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 Posted: Mon Dec 03, 2007 2:40 pm
Oi Vey. My friend has turned on me. And now she calls me immature because I tell my mother what is going on in my life at school. I mean
I don't have much anywhere else to turn. My other friends are stressed out to the nines. I want to go to boarding school now but she calls me a baby for running away from my problems. I'm running away from a sad future is what I'm running away from. Being here much longer...I don't think i could weather it. D:
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Posted: Mon Dec 03, 2007 3:56 pm
Forget her. I think it's great that you have that kind of relationship with your mom! I she doesn't seem like a very good friend.
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Posted: Mon Dec 03, 2007 3:58 pm
No...No she isn't. D;
She's how I got a failing grade.
It's my other friends that are making me an A student again. But I'm probably leaving them all behind soon. sweatdrop
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Posted: Mon Dec 03, 2007 4:00 pm
Aw, I'm sorry. :c
Have you tried confronting her about everything? You know, actually sitting down and having a heart - to - heart chat? It sounds like your friend isn't behaving like a friend should, but give her the benefit of the doubt and find out exactly why. It could be that she just doesn't want you to go and wants you to stay here? Its a longshot, but. D;
And its great that you can confide in your mom like that. 3nodding I really can't with mine - too many things she wouldn't approve of, for one, and we just don't have that kind of relationship - so don't let what your friend has to say drag you down.
I hope it works out for you. ;c
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Posted: Mon Dec 03, 2007 4:04 pm
That was her heart to heart.
She doesn't want me to leave.
But the big thing is she wants
me to stay and suffer rather
than get on with my life and actually
be happy, even if it means
not being here. That is what
upsets me. She called me
that because she's been
very upset lately but we all
have and trying to console
each other hasn't worked at all.
I am in fact trying to leave
but it's the fact that if I do, she's
going to try to guilt trip me.
She keeps telling me that
i'm leaving behind a school full of
friends. If all of those are friends,
i'd hate to see enemies. OnO
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Posted: Mon Dec 03, 2007 4:05 pm
...And...
You call this person your friend?
confused
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Posted: Mon Dec 03, 2007 4:06 pm
Ahh, I see, then. :c I'm sorry, Volly. gonk
You'll always have your PPS friends, though! <3
It doesn't sound like she's quite got the hang of that whole 'friends' thing, so. sad I'm sorry.
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Posted: Mon Dec 03, 2007 4:08 pm
Well I'm back,
Mostly anyway.
I don't call her
my friend any-
more. I just call
her an acquaintence.
Seems most friends
have bailed and the
ones I have left feel
the way I do and want
to leave as well. It
seems we might all
be parting ways. It's sad
but very true. It saddens
me very much but it's the truth.
T__T
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Posted: Mon Dec 03, 2007 4:08 pm
Sokay. Thanks for the support guys.
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Posted: Mon Dec 03, 2007 10:12 pm
o-x; I wish I had that kind of relationship with my mom. Most girls do, though. My mom just drinks and harasses me and "drunk dials" my number and harasses me on the phone... =o=
If you wanna go to boarding school, then that's your choice and your friend should respect you for it and support you. She isn't a real friend if she can't even accept what you want to do with your life. If you're trying to save yourself, then by all means do it! But don't let the words of your so-called "friend" get in the way of that.
<3
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Posted: Tue Dec 04, 2007 11:19 am
Ugh, what a
terrible friend.
I wish I could
tell everything
to my mom, but
she'd just nod
her head and
say "yeah, whatever"
You should go to
boarding school.
It's not like you'll
never be able to
go back, and it's
always good just
to get away when
you feel like you
can't handle it.
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Posted: Tue Dec 04, 2007 11:26 am
I think it's great that you have sucha relationship with your mother. Most girls nowadays are no where near that, and are always hiding things which lead to bad situations and awkward confrontations and such.
As for your friend? She doesn't seem so much of a good friend, stick to the ones that encourage you to do well and such.
n_n
Boarding school? It's not exactly running away from your problems, because those never seem to go away until you confront them. It's just fresh air kinda xD And I'm sure you'll maintain a good friendship with your other friends regardless of where you're schooling.
n_n
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Posted: Tue Dec 04, 2007 2:18 pm
I hope that everything works out for you! =]
Don't let this "friend" bother you, good friends stick up for each other.
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Posted: Tue Dec 04, 2007 2:44 pm
This person isn't your friend anymore. She's more concerned about her well being than yours, which is being selfish. Especially if she is the cause of some of your failing grades. Honestly, I'd cut all ties with her. It's better to disassociate yourself with her now instead of later.
It's great that you have such a close relationship with your mother. I wish I had that, but I don't.
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Posted: Tue Dec 04, 2007 3:31 pm
Aw, Miss Voli. Sorry to hear that things aren't going so smoothly.
Basically, everyone who's posted here is right. Your friend isn't being very supportive at all. You get one life, Voli. Do what you need to do to make it a good one.
It really is wonderful that you have a good relationship with your mom. <3 Mine's a b***h, so I avoid talking to her. XD But go you!
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