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Taormina

PostPosted: Wed Dec 05, 2007 10:50 pm


Hello, girls of the PPS.
I think I need your help.

You see, I have this major crush on a guy, *Bob.
It all started six and a half months ago when we went on a little walk and chatted about school and the new haircut of one of my friends.

I've always thought he liked me back.
I can't explain it, but it was sorta my intuition telling me he liked me back.
Even in tenth grade, when we got into different classes, he spoke to me after school and sometimes we'd even walk to the train station together.
But somehow I got this feeling he's ignoring me.
You see, a couple of days ago, on my way home, he was walking, like, six metres behind me without even speaking to me.
Like he didn't notice me. - yeah, right -
And I'm pretty shy when it comes to boys so I was terrified to let him know I noticed he was "following" me.

I want to let Bob know I like him, but on the other hand I don't.
I don't want certain people to find out I like him, 'cause I'm sure that would cause me - or perhaps him - trouble.
Let's just say I can't get along very well with some of his friends.
That and I'm very shy.
I can hardly speak when I'm near him.

Anyway; I don't know what to do.
Should I tell him?
Should I wait?

Thanks in advance,
Taormina (a very confused girl lol )
PostPosted: Wed Dec 05, 2007 11:01 pm



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When I read that
I thought of the movie anchorman
Where Steve Carrel was yelling for no reason
So I would be like
'I LIKE YOU LOUD NOISES AH!1!1329084290-"

Well for me, how I told my guy
Like we talked, like you do with him
Then I told him online...
'Cause it was hard to say it out loud
But then there's always this painful
Anxiety of just waiting for his reply...
D:

Or I'd give him a note...
But then he could pretend like he never read it
Or just lost it D:

I would look him in the eyes
And write it down
And make him read it in front of you :3
That way you know his initial response and such

It's haaard...
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Breathless Zephyr


Taormina

PostPosted: Wed Dec 05, 2007 11:23 pm


Breathless Zephyr

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Well for me, how I told my guy
Like we talked, like you do with him
Then I told him online...
'Cause it was hard to say it out loud
But then there's always this painful
Anxiety of just waiting for his reply...
D:
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I could do that.
But like I said, I can hardly talk when he's near.
(it's annoying)
And unfortunately I don't have his MSN. lol

Breathless Zephyr

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Or I'd give him a note...
But then he could pretend like he never read it
Or just lost it D:
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I could put a note in his locker. cool
But then I'd first have to find the janitor and let him open Bob's locker without someone noticing it.

Anyway, thanks a lot.
This helps. :3
PostPosted: Thu Dec 06, 2007 4:06 am




To be honest, just because he didn't speak to you that day doesn't mean he doesn't like you. He just might have been very preoccupied thinking about something [school, friends, work, family, etc...] or he might have been in a bad mood. I know that when I'm in a bad mood, I try to avoid speaking to anyone because I get very snippy. Maybe he was trying to spare hurting your feelings or something like that? Anyway, the point is, there are other possible reasons for why he didn't talk to you.

Can you send him an e-mail? Maybe you could get it from one of his friends, or does your school happen to have e-mail for its students? You could write a note but instead of putting it in his locker, leave it on his desk, in his backpack, or just give it to him. You could also write a note and leave it in his mailbox, if you know where he lives [do you know his parents name? The address may be in the phone book]. Could you maybe leave him a message on the phone or his cell phone? Maybe it would be easier to talk if you weren't talking to him directly.



Sailor_Chibi


Taormina

PostPosted: Thu Dec 06, 2007 8:28 am


Sailor_Chibi


To be honest, just because he didn't speak to you that day doesn't mean he doesn't like you. He just might have been very preoccupied thinking about something [school, friends, work, family, etc...] or he might have been in a bad mood. I know that when I'm in a bad mood, I try to avoid speaking to anyone because I get very snippy. Maybe he was trying to spare hurting your feelings or something like that? Anyway, the point is, there are other possible reasons for why he didn't talk to you.

Can you send him an e-mail? Maybe you could get it from one of his friends, or does your school happen to have e-mail for its students? You could write a note but instead of putting it in his locker, leave it on his desk, in his backpack, or just give it to him. You could also write a note and leave it in his mailbox, if you know where he lives [do you know his parents name? The address may be in the phone book]. Could you maybe leave him a message on the phone or his cell phone? Maybe it would be easier to talk if you weren't talking to him directly.



I'm so stupid.
I didn't even think about the "bad day" option. lol

I've searched for his adress in the telephone book before - well, my parents did - and I couldn't find it.
And we do have school mailboxes - two, actually.
It's pretty easy to find out one's school e-mail address, so I might consider sending him a mail.
But first I'll wait and see what happens tomorrow.

Thanks so much!
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