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Posted: Tue Dec 11, 2007 12:41 pm
do you think everyone has a soul mate?? do you think everyone will find their soul mate eventually?? maybe soul mates don't actually exist?? perhaps you think that only a few people ever find true love?? is it fate to find your soul mate?? or do you have to search for them?? what do you think?? xX
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Posted: Tue Dec 11, 2007 1:08 pm
I think people are capable of falling in love multiple times in their lives and that each time feels unique, as tho it's 'meant to be'. but I dont believe there is one single person *meant* for each of us. I think if you find true love and it is returned in kind, you are lucky. many people find this, so many are lucky.
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Posted: Tue Dec 11, 2007 1:20 pm
funky_fudge_monkey do you think everyone has a soul mate?? do you think everyone will find their soul mate eventually?? maybe soul mates don't actually exist?? perhaps you think that only a few people ever find true love?? is it fate to find your soul mate?? or do you have to search for them?? what do you think?? xX 1. Yes 2. Not evry one 3. they do exist 4. Love comes, love goes. But when you say "I do" Your saying this one is "The One" "Soul mate" doesn't mean that that person is your/should be your significant other. I think a soul mate is someone who competes you, who opens up the other side of you, who helps you to find out who you are.
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Posted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 6:19 am
I firmly believe that everyone in this world has a soulmate, and that every is capable of finding them is there willing to put forth the effort. Anything that precious and rare isn't something easily discovered and you're liable to spend many years and many tears looking for them.
The other end of that is once you have found you're soulmate, you have to be willing to fight to keep them around. They may be your soulmate, but first and foremost they are still a person, and like every person on this planet there are going to be things about them that drive you completely insane.
That's what I think anywho.......
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Posted: Tue Dec 18, 2007 1:05 am
You would have to have slight relgious beliefs to think there are soul mates... Because of the use of the word soul... I'm not a relgious person... So I think there isn't such a thing as soul mates... But I guess you can still find someone you are willing to spend you life with...
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Posted: Tue Dec 18, 2007 11:06 am
I believe that certain souls connect better than others, so I do believe in soul mates. How can you possibly hope to find one soul among thousands? It takes a lot of time, and it's possible you'll never find the person, so it's best to settle for someone who you love. Love is in certain ways different from a soul mate because you can love someone deeply even if they aren't your soul mate.
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Posted: Tue Dec 18, 2007 12:06 pm
I don't know if everyone has a soulmate, but I know I've found mine, and we are very much in love. I think we will be together forever smile we're just so perfect
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Posted: Sat Dec 29, 2007 12:53 pm
Well I don't believe there's one person that you must stay with because they're your one and only perfect match. I do belive that you can have someone almost perfect for you that you can make perfect. Not by changing them but by accepting them. Really, mot people aren't perfect and if you keep searching for that perfect person perfect for you you'll be searching forever.
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Posted: Sat Dec 29, 2007 1:15 pm
Guardian1239 I believe that certain souls connect better than others, so I do believe in soul mates. How can you possibly hope to find one soul among thousands? It takes a lot of time, and it's possible you'll never find the person, so it's best to settle for someone who you love. Love is in certain ways different from a soul mate because you can love someone deeply even if they aren't your soul mate. ok, on the premise that there is such a thing as a soul mate, if you love someone deeply and unconditionally, how do you know they're not your soul mate? just curious.
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Posted: Sat Dec 29, 2007 5:21 pm
I don't think there's such a thing as a "soul mate" as in there's only one person out there for you and if you never meet that one person you'll never know true love. It just seems impractical to me. What if your only soul mate was on the other side of the world, how could you possibly go about finding that one person in your lifetime? Instead I think we have multiple people scattered around all over the place we're compatible with (some more than others) and we have the potential to fall in love with any one of those people. I don't think there's just one person out there for each of us, I think there's many. We just choose to stay with one for our lifetime. And I don't think this makes the concept of finding someone you can concieve of living with forever and not killing any less romantic or special. It just gives everyone a better chance of finding someone suitable for them to be with.
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Posted: Sun Dec 30, 2007 8:19 am
unrequietedCat I don't think there's such a thing as a "soul mate" as in there's only one person out there for you and if you never meet that one person you'll never know true love. It just seems impractical to me. What if your only soul mate was on the other side of the world, how could you possibly go about finding that one person in your lifetime? Instead I think we have multiple people scattered around all over the place we're compatible with (some more than others) and we have the potential to fall in love with any one of those people. I don't think there's just one person out there for each of us, I think there's many. We just choose to stay with one for our lifetime. And I don't think this makes the concept of finding someone you can concieve of living with forever and not killing any less romantic or special. It just gives everyone a better chance of finding someone suitable for them to be with. I agree. as I said, one is capable of falling in love several times in ones life, and each time seems different and unique. and perhaps to an extent it is, because there are different aspects that could be attractive distinct from person to person.. but the point is, in general, there are many "mr and mrs Right's" out there.
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Posted: Sun Dec 30, 2007 10:03 pm
well seeing as I dont believe in "true love" or "love at first sight", I would have to say no, there is no soulmates.........
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Posted: Mon Dec 31, 2007 10:57 am
I have to say that everyone has a soul-mate, but not everyone will find them in one lifetime or another. And also I beleive that soul-mates don't HAVE to be lovers, but can also just be friends who understand eachother perfectly to the point that they may as well be the same person at times. I do believe in true love as well, but not love at first sight.
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Posted: Mon Dec 31, 2007 12:40 pm
do you think everyone has a soul mate?? Yes. do you think everyone will find their soul mate eventually?? Yes. I agree, that its not necessarily a lover maybe soul mates don't actually exist?? maybe. There's no certain way of knowing it as a fact. perhaps you think that only a few people ever find true love?? At the time ppl think they are madly in love but once they get the opportunity to step back and evaluate themselves they see it was love to a degree but not true love. What's true love to that person? Its just hard to know until u can evaluate yourself and what you want out of that person and what that person wants out of you. I've been "in love" a few times but now that I look at it it was just me being childish n wanting to fall in love. I was more in love w/the idea of being in love n not the person. is it fate to find your soul mate?? or do you have to search for them?? Its a little bit of both. When I met my husband it felt weird. Like I wasn't physically too attracted to him but there was something about him that I couldn't keep away from him. I just wanted to be friends, though. Nothing more. We've stepped back a few times and analysed how we met n the things going on in our lives then and now and it really does feel like we were meant to be and we're very happy where we are.You cant just expect love to happem because once you find it you have to nurture it but I do think that when you find it is when you're least looking for it.
I hope I make sence cuz sometimes I'm bad at explaining myself.
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Posted: Wed Jan 02, 2008 12:25 am
- The Dying Messiah - I have to say that everyone has a soul-mate, but not everyone will find them in one lifetime or another. And also I beleive that soul-mates don't HAVE to be lovers, but can also just be friends who understand eachother perfectly to the point that they may as well be the same person at times. I do believe in true love as well, but not love at first sight. well going by the friends thing, yeah, I guess I have actually found that person. but as for love, I believe in a strong feeling for those close to you(family, friends, etc) and I believe in lust (if that lust is returned, then it is what is considered "love at first sight") but not necissarilly love as a whole........
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