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 Posted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 6:05 pm
Here is the scenario~
My brother yells up the stairs that
dinner is ready, so I yell back that
I am doing my homework. Five minutes
later he yells that dinner is ready once again,
then I tell him I am still doing my homework.
So, I head downstairs, and I said that I told
him the first time I was doing my homework,
then he goes "No she didn't! SHE DIDN'T SAY
ANYTHING!" He was saying this towards my
my mother. My brother loves to assume that
he is the righteous one at all times. Then he starts
yelling like "YOU SHOULD SHUT UP! STOP MAKING
UP THINGS!" Then I started to head up back to my
room, I didn't want to waste my time with that crap.
So I went "Anger Issues..." aloud so he could
hear me. Guess what he replies back with?
"WELL ******** YOU!"
My mom does the "Hey hey! Don't you ever say that!"
blah blah blah...
My parents believe he doesn't have anger issues.
I believe he does.
My brother is 14, has a tendency to throw things,
yell, and hurt people (like pushing, pulling hair,
and punching) when he gets angry.
What do you guys think?
=.='
(Scenario happened ten minutes ago.)
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Posted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 6:12 pm
Anger issues. Have a heart-to-heart discussion with your mom. Cry if she doesn't believe you.
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Posted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 6:36 pm
Anael De Ezra Anger issues. Have a heart-to-heart discussion with your mom. Cry if she doesn't believe you.
but I guess I could try that?
o.O
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Posted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 6:53 pm
I agree with Ezzy. Break out the pepper or eye drops if necessary.
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Posted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 7:09 pm
Guccigirl247 Anael De Ezra Anger issues. Have a heart-to-heart discussion with your mom. Cry if she doesn't believe you.
but I guess I could try that?
o.O Well, you have to make her believe you, or at least put the thought in her head.
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Posted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 7:21 pm
I think he's a teenager. He's meant to be angry and freak out over the smallest thing. ESPECIALLY at home. Its what 14 yr olds do <3 I would just strongly dislike him and ignore him as much as possible. Because thats what siblings do.
If he doesnt chill out in the next 8 or 9 years, then I would consider getting him some help.
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Posted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 9:17 pm
I would agree with Nymphie on this one.
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Posted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 9:31 pm
Just because someone's got an inclination to be angry doesn't mean that they have to give in... er... I guess what I mean to say, in application to your scenario is that if you let him get away with his anger now, then in 8 or 9 years, he really won't know what to do... So, let your mom know and make sure that you yourself take a firm stance when he overreacts so that he has to suffer some kind of consequences for his actions... It won't fix him, but it will get him to *eventually* realize that he needs to cool it...
And I'm not so sure about the crying thing... I mean, if you feel the need to cry, then let it out, no use holding it in... but fake tears... errrrrr... >_>( )
And the next time he says "******** you" say something snappy back... like "I ain't into incest" or something really... demeaning towards him... he might get the idea better that way if he sees just how much bite his language has... But don't get into a little kiddish argument with him? o_O( )
Iono... my little brother's younger, and when he acts up I either ignore him, or break out the "Boot Camp Sergent Voice From Hell"... or maybe something that really gets him, like take the wireless adapter from his compy...
And yes, my mom's chastised me for doing the voice thingy... no, it's not pretty either... o_o
But, if I were you, I'd do something close to what Ezzy said, but with Nymphie's expectations... ^_^( )
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Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 11:38 am
Nymphiedora I think he's a teenager. He's meant to be angry and freak out over the smallest thing. ESPECIALLY at home. Its what 14 yr olds do <3 I would just strongly dislike him and ignore him as much as possible. Because thats what siblings do.
If he doesnt chill out in the next 8 or 9 years, then I would consider getting him some help. Exactly what I think! He just an average teen male, aka a*****e to most people.
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Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 8:46 pm
I was going to say that its immaturity rather than an anger problem. If he can't learn to accept that he was wrong or made a mistake and instead resorts to yelling, throwing tantrums, and doing childish acts of violence at the age of 14, then he just needs to grow up.
But then I read what Nymphie wrote and pretty much agree'd.
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Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 9:36 pm
You should smack him on the head and call him a shithead... It's what my older sister did to me and just look how I turned out. blaugh
I don't agree with Nymphie though, teenage boys are the kindest individuals you will ever encounter. They come second in kindness only to princesses... the fairy tale ones. 3nodding
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