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 Posted: Fri Dec 07, 2007 5:57 pm
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Posted: Fri Dec 07, 2007 6:00 pm
i think it depends on why you choose to doit. just for lust, or because your madly in love, and are oing to marry this person.
also is it right to have sex with more than one girl..or boy.
i think you should lose your virginety to the person you love, and not to anyone else, and you shouldn't have sex with everyone else.
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Posted: Fri Dec 07, 2007 6:36 pm
Music I think you have to be careful who your giving yourself up to. It's a very emotionally deep thing. i personally think It should only be for someone you love deeply. The Universal Language
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Posted: Fri Dec 07, 2007 7:16 pm
I personally think that it doesn't matter.
Whether you have sex before or after marriage doesn't really affect you.
The only thing is if you have sex before marriage and get pregnant, that kind of sucks. That's the only thing most people are worried about nowadays.
Other than their religion being the cause of abstinence before marriage.
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Posted: Fri Dec 07, 2007 8:32 pm
true it is very emotionally deep. i agree.
and well, if you don't go whoring around, then you don't get pregnant. not only that, but if it hapens with some one you love, then it won't matter. if you have sex, then you accept the fact that she could get pregnant.
but .. ahh! lol
just if you do get pregnant, then don't gen a freaking abortion! it's horrible.
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Posted: Fri Dec 07, 2007 8:45 pm
Abortion is to be discussed in another topic. My opinion on this, however, is that sex before marriage is absolutely fine, as long as you have known them for a good amount of time. surprised
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Posted: Sat Dec 08, 2007 6:09 am
i don't think it is fine. yo ushouldn't just have sex to have it. there's more involved. and you should love the person it's with. not only that but *off topic?* isn't it against many religions to have sex before marrige.
i must say i don't agree, but the human part of me already agreed, and i wish i could had controled it. sex leads to babys. it shouldn't happen if you know that you don't want babys.
sex was created for repopulation, not pleasuer. and wouldn't it be wrong to have an... ?surprise?.. before your married and settled, i understand it happens,. and if it should happen to the couple or whoever, they shouldn't run away from the consiquences. they should accept responsibilty for their actions and deal with it. *back on topic*
i guess people are people, and it is addctive and we can't control it. wrong or right, it happens..
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Posted: Sat Dec 08, 2007 9:59 am
Toastes i don't think it is fine. yo ushouldn't just have sex to have it. there's more involved. and you should love the person it's with. not only that but *off topic?* isn't it against many religions to have sex before marrige. i must say i don't agree, but the human part of me already agreed, and i wish i could had controled it. sex leads to babys. it shouldn't happen if you know that you don't want babys. sex was created for repopulation, not pleasuer. and wouldn't it be wrong to have an... ?surprise?.. before your married and settled, i understand it happens,. and if it should happen to the couple or whoever, they shouldn't run away from the consiquences. they should accept responsibilty for their actions and deal with it. *back on topic* i guess people are people, and it is addctive and we can't control it. wrong or right, it happens.. You know that there is far more sex in the world that is performed for pleasure than for babies, correct? It has nothing to do with addiction, however it is a sign of love and passion towards you partner.
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Posted: Sat Dec 08, 2007 6:04 pm
i do realize this. and there is nothing that can sto it. it could be adultry. which means one isn't married.. o crud.. oops both can be married.. umm
dang ima lose.
well what makes sex before marrige wrong, is the fact that you should be married with the person you love, making it right. o and doesn't it defeat the whole idea?
it isn't wrongif you are in love, like will marry for sure.
i dono? any one else on my side?
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Posted: Sat Dec 08, 2007 6:35 pm
Toastes i do realize this. and there is nothing that can sto it. it could be adultry. which means one isn't married.. o crud.. oops both can be married.. umm dang ima lose. well what makes sex before marrige wrong, is the fact that you should be married with the person you love, making it right. o and doesn't it defeat the whole idea? it isn't wrongif you are in love, like will marry for sure. i dono? any one else on my side? But you can love someone before marriage. Wouldn't you have to love someone before you get married? Why would you marry someone that you don't love yet?
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Posted: Sat Dec 08, 2007 6:39 pm
what about arranged marrige?
wait arn't we getting off topic..
ok your right.
whic leadsno love no sex, no marrige. you shouldn't love for sex, but you shouldn't do it if you love, and if ou love, then you marrie. so it leads to sex before marrige.
you shoud marry the one person.
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Posted: Sat Dec 08, 2007 6:55 pm
Toastes what about arranged marrige? wait arn't we getting off topic.. ok your right. whic leadsno love no sex, no marrige. you shouldn't love for sex, but you shouldn't do it if you love, and if ou love, then you marrie. so it leads to sex before marrige. you shoud marry the one person. I can't understand half of what you just wrote. >_< And you just contradicted yourself there, too. So you can only have sex when you love the person and are married. Arranged marriages generally do not result in any true love. Most arranged marriages also occur at the age of thirteen. The rest of what you wrote there, I can't even comprehend.
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Posted: Sat Dec 08, 2007 7:03 pm
haah ha..
ok so is sex before marrage ok or wrong in your opion?
iti it is, but then again.., i hav no room to talk.
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Posted: Sat Dec 08, 2007 7:42 pm
Toastes i don't think it is fine. yo ushouldn't just have sex to have it. there's more involved. and you should love the person it's with. not only that but *off topic?* isn't it against many religions to have sex before marrige. i must say i don't agree, but the human part of me already agreed, and i wish i could had controled it. sex leads to babys. it shouldn't happen if you know that you don't want babys. sex was created for repopulation, not pleasuer. and wouldn't it be wrong to have an... ?surprise?.. before your married and settled, i understand it happens,. and if it should happen to the couple or whoever, they shouldn't run away from the consiquences. they should accept responsibilty for their actions and deal with it. *back on topic* i guess people are people, and it is addctive and we can't control it. wrong or right, it happens..
And you know, humans aren't the only animals that have sex for pleasure.
dolphins have sex for pleasure. that doesn't make it wrong.
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Posted: Sat Dec 08, 2007 8:35 pm
thats way off topic. dolphins arn't people, and they have babys every time! unless your going to invent the dolphin condom.
and they don't get married. don't compare a fish creature to humans..
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