from me for a while, I'll be okay :3
Don't text me, because my mom has my phone, but I'll have it monday during school :3
But if we go, I'll have my phone with me
I LOVE YOU ALL <333333
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Posted: Sat Dec 15, 2007 5:33 pm
Aw, man, Scooby. Well, I guess, with the way things were going, it was probably inevitable, right? I'm sorry things happened the way they did, though, still.
This is a...blargh kind of predicament. But I'm here for you, y'know, message me any time. I'll give you and and all advice I can think of for moving out young; I've gotten kicked out before, I've gotten fed up and walked out of the house before...so, I've [unfortunately] got some experience in the matter. But I'd like to pass on whatever knowledge you might find useful. I want you to have the best chance out there if you do decide to leave home.
Ilu, girly.
You take care of yourself!
I'll miss you.
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Posted: Sat Dec 15, 2007 6:08 pm
That's shitty.
I mean, real shitty.
I'll pray to Zeus for you, eh?
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Posted: Tue Dec 18, 2007 4:03 pm
Scooby, if you were to move out right now, it could probably be one of the dumbest things you oculd do. :B I'm not being sympathetic here, just 'cause I'm a nark, I guess.
Mainly, if you were to leave home right now without any sort of legal arrangements with your guardians, it would be against the law. Your parents would use the police to try and find you, and no matter how chill this other mom is, I don't think she'll want to be nursing two runaways.
Your parents are only upset, because they feel like a lot of what they tried to teach as a child has gone to crap, and they don't want to slide downhill from here because they HAVE experienced relatives destroy themselves through alcoholism. I'm very much against it too, because I've had the same experiences, and I don't know how far off you are from being alcoholic. It's also illegal to drink underage, and to smoke underage, and possibly to take whatever pills you have. >.>;
I'd recommend slowing down with all of the partying and drinking and stuff to patch things up with your parents. Chances are, your high school friends won't be around you for that much longer, but your parents are always going to be your parents. Say, if you wanted to get married, who would you invite to the wedding? Who would walk you down the aisle? The father that you ran away from because you couldn't stand that he was trying to protect you?
srry, I just have some serious issues with a lot of teenage rebellion nowadays.
>.>;
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Posted: Sat Dec 22, 2007 6:52 am
Mkay, well, I'm still grounded but I found where my mom hid the laptop :'D
And, I'm not going to that kids house. But we might be going over the summer, it depends if s**t gets worse :3
Thanks everyone for like, not yelling at me and everything :3
I really do appreciate it
And KC, I really do get what you're saying
I don't even know how to explain why I felt/still feel like I needed to do this
But, I'm not going for now, so :3
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Posted: Sat Dec 22, 2007 11:03 am
Manduh Bear Mkay, well, I'm still grounded but I found where my mom hid the laptop :'D And, I'm not going to that kids house. But we might be going over the summer, it depends if s**t gets worse :3 Thanks everyone for like, not yelling at me and everything :3 I really do appreciate it And KC, I really do get what you're saying I don't even know how to explain why I felt/still feel like I needed to do this But, I'm not going for now, so :3 xD
Well, I was just yelling with LOVE.
I just think it'd be better to live with parents that care about your safety and well-being, than with someone who doesn't really give a s**t.
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