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 Posted: Thu Nov 29, 2007 6:13 am
(its kind of a gaia dating situation, please be respectful and help....)
well my x boyfriend Steven has a friend her name is Katie, she has just recently started dating my x boyfriend named Tim. well normally I would not care at all, but Tim is a cheater, me and Steven think he is using Katie on the count of she has given him, an OMFG, A ninja headband, 195k, A heart mood bubble, Mithril armor, Guitar of demona. When i went out with Tim he kind of "sweet" talked me into giving him a Dark Halo, And a Coco, We have proof that Katie is getting cheated on......but when we tried to tell katie she was like "yeah well i will ask Tim" and Tim denies it all.
Steven tells me i have to do someting, but i have told him time after time she wont listen to me(this has happened more than once i have tried to help over 10 people and the same thing happens) another of my friends Neko says "just let her crash and burn, you and I both went threw this and we both learned so now its her turn. let it go"
Honestly i don't know what to do anymore ><
help?
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Posted: Thu Nov 29, 2007 3:26 pm
Maybe you could try once more. Just explain it to her again.
If she doesn't listen, then it's her fault because you did warn her.
Then it isn't your fault.
But, whenever she figures out that she is being conned, and gets mad and upset...
Try not to say 'I told you so!'
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Posted: Thu Nov 29, 2007 4:00 pm
Unfortunately in cases like these, people just won't listen. They live under the impression that, even though it happened in the past, it certainly won't happen to them because of whatever reason. If Katie won't listen to you, then there isn't anything you can do.
Even if you don't warn her, it's not "your fault". Similarly, even if she doesn't believe you, it's not "her fault". The fault lies entirely with the cheating jackass Tim. He's the one pulling the wool over her eyes, just like he did to you.
My advice is to try to talk to Katie one more time. If she still can't believe what you're saying, just be ready with open arms when the truth comes crashing down around her.
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Posted: Thu Nov 29, 2007 5:04 pm
Sailor_Chibi
Even if you don't warn her, it's not "your fault". Similarly, even if she doesn't believe you, it's not "her fault". The fault lies entirely with the cheating jackass Tim. He's the one pulling the wool over her eyes, just like he did to you.
It is/was/and never shall be your fault, by warning her you are just trying to help her out, not "fulfilling a duty".
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Posted: Thu Nov 29, 2007 9:10 pm
bash that son of a cheating betch.
Um. Maybe not.
Well i guess you've already told her, so you've done all you can do.
If she wants to believe you or not. It's all up to her.
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Posted: Fri Nov 30, 2007 11:34 am
she ie never going to listen to me no one ever did ><
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Posted: Fri Nov 30, 2007 1:20 pm
My advice for you would
be to just leave her to
fall for his tricks.
Like your friend Neko said.
You've tried to help her,
but she doesn't listen so
there's really nothing you
can do.
When she finds out that
he was using her, be very
supportive. Don't say "I
told you so".
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Posted: Fri Nov 30, 2007 1:26 pm
My friend Erica was in this situation (except not involving Gaia items). A renowned cheater that I knew started dating her. She got mad because she told me he had "changed" because of her. 2 months later she's talking to her friend and she says she's dating HER boyfriend, when she didn't know he was dating Erica, too.
I said "I told you so" and that was that. She knew I was right and she should've listened to me.
If your friend can't take your advice, because you're looking out for her, then it is her fault and not yours. You honestly tried to warn her. Sometimes people get so blinded by love or infatuations in relationships they forget that whole "bros before hos" phrase.
But in our case, it's "chicks before dicks" >.> My little slogan I made up for us womankind xD
Anywho, I do wish you the best of luck. It isn't your fault at all. You're just trying to be her friend, and sometimes being a friend means you have to be blatantly rude to her and tell her that her boyfriend is a lying cheating jerkface D:<
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Posted: Fri Nov 30, 2007 1:55 pm
Asashina But in our case, it's "chicks before dicks" >.> My little slogan I made up for us womankind xD  Grin Evilly says: By far best slogan I have ever heard.
: D ♥♥♥
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Posted: Fri Nov 30, 2007 6:57 pm
Grin Evilly Asashina But in our case, it's "chicks before dicks" >.> My little slogan I made up for us womankind xD By far best slogan I have ever heard.
: D ♥♥♥
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Posted: Sat Dec 01, 2007 3:15 am
Let it go and let her find out just like you did Sweetie
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Posted: Sat Dec 01, 2007 9:12 am
Captain Katinator Grin Evilly Asashina But in our case, it's "chicks before dicks" >.> My little slogan I made up for us womankind xD By far best slogan I have ever heard.
: D ♥♥♥ Here, Here!
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Posted: Sat Dec 01, 2007 9:55 am
[.Volatile.] Captain Katinator Grin Evilly Asashina But in our case, it's "chicks before dicks" >.> My little slogan I made up for us womankind xD By far best slogan I have ever heard.
: D ♥♥♥ Here, Here! 3nodding
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Posted: Sat Dec 01, 2007 10:11 am
He destroyed my life...
You say you have proof right?
If it is on the computer, get a screen shot to show her and make sure that
your computer is displaying the time and date.
If there is more than one of them you can get, the better.
Otherwise, tell me where he lives and I will go kick te crap out of him. razz
Now I will destroy him.
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